Why does everyone Blame Purva?

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

or are they?

I am confused

I agree Mihir is at fault about how he got ready to marry another lady right away.. before

and Purva had to do drastically stop the wedding and without hinking she got married instead

but really she always wanted only Smriti's happiness and even smriti when she came back knew that if she were to reveal her identity purva would just leave even though she loves mihir now. She would not look back twice. But everyone in the forum is blaming purva.. yes I agree she is married to mihir but

all her actions always proved that she kept her sisters above all the relationships.

I seriously do not think Purva is at fault here. Just because she was quiet when Astha asked what if she was smriti would she leave mihir that was because it was proven that Astha was not smriti by those fake reports so she just felt quiet. But when Anokhi confronted Smrithi to tell everyone the truth, smriti said that if I tell them purva will leave in the wink of an eye.

Those two sisters know each other and are alike.

So who else agrees with me that Purva is not at fault?

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

Only for that silence you would forget everything else Purva did?...that silence spoke everything that was in her mind.

If that was really the case then you think Purva would have fought with Smrithi if it was really revealed , the truth about her? and not give up Mihir. I seriously doubt it. She would have left the house right away......ya she fought for Smriti's identity....but sadly refused silently to let go of Mihir....

Forgetting mihir is one thing and to leave the house for the sister is another thing.

Smrithi, also still loved Mihir but she gave up that love cause she realized mihir is in love with Purva now ..and dont forget.....she realized Purva too loves Mihir...and took the decision to Karan.

Didn't Purva do the same thing? Give up her love for Amar and get married to Mihir to save his family? .........there was no need for her to leave Amar and marry Mihir...there were multiple ways the marriage could have been stopped ...a direction by CVs just to drag a story. ..Aren't they doing the same thing.. ]...

Loving one person and for someone else sacrificing their love.

Eventually Smriti will fall for Karan and then she will forget Mihir but would that tarnish her love she had for him?...she knows both love each other...and her entry will only cause unrest in the house...

No.. it just means she has moved on. ...she still loves her hubby and son, she has no choice but to move on

I do not think just for one small gesture Purva's entire struggle should be forgotten. Everyone did not believe Smriti could be back. She did. She fought for it and when the DNA tests proved her wrong .. she was heart broken..........have not forgotten Purva's entire struggle...am discussing about the current situation.

If she had the slightest of betrayal in her heart would she want Smriti to be back? No.. .....sure I agree Purva wanted Smriti back but the fact that she showed her refusal to let go of Mihir for Smriti was annoying in my POV..


Now .. the story has just moved on... and I am sure in future episodes it will be proven again that Purva's love towards her sisters is genuine and she is completely NOT at fault.

I side with Smriti.. she did the right thing by not telling her truth cause.. Purva would have left mihir and she would have no one left.

And there was no Amar to back her up.

Smriti still had Karan. and He is married to her now Good for her.

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

^^ I understand.

I am both Purva and Smriti fan. I like them both and want to see them both happy. So I do not blame neither of them. Situations have forced them to take such drastic measures. I hope they remain happy