Angry, disappointed, and crabby - Page 2

Exactly Ammu! I want them to be young and in love - wink at each other, blow flying kisses, do something instead of mulling around!

And even "realizing their pasts" can be done in a more exciting manner. They could actually confide in each other and sneak into SV's room, try to question others about the past. Why be so silently accepting of everything? The creatives are handling it all wrong. I can actually imagine Divya and Amar excitedly discussing what it could all mean. I want more "varna kya" scenes.

The problem is that they left the killer behind hence when SV reincarnated, their love story was rushed so they could meet Sindoora! 😕 I was expecting manipulation simply because I knew the creatives would make Sin win against AD for a while. When a 'Hero' decides to hit back after being badly beaten...the dramatic effect is bigger right? My only guess is that they are making Amar so stupid and Divya helpless so that when they do fight back, it has more of an effect on the audience.

However, saying that does not mean that the creatives have done justice to SV/AD's characters. SV were given much more importance in the serial, we saw everything from Vidya's point of view because the damn serial is called 'Banoo MEIN TERI Dulhann'. The 'mein' implies Vidya and the 'teri' points towards Sagar! Yet you have Sindoora getting more of the screen space not only on the title montage but also in the serial itself. That is NOT what the show is about. If you suddenly give the limelight to a person who never really had it, you wonder what you're watching?! 😕 How come its about Sindoora's struggles now??

She is overused. I don't hate her but her mere presence is irritating! Not only have the creatives decreased SV/AD's screen presence but they've basically ruined a once-upon-a-time great vamp. 😕

I do have hope in Divya because her character still makes sense to me. I know she isn't the same Divya who entered so vivaciously but I think once she works out everything, her mind will be at peace. If things are to change for good then they most probably will after the wedding but I'll personally feel a sense of regret because we didn't have enough AD moments before their marriage. The creatives could have given us much more admist the drama but I guess they decided that showing Sin speak at a snail's pace is more entertaining for the viewers. 😊

Koolsadhu your post was too funny. Kheer is the "it" food in these shows. Every show has some kind of pivotal kheer scene that alters the course of the characters' lives forever! Ridiculous 😆

And I agree with you. I would also get bored if it was just AD running around Benares and being cute. The problem now isn't a lack of romance, but the fact that they are both so painfully stupid and unlucky and Sindoora is so smart and lucky. I mean how does she always show up at exactly the right time? It has nothing to do with cleverness or intelligence--it's pure luck.

And as many of us have picked up on, perhaps it would help if she'd get out of the house like a normal person. Why the heck is she at home all day in her rocking chair? She is the mayor of a major city! Shouldn't she be at city hall, writing up legislation and holding important meetings with important people? She's in the midst of an election. Why isn't she out campaigning and giving speeches? They showed us a bit of it in the beginning, but now what? And what the **** kind of politician dresses like her? Her character is unbelievable in every way. Kamya is a good actress but not even she can make a politician in full sleeve saris and gigantic pearls and jewelry seem plausible.

I was simply under the impression that the leap was supposed to CHANGE things. I thought Divya would be stronger, smarter, and more cunning than Vidya...but she is just as naive and submissive. At least Vidya had an excuse. She was poor, uneducated, and really had nowhere else to go. Divya isn't helpless though. She's rich, educated, and has an entire life that she left behind in London. She has no reason to put up with this BS. I also thought that even though Amar lacks the formal education he had as Sagar, he would have common sense, and that this time he would be the devoted one like Vidya was...but no, he doubts her at every step.

At least as Sagar I could kind of understand why he worshiped Sindoora. But why NOW? What has this stranger done for him that could compare to what Divya has done for him? SHE ALMOST GAVE HER LIFE FOR HIM. What the hell has Sin done that could even begin to compare to that?! (sorry, this is where I get angry 😡)

I think the problem is basically that they don't know what to do with Kamya. Her contract is probably still going on and they can't find a way to keep Sindoora in the show after she is exposed. Not just that but really the entire format of the story would have to be reconsidered. There has been basically one track to this soap since the very beginning. When Sindoora's track ends, do they start a new one that's just as long? Or do they do what other shows do and change the track every few months?

And it's also their mistake because they have essentially made Sindoora into the main character of the show. How can they just dispose of the main character? She has had so much influence that it's hard to just trash her.

