'Beware the fury of a patient man'-John Dryden

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Posted: 11 years ago
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" Beware the fury of a patient man". I know everyone is irritated with Aaliya being so patient towards Zain and not hating him like he hates her. I understand that feeling because he is over reacting after having agreed to the Nikaah himself. 😕 But I feel like Aaliya is right for being patient.
There is only a certain amount of crap that a woman takes before giving it back . A day will come when she will leave him, the foreshadowing has been done already - " The puppy left & never returned". That day will be a pleasure to watch because by then Aaliya will have become an addiction for Zain. "Beware the fury of a patient man". When Aaliya is pushed too far, Zain will suffer FAR more than she is suffering now because he will be torn between his Mom, Suraiya and love, Aaliya.To add to that, he will be on a guilt trip for what all he did to her. Aaliya's patience will pay off and her fury will be deadly for Zain to cope with.

What's more attractive and respectable ? A woman patiently trying her best to make her marriage work knowing that it has done HER family a BIG favor ? Or a childish lead who marries a man for her Father's health & dignity but then hates the same man and becomes his partner in ending the marriage ?

A weak woman who marries someone for her family's benefit but then within a week of the marriage, gets easily tired and hates a man who married her in front of everyone even though he wasn't ready for it is not attractive.

Zain did afterall do her a favor at that moment. She is mature and knows that her Nikaah with Zain is the reality of her life now and there is no looking back as per the precap. She is trying to win him over. She made up for the stupidity she showed when Zain used to flirt with her because she wasn't thinking about what that could mean,...and I thought she was stupid. But now, she is a woman of substance with a brain and maturity. Phew, Ok,! I am done 😆


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree with each and every thing u said
Great post
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well said. Aaliya will act but only with maturity, that being said, she will not make haste decisions nor want to hurt anyone. She will be patient but on the other hand will deal with injustice done to her. Guys be patient, abhi if loves starts then there wont be much of a plot. You do realise it's only been one day since thier nikkah.

Some may Zain is being too harsh, but he feels betrayed, lost, confused and forced into something he was not ready for, upper se he is not mature and patient like Aaliya. He is a rich spoilt brat, like it or not. This is his way of showing frustration. Agree the burning of the shirt wasn't a great idea.

I dont think it will be the normal saas-bahu larai, I think it's differnt to the rest, that is her mamu's house, Zain, a guy who saved her father's life and most importantly IZZAT.

Zain is forced to think that about snall town girls, just becuase his mom has been drilling this in his head, and the live and living example of Shazia.
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Thanks guys... Yes, we are watching a journey...not the last episode or destination. It is very realistic for two people to grow as individuals after marriage and then complete each other... That is whats happening here, and I am loving this show. After IPKKND 1, this is the only show that I am addicted to.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well, said!!! I agree with you on everything! She has faith and maturity which will help her a lot, or so I hope.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well put.
Today I noticed that Aliya was quiet but she DID have that accusation in her eyes. This means that she is mad and upset but is choosing to be quiet to somehow calm the situation. However, this won't last too long because this is Aliya Ghulam Haider we're talking about.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Inferno-

Well put.

Today I noticed that Aliya was quiet but she DID have that accusation in her eyes. This means that she is mad and upset but is choosing to be quiet to somehow calm the situation. However, this won't last too long because this is Aliya Ghulam Haider we're talking about.


Thank you 😊 Yes, I saw that surprise in her eyes when Suraiya was lying. Soon that surprise and patience will turn into fury and get unleashed. If she can slap Zeeshan on her Nikaah in front of his parents then she can stay within the bounds of respect and give Suraiya a taste of her own medicine too.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I just hope she did not buy that "baahar wala guest room" ...coz after all even chand bi came looking for her...

Or else she will even start mistrusting chand bi...I just hope Aaliya is more careful...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very nice post, I agree Aliya has always been the mature one and she is being patient, but soon that patience will run out hopefully after the Waleema and then she wont be that quiet anymore.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Buttercup007

Very well said. Aaliya will act but only with maturity, that being said, she will not make haste decisions nor want to hurt anyone. She will be patient but on the other hand will deal with injustice done to her. Guys be patient, abhi if loves starts then there wont be much of a plot. You do realise it's only been one day since thier nikkah.

Some may Zain is being too harsh, but he feels betrayed, lost, confused and forced into something he was not ready for, upper se he is not mature and patient like Aaliya. He is a rich spoilt brat, like it or not. This is his way of showing frustration. Agree the burning of the shirt wasn't a great idea.

I dont think it will be the normal saas-bahu larai, I think it's differnt to the rest, that is her mamu's house, Zain, a guy who saved her father's life and most importantly IZZAT.

Zain is forced to think that about snall town girls, just becuase his mom has been drilling this in his head, and the live and living example of Shazia.

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