Was Bondita completely right? - Page 2

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

Hi guys,

Hope you are all doing good. Just been catching glimpses here and there coz I am no longer able to relate this show to what it once was. I just want to understand how was Bondita ever right?

1. Was she right when she decided to get involved in matters concerning adults to help her sister?
2. Was she right when without understanding the consequences of her actions she decided to team up with Brijwasi? Yes she did not know she was cheating people but clearly her family suffered because of her actions. Her family was humiliated before everyone and Trilochan fell sick. Yet Bondita is justified in her actions?
3. Ani was wrong to not give her the benefit of doubt and ask her why she did what she did. But would Bondita have spoken the truth? Wouldn't she have tried to hide for the sake of her spineless sister?
4. Ani was wrong to get angry on her because of the humiliation his family went through coz of her? If you were in his place wouldn't you get mad as well? Yes he was wrong in throwing her out but he was in no way wrong to get mad at her

No matter her intentions, Bondita did make a mistake. So how does that make her right? Yes even Anirudh made a mistake. That makes the two of them. Bondita suffered a lot after going back to her mother and its horrible. The society is to blame here. Just because Ani left her doesn't mean they can treat her so horribly. Anirudh wanted her away so that his family need not suffer anymore for her actions. Did he throw her away because he wanted to disown her?

Anirudh is bound to feel guilty but what the heck do they mean Bondita sahi thi? Bondita is a child. Y not show her like a child? The precap literally fried my brains again. A child saying I believe my husband is alive and he will come for me? I would find it ok if it sounded like a child saying that but it felt more like a typical pati vrata patni mouthing these dialogues from any saas bahu show. I wonder if Aura's parents are really comfortable with the crap the makers are getting her to do for the show. If they want to show such crap then at least introduce it when Bondita is a little older. Focus on her education and how she evolves into an independent minded woman. Not this rubbish. Even if they wished to show child trafficking it would have been better had they shown from the eyes of a child and not a bahu material.

Please do share your views as well.

My POV is same as you.. People considering only Ani guilty & bonu as bonu victim, but from my pov I found both guilty, both victim..

Ani was super angry on her seeing kaka's halat.. He immensely love kaka.. but yes Ani is more zimmedar for this situation.. coz no matter what happened, that's bonu's house too.. He shouldn't throw her out.. So whatever Ani is suffering now is his karma..

And for bonu, seeing the suffering of her family, still she choosed to hide the truth of her spineless sis.. so whatever is happening with her, is her karma..

That's why it's said that karma is a bitch.. Your karma will bite one & only you.. No one can help you in it, even if he/she wants to...

Originally posted by: Arpita_De

Sampoorna is not naive. If you observe her character from the beginning she has always been very self oriented. Like how she had asked Biraj to get out of the house after watching Biraj-Munshi hug without consulting anyone 🤪 Very smartly she revealed the truth to Anirudh n Saurabh according to her own convenience 😉 She is very intelligent when it comes to her own relationships.

Yes arpi.. I still can't digest this that only Ani knew this truth.. she put herself & her marriage above of all and lyk "bondita ayegi, jamaubabu dusri shadi nehi karenge blah blah blah" Even ani asked her so many times that why bondita did this but she was representing fevicol ad.. Sachhi keh rahi hun, uski sakal se hi itni irritation hoti hain mujhe, jitna mini ko dekh k bhi nehi hoti hain.. Are mini is an outsider, was ani's love interest at a time. Uski to phir v samajh mein ati hain.. But sampoo!! Chi!! Disgusting!!🤢

Even now makers are white washing her & I just hate it..😡 I want her to suffer.. plz surmani do this subh kam..

Originally posted by: Arpita_De

Sampoorna is not naive. If you observe her character from the beginning she has always been very self oriented. Like how she had asked Biraj to get out of the house after watching Biraj-Munshi hug without consulting anyone 🤪 Very smartly she revealed the truth to Anirudh n Saurabh according to her own convenience 😉 She is very intelligent when it comes to her own relationships.

exactly arpita👍🏼

she is not that stupid how she shows.

you pointed out the best examples. i would like to add, how she lied about being pregnant even after coming from dai ma. her sasuma sent hervthere, her husband knows too phirbhi she lied because her maa said to continue the drama.

if she was honest and voli she would have told the truth but she supported her mother's lie.

from that day on i despise her.

Originally posted by: Shrabana99

Yes arpi.. I still can't digest this that only Ani knew this truth.. she put herself & her marriage above of all and lyk "bondita ayegi, jamaubabu dusri shadi nehi karenge blah blah blah" Even ani asked her so many times that why bondita did this but she was representing fevicol ad.. Sachhi keh rahi hun, uski sakal se hi itni irritation hoti hain mujhe, jitna mini ko dekh k bhi nehi hoti hain.. Are mini is an outsider, was ani's love interest at a time. Uski to phir v samajh mein ati hain.. But sampoo!! Chi!! Disgusting!!🤢

Even now makers are white washing her & I just hate it..😡 I want her to suffer.. plz surmani do this subh kam..

same here

🤢🤢this is me watching her. i don't watch her parts.

mini is much more tolerable than her.

mini knows she is buri didi but sampoo is a 🤬

I think the writers have spoiled the whole show step by step. Firstly, we rarely get to see the so called 'gold medalist barrister ' . Anirudh is always emotional and impulsive, he doesn't use his brain to take decisions. Everyone can fool this barrister babu so easily. he was the one who always reminded everyone that Bondita is a child and should be treated like that only. However, this time he himself forgot that she was a child.