But what I really take offense to is the fact that they really seem to take their viewers for complete fools, and disregard our opinions. I certainly hope someone reads our criticisms and realizes that they risk losing a lot of viewers if things continue this way. I myself have stopped watching and only continue to read the updates.

Sindoora doesn't necessarily have to go right now but she definately needs to take up less of the screen space. If they phased her in as the 'main character' then they can phase her out again! I hope I'm not disappointed after AD's wedding because I am assuming that they will let Divya take charge again. I would LOVE to see Divya vs Sin and when Amar gets his akal back, it would be even better. Sindoora was great when she won AND lost! Thats what usually happens with vamps but she isn't losing at all...

No-one is asking for continuous AD romance! Over-exposure of ANYTHING can lead to boredom. Whether its a love story or in this case Sin's loooooooooong dialogues. Even before Sin was extremely important to the story but that does not mean you make her the main character, you just lose the charm of the serial!

inavars , what i meant was Sagar disbelieved Vidya so much ....she went hoarse trying to tell him about his sister , but he not only ignored her but fired her left rite and center and continued to worship the fiend . She was even kicked out of the house under his nose . When finally he realised wat she had been saying , the game , as Reemz rightly said once , was over in two weeks . He learnt his lesson the hard way as he did not heed the advice of many wise people around him including his wife and learnt the lesson the hard way ....unfortunately , even his wife had to pay for his mistakes although she was aware of everything , her wisdom went waste . In this sense , he was sort of responsible for her death .....waking up too late was his mistake and his inocent wife had to pay for it with her life as by then he had made his sister too powerful .

Sick as I am of Sindura , it is my opinion that without her the show wont be the same . Coz the story is not about SV alone , although the title tells us it is from Vidyas point of view . Like Reemz said , it was from Vidyas point of view ....i agree to this point . But instead of looking at BMTD as SV's love story , I see it as a story of Sagar's realisation .....of the real face of the fiend whom he worshipped as a godess , and then coming back , reincarnated , to deal with this realisation and get justice , for he wronged his wife in the earlier birth and she gave up her life for him . In fact , when he is shot , his love for Vidya truly comes to the fore in this serial ...." Tumne meri Vidya ko mara ? Main tumhe kabhi maaf nahi karoonga ." But its too late and so , his dissatisfied soul reincarnates . I think this is the best and only point in the serial when we understand that yes , he has ultimately fallen truly in love with her . I fail to see it as a love story as for a large part ,it was an arranged marraige with Vidya dealing with a temporarily mentally handicapped husband whom she dutifully tended to due to her sanskaars , later the husband gets back his senses but his reaction is of disgust when he understands she is not literate and all he thinks of is how to drop her , even when he sleeps with her when he goes to drop her his reaction is that of guilt more than love....the type an educated guy may feel after he sleeps with an uneducated servant or sumthing....kind of responsible for wat happened , somewat guilty , but definetely not love . Later yes , he loves her and sings songs in party but hey , that is only after she fulfils his expectations , speaks fluent english , dresses stylishly , gets self educated.....conveniently now she is worth falling in love with . I'm very sorry , i hardly see romance in all these sequence of events .....love is unconditional , and Vidya gave it to him unconditionally . He didnt . For him , it came much later .....the death scene speaks of it , but he dies unfortunately , and comes back . For me this is more a story of Sagar's realisation and Sindura's unsuccesful fight with destiny . Vidya always knew what was the truth , it is not her realisation , she comes back only for Sagar . The romance , the love shud start more now onwards .

If they show Sindura getting a tough fite , the show will pick up like anything . However i feel the show shud end when Sv win and they kill her , as then the storyline ends and it may become a dragging K serial with no specific storyline , complete with leaps , hair that doesnt grey and yea , the children . But who wants to see the children , we want to see SV giving Sindura good , and winning .

But I don't understand why you're saying it wasn't majorly about SV's love story when it clearly was. If it had not been about their love story then there wouldn't be such a big hoo-haa about them dying! Love stories do not have to begin before marriage, SV's began with marriage and developed. True there were hardly ever any 'romantic' moments but they stood by each other...well Vidya did! 😛 It may not have been told in the conventional way but what we saw for over 1 year was nothing but a love story! Sagar fell in love Vidya more by the day, she protected him continuously....to me that is a love story! What Vidya made Sagar feel was LOVE! Sure on the way there were many obstacles but eventually they became really crazy about each other.

