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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AshRun



Hopefully , they will do something useful with the bigamy thing. Yeah, I understand how it is for some people to accept the cousins part. Zain and Aaliya are not blood related so it's fine with me. They could have avoided that also, but then it is a common occurence in Muslim families.Glad you liked the epi too, thanks for replying :)



The cousin marriage scenario still happens, but it is becoming more uncommon. Not only because it's a social taboo but also because several biological problems occur with first cousins getting married. More people are becoming aware of that now. So Zain and Aaliya are not blood related? But isn't Zain Aaliya's mamu's son?
Edited by imli123 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I really liked the episode today
at first, i also thought that the chemistry wouldn't be that good, but after the precap i was just like wow
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: imli123



The cousin marriage scenario still happens, but it is becoming more uncommon. Not only because it's a social taboo but also because several biological problems occur with first cousins getting married. More people are becoming aware of that now. So Zain and Aaliya are not blood related? But isn't Zain Aaliya's mamu's son?



Yes Usman is Aaliya's Mamu.
And Zain & Aaliya are cousins.
But it can be also that Usman is not Aaliya's own Mamu.
I mean it could be that he's actually a cousin of Aaliya's mom.
But frankly speaking now a days I see very less muslim ppl getting married to his or her own cousins.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -...mohini...-



Yes Usman is Aaliya's Mamu.
And Zain & Aaliya are cousins.
But it can be also that Usman is not Aaliya's own Mamu.
I mean it could be that he's actually a cousin of Aaliya's mom.
But frankly speaking now a days I see very less muslim ppl getting married to his or her own cousins.



Oh I see. You're right. I think it's a little stereotypical on their part to show the cousin marriage and bigamy. As a young Muslim myself, I can say that most of us in this generation do not find such customs acceptable.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I really liked the 1 st epi!!
The leads have chemistry and fresh faces !!
Nice post :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: imli123



Oh I see. You're right. I think it's a little stereotypical on their part to show the cousin marriage and bigamy. As a young Muslim myself, I can say that most of us in this generation do not find such customs acceptable.

Hey, guys I'm sorrryyy, I take back my words lol. They ARE blood related actually because they are 1st cousins. Someone told me that the blood line is through the father which is not correct medically and scientifically.For a second, I forgot certain things from my biology course lol and looked at it from that view, but I was wrong.
Anyway, so coming to this issue. Yeah, but the chance of genetic overlap is only 12.5% and it is rare that medical issues occur. I have read that it happens only when marriages between cousins occur repeatedly over many generations. So like if Zain's parents and Alia's parents were also cousins then it would be an issue in the real world.
Regardless of the small chance, medicial issues DO arise as imli123 said. There are 3 Hadiths ( sayings of the prophet of Islam) that encourage marriage as far away from blood ties as is possible. It was also encouraged to make ties with new tribes ( families). So, it's not just now that people are recognizing it as a social taboo and cause of genetic disorders, it was discouraged even in old times although it was permissible by religious laws. And Yuppp!! Totally agree that there was no need to have stereotypical bigamy and cousin marriage which has been shown on other channels and in many Urdu language dramas across the border. As a young muslim girl, I'm also not a fan of marrying withing the extended family because apart from the 2 reasons you mentioned, I feel like it causes fights within family when the marriage doesn't work out. But, strangely,I don't mind it in a fictional story on TV, I mean I just wanna see a sensible, romantic story without an overdose of melodrama and as long as Zain and Alia are not bro-sis from same parents, I do not mind lol 😉
Edited by AshRun - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Even I agree with you, though its allowed in Indian Muslim Laws also polygamy has been showed in many Hindu background shows as well but weather Hindu or Muslim polygamy that too in 1st episode and showed in such a sarcastic way may not go well with many urban Indian and overseas viewers.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Bigamy is very much common...there r many ppl i know with 2 wives...n islam has allowed so no problem...n cousins marriage is very much allowed...in islam no problm for that too...but yeah the dargah part is not wat all muslims follow...
Edited by massu91 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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a great review...the show nd the chemistry between the leads are really worthwatching...about the bigamy...the start was gud bt i didnt understand the reason of doing it...he had 2 girls and nor he was the only son to get a mail child...or may be tht was a luvv marriage...ahhh ...i watched the epi 2ice bt couldnt inderstand it...any way...BEST OF LUCK TO THE SERIAL...HOPE IT WILL BE APPRECIATED BY AUDI...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#20
A much commendable post!👏
U have well precisely put some superb points.
Yes, d chemistry of ZaYa is on d way!
D special thing which impressed me highly was Osman n Zain relationship bond. This father-son were show stealers for me!
Besides, Aliya! She played her part well even we got very less of her.
P.S: Hope d show runs really well.

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