Secondly, Bondita's character has changed according to me because in the beginning she used to question every norm and regulation imposed on her. How can she blindly believe and do whatever brijwasi told her without even questioning him once. Nowadays all she does is showing her qualities of good bahu and good patni. Saying such big dialogues which are not expected from a child of her age even if the child is smart🤔. Where is the girl who did 'tark'.

And lastly , why this faltu drama of mini. She is always shown planning or doing something evil and never getting caught. I don't understand what value does her character hold in the story.😳

One more thing which is confusing is Saurabh's changing colours. Can't digest this change in his character.

Can't connect with this show anymore👎🏼

Originally posted by: Arpita_De

Exactly Bondita wanted to do something for her sister that was fine but her trusting Brijwasi blindly was her mistake, Anirudh continuously asked her about BW but everytime she lied and she actually 'Helped' Brijwasi, her reason was justified but her actions were not. No one can say Bondita right there as she wasn't. Anirudh's anger, disappointment, frustrations everything was reasonable but him throwing her out was an impulsive and immature decision because of which he is suffering now. Like you have just said Batuk hota tho kya karta? Punishment is necessary but it has to be in accordance with the mistake committed.

Yeah that’s my point. Both were wrong. When I hear people claim Bondita was right, starting from Sumati I am like what? Say she is innocent and I will definitely agree. And Anirudh was wrong to throw her out. He had not married her to make her his wife but he wanted to be her guardian. One mistake and he realises he made a mistake by bringing her into his life? That was extreme and irrational.

Originally posted by: sharafah

To begin with,, they are only reacting with their overwhelming emotions.... he just wanted to say sorry to her for the awful things he said... remember during one of their phone convoys she said to him dont ask sorry becuz if I had broken a promise for Dampoorna you would have forgiven me right? He said yes!! He was reacting like that because he felt she ended up in a place like Heera Mandi becuz of his impulsive behaviour! Secondly he feels guilty inside that he almost got engaged to Mini becuz he felt like that would mean he was betraying her... Bon was not right but she was not wrong either! She was under the impression that Brijwasi was good becuz of the positive things people were saying about him! If she knew he was cheat she would never have listened to him and sadly she only realised that at the end! Bon has forgiven Ani before! Bon is Ani's wife but she is a 11 year old child but this marraige was still considered marraige becuz of the era they lived... pls I hope no one mistakes me but I if we nit pick all the details we r not going to enjoy the general flow of the drama.. and the writers do make mistakes sometimes when it comes to the dialogues...sometimes we can overlook at it like how we do for other dramas... hopefully they can still maintain Bon's cute dialogues with her her cut actions like how we all have been seeing her but at the same time showing her bond becoming stronger with Ani...

Well there is nothing wrong to hope that somebody makes a show that makes sense and I thought this was one. Coming to the nitpicking part, wish this was done when the era of saas bahu shows began and because of our stupidity to accept that kind of crap has deteriorated the quality of content. Anything that starts off on a promising note ends up joining the crap fest and BB is now one among them. I love the shows that aired in 90’s that used to be simple, realistic yet engaging. I so hoped that the show would focus on Anirudh grooming Bondita to become a barrister and maybe the two could embark on a journey that would herald India’s independence. But instead what we will not get is a twisted version of this. They wasted more than 60 episodes (not counting all coz the beginning track was really good) on showing nonsense. Now they will show the main track in an episode or two and fast forward to the future so that they can show more crappy stuff. Because once Bondita is an adult they can bring in all kinds of crappy redundant tracks to showcase Anirudh Bondita love story like jealousy, Ani feeling insecure coz Bondita is young and she might fall for a younger man, Bondita finally figuring out Mini is a saut and not pari didi and mistaking Ani to have an extramarital affair with her and so on. Point out one thing which we haven’t seen in countless shows before. Movies seem to be getting progressive but TV - it’s gone from bad to worse, thanks to us for accepting nonsense in the name of entertainment.

Originally posted by: Arpita_De

Sampoorna is not naive. If you observe her character from the beginning she has always been very self oriented. Like how she had asked Biraj to get out of the house after watching Biraj-Munshi hug without consulting anyone 🤪 Very smartly she revealed the truth to Anirudh n Saurabh according to her own convenience 😉 She is very intelligent when it comes to her own relationships.

Sampoorna is one character I cannot stand 🤢 I used to like her before but even after she gets to know about the dowry she gets offended when Saurab calls her parents greedy. What else should u label people who want to jeopardise a little girl’s life for the sake of their daughter? Am sure most of us here have a younger sibling or a cousin we are close to whom we treat like a sibling. Being the older or more mature one, is it not our responsibility to not share our hardships - the ones they cannot even understand yet, with them? We don’t want to trouble their little minds right? Bondita herself doesn’t understand the sanctity of marriage. How can she understand why or how her sister’s marriage is breaking apart? Will u share something like this and put that burden on her? I can’t stand that woman after Mini.

Originally posted by: Shrabana99

My POV is same as you.. People considering only Ani guilty & bonu as bonu victim, but from my pov I found both guilty, both victim..

Ani was super angry on her seeing kaka's halat.. He immensely love kaka.. but yes Ani is more zimmedar for this situation.. coz no matter what happened, that's bonu's house too.. He shouldn't throw her out.. So whatever Ani is suffering now is his karma..

And for bonu, seeing the suffering of her family, still she choosed to hide the truth of her spineless sis.. so whatever is happening with her, is her karma..

That's why it's said that karma is a bitch.. Your karma will bite one & only you.. No one can help you in it, even if he/she wants to...

Yep I agree with u. For me both are at fault.