It is a love story dude, it used to be anyway. As I said before, its not necessary to kill Sindoora at the moment but her screen time can definately decrease. That doesn't mean asking for more romance between AD before you jump on the 'romance=boring' aspect!😛

iv stopped following this garbage

Reemz ....the ' love story ' as u put it , in reality and truly starts or is at its peak when Sagar Vidya die . Till then it is a series of suspicions , groping groping groping with various emotions , tackling one circumstance after another and then falling in love . Vidya always loved Sagar , Sagar , im sorry to say , didnt always love Vidya , and definetely not unconditionally . He loved Sindoora unconditionally , yes . Di this and Di that , although the full world warned him against her . Now thats unconditional love for u . He started admiring Vidya more after she fulfilled his expectations .....VIdya however loved him even when he was absolutely hANdicapped . Now that is true love , not all those eye locks and songs although they r cute once in a while and r catalysts to the real emotion ....love . 😊
Just look at the death scene ....it is about Sagar's realisation . He turns and tells Vidya that had i listened to u , this wud have never happened . There is the moment when he looks long at her , finally realising her true worth , what a gem she really is , and realises his own folly . When Sindura finally shoots him , he lurches towards her and says tumne mere Vidya ko maara ? he doesnt think of himself , his rage is that she killed his Vidya , who is so inocent . This is the best part of that entire first janam where he dies , having fallen truly in love with her at last , all that groping with emotions has finally ended , he knows wat real love is now , but it is too late , and he reincarnates to avenge for Vidya , she on her part devotedly follows him . Avenging isnt really in Vidyas blood ....she only follows him and is always there for Sagar .

The love story u speak of shud ideally start now . It did , and they did a fine job of it with the Benares scenes . Re incarnation picks up from where it left off ....now they should show the romance , where Amar simply cannot define his immense faith in Divya whatever Sindura tells him . And she simply cannot break that faith ....thats wat they shud show . Now thatwud be a real love story .

I agree with everything you said. Sagar did not love Vidya until the very end. Between the two of them, who was really the one who needed to change? Was it Vidya, who despite being uneducated and poor, had a heart of gold and basic common sense? Or was it Sagsr, who had money, a prestigious education, and a successful business...but who was totally lacking in common sense and kindness? Some of the things Vidya had to put up with because of him were just unbearable to watch, but she still loved him. He should have changed for HER, without her asking for it. Getting an education, learning English, and becoming more sophisticated does not have anything to do with love. Perhaps he was just touched by the fact that she went through all the effort, but that still makes it conditional. Before that he was ashamed of her and would humiliate her...and she tolerated all of that. The only person Sagar loved was Sindoora. How many people tried to show him the truth? Aniket, Bua, Harsh. OK, perhaps it's understandable that he didn't believe Harsh, but in combination with Vidya, Aniket, and Bua, how could he continue to believe his sister? The only logical explanation is that he loved her unconditionally, and his love for her was more powerful than it is for his brother-in-law, aunt, and even his own wife.

However, I do think when Sagar was handicapped, he did love Vidya. Even if he couldn't completely understand it, or express it as an adult, he knew what it was and he knew that he felt it for Vidya. In fact, I think he was a much more intelligent and decent person as a child than as an adult. Despite having the mentality of a child, I think there was still part of him that was an adult. He made sacrifices for her and expressed love for her in a way that was beyond his mental age.

That's why this track is so disappointing. I expected to see some unfinished business resolved--not just Sindoora's comeuppance, but also seeing Amar give Divya the love, support, and devotion that he never had the chance to give Vidya.

Originally posted by: rainabow

However, I do think when Sagar was handicapped, he did love Vidya. Even if he couldn't completely understand it, or express it as an adult, he knew what it was and he knew that he felt it for Vidya. In fact, I think he was a much more intelligent and decent person as a child than as an adult. Despite having the mentality of a child, I think there was still part of him that was an adult. He made sacrifices for her and expressed love for her in a way that was beyond his mental age.

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I agree with u totally rainabow .