Oppression to Empowerment

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Heyy!! These are just my views. I wish to hurt no one's feelings and I'm not blindly supporting anyone. After analysing, this is what I put forward.


So, everyone is saying that polygamy should never have been shown with Bondita and Anirudh. Polygamy is wrong and I'm not supporting it.

But can we just look at the other side of the coin for once? Can we just take polygamy to be another social evil? Don't judge me, I don't support polygamy.

I don't even support child marriage and I'm so sure that no one supports it. Then why did we end up watching BB in the first place??

People say they'll quit the show because they are showing polygamy. I think we all know that every other oppression (sati, miseries of an abandoned woman, prejudices against women who menstruate, molestation, even girl trafficking) has been only shown through the eyes of Bondita. They take Bondita's support to show every social evil!


I'm so sure no one would have felt the same pain if polygamy was shown through some other girl. We connect to Bondita, don't we? And this time, ARC is not completely at fault. Shippers are hurt ( me included) but that doesn't mean that I will stop watching something by making assumptions.

Both ARC and Bondita are suffering. Anirudh is impulsive and ends up making mistakes but when I saw today's episode on voot select, I saw my Bondita again, so fierce, that tark karne wali Bondita. I saw her taking her first step towards her previous self.

ARC will suffer, I know.

But I think that after this track, pativrata dharm will leave Bon's mind and she will realise her self worth and will discover a whole new meaning of ❤ love ❤ .

Anidita is not going anywhere, that's for sure cause I've seen both of them suffering. ARC needs Bondita and she needs him❤.


A little patience is what awaits a beautiful morning ❤❤


Just my views. No offense.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Animegirl180103

Heyy!! These are just my views. I wish to hurt no one's feelings and I'm not blindly supporting anyone. After analysing, this is what I put forward.


So, everyone is saying that polygamy should never have been shown with Bondita and Anirudh. Polygamy is wrong and I'm not supporting it.

But can we just look at the other side of the coin for once? Can we just take polygamy to be another social evil? Don't judge me, I don't support polygamy.

I don't even support child marriage and I'm so sure that no one supports it. Then why did we end up watching BB in the first place??

People say they'll quit the show because they are showing polygamy. I think we all know that every other oppression (sati, miseries of an abandoned woman, prejudices against women who menstruate, molestation, even girl trafficking) has been only shown through the eyes of Bondita. They take Bondita's support to show every social evil!


I'm so sure no one would have felt the same pain if polygamy was shown through some other girl. We connect to Bondita, don't we? And this time, ARC is not completely at fault. Shippers are hurt ( me included) but that doesn't mean that I will stop watching something by making assumptions.

Both ARC and Bondita are suffering. Anirudh is impulsive and ends up making mistakes but when I saw today's episode on voot select, I saw my Bondita again, so fierce, that tark karne wali Bondita. I saw her taking her first step towards her previous self.

ARC will suffer, I know.

But I think that after this track, pativrata dharm will leave Bon's mind and she will realise her self worth and will discover a whole new meaning of ❤ love ❤ .

Anidita is not going anywhere, that's for sure cause I've seen both of them suffering. ARC needs Bondita and she needs him❤.


A little patience is what awaits a beautiful morning ❤❤


Just my views. No offense.

guys polygamy ka zikr through sampoorna aaya tha and we did not think tp pay attention to it instead we said at that time sampoo ki bakri dahej ke liye sauda ko second wife banaate hai sourav ki, so i think yeh impactful nahi hota so i somewhat agree but kis tarah se yeh aaya hai it would break bon

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I know that Bon is suffering but we only understood the pain through her only. Hum kisi aur ke portrayal se nahi samjh paate pain. Aap hi bataiye?

I don't support polygamy, but I would love to give some time to this track to analyse what's in store.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Animegirl180103

I know that Bon is suffering but we only understood the pain through her only. Hum kisi aur ke portrayal se nahi samjh paate pain. Aap hi bataiye?

I don't support polygamy, but I would love to give some time to this track to analyse what's in store.

Hi buddy ths s just my view yaar, hope already lot of time had been given, i gt ur point u dnt support polygamy, bt my point is do makers plan to show ill effects of polygamy or wat leaving all other child marr, Bon's bright future, barrister and all.... and all viewers angry,irritation,and hate recently over show is becoz not only of polygamy, suddenly makers changed character just in one day,so probably no loyal viewers can accept that, so frm tat wen he develop feel fr AE, the changed behaviour of ARC is completely unacceptable yaar and after a yr if he says he wanna rules to annul child marr and he always opens ths topic bfre Bon and he made her feel insecure, becoz we see character ARC who can easily and patiently explain her dfrence btwn good touch and bad touch, menstryation and molestation, y bursted out wen it cmes to her crush over him.... so really here ARC is weird, so after tat watever he does strtd to irritate viewers, finally the point of polygamy is out of rage one, becoz his demand to bring bk Bon to focus on study is really not relatable in any way.... may be if its track of ill effects of polygamy then ARC vl b assaultant to Bon.... however acc to makers tats not the track,its track to bring Bon back to studies, thn wats relation vth polygamy and giving reasons over it eventhough its fake.... so in anyway its not justifiable one buddy so only viewers are not watchibg BB, not only polygamy damaging of character ARC beyond repair is major reason where loyal viewers quited the show..

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