Leave my Saagar alone...

Vidya's Saagar anyways...😆

I know Saagar does deserve a nogging in his head...but I'm going to add my two cents...and defend Saagar (regardless of whether he deserves it or not.)

I'm not saying he's right, but his feelings are justified. It is frustrating to watch him be confuddled half the time, but it is understandable.

Saagar's character is meant to be a perfectionist. He doesn't remember Vidya's sacrifices when he was mentally ill. So we can't really hold him to what he doesn't remember.

What he does know of Vidya confuses him. Vidya's simplicity nonplusses most of us too. We question how Vidya can continue to listen to Sindoora when she knows that Sindoora is never up to any good. It's because Vidya is a simple minded person. We being educated question the niceness and simplicity of Vidya everyday in her actions, not that we doubt her goodness. I think the same goes for Saagar.

It has nothing to him being educated or not. Even sometimes the most educated people lack worldly skill ar the ability to express themselves.He realizes her goodness, and as a result cares for her deeply, but has never experienced what he feels for Vidya before. Like when he talks to Buaji, you can sense his hesitation. His mind can not encompass what his heart feels. In his mind it doesn't feel right.

When Sindoora suggested divorce, he was shocked. I think his anger at that moment was at himself more than anything because he can't think straight when it comes to Vidya, and this frustrates him. He doesn't want to believe Sindoora, but doesn't want to think of the possibility of his sister working against him. Sindoora sugar coats everything. For us it may feel easy because we know the Sindoora of behind the scenes.I mean even someone like Buaji was fooled in the beginning.

As Saagar said to Buaji, that when he thinks about Vidya his mind takes a spin, and he finds himself falling in to a hole. (I think when Saagar talks to Buaji, his true feelings come out.)

The education, I think he's using as an excuse not to fall in love with Vidya. In his mind anyways.

His action today stemmed from his jealousy. When Jealousy and anger mix, they leave you incapable of thinking straight.

I realize that Vidya has been a lot for him, but most of it he has no recollection, and can't be held accountable for. it. Again I'm not saying his actions are right, but his confused frenzy is understandable.

Just wanted to say..Now you can throw any tomatoes you want...(no rotten ones though) I hear they are good for the skin....

Wafah😳

How true Wafah ji, I'll have to agree on that. Sagar is very confused since so long so I guess everyone is just getting frustrated. 😆 If you think of yourself in Sagar's place, anyone would be confused, and angry. I just wish they didn't overdo it so much in the show.

That's so true, no matter how educated someone is they can still lack these things just like Sagar. He just needs to follow his heart and not listen to his mind or ego.

I'm also think that he uses Vidya's illiterateness as a reason for saying he has no feelings for her. If he really didn't have those feelings, then there would be no reason for him to be jealous when hearing the possibility
of Vidya seeing somebody else.

I really want him to remember all that she did for him. She sacrificed so much, even her life, almost.

Nooo I don't think anyone is going to throw tomatoes since what you said was true! 😆

yea your are right sagar is fustrated and pressured by sindoora , so you are right ! No rotten tomatoes for you ! 😆 Thankx 😃

I really agree with you 😊

Sagar doesn't remember anything about his past two years, so he doesn't know how much he loves vidya.

Vidya's purity, innocence, love and truth can be seen in her eyes, since eyes speaks heart.

Sagar whenever looks directly into vidya's eyes , he feels it.

Sagar has feeling for Vidya in his hearts else he can't make love with her on their big night and feel happy about it

Sagar was really happy until he used his heart to feel the incident rather than his brain.

When Sagar thinks about Vidya through his heart he feels his love for her and when she suffers he feels the pain but every human brain tries to be pratical and when he thinks about their relation in a pratical way he can't accept it

Being practical let us to think about status, education, standard and so on

I accept all this things and will support Sagar for it.

I have only one problem with Sagar, why he simply listens to his sister, I accept he loves sindoora, he feels her as his mother and can't accept anything against him.

No one will accept when someone comes and say that she/he is against you if we love and trust them a lot even the person who is saying us is more important for us in our life.

He is in a dilemma, he can't understand what and who is right now?

I just want him to act smart and matured instead of acting a puppet of Sindoora.

He should take think, analysis, talk with vidya and then decide, why he is behaving like a immature baby

As per my understanding, guys find solution of their own ever listens to anyone and decide on their way, then why not Sagar is doing it.

I want him to behave matured thats it.

We are against Sagar, we want Sagar to think by his own.

Everyone loves Sagar and Vidya, whatever Sagar does hurt both of them so we want Sagar to sync up his heart and brain and then decide and not to listen Sindoora words and accept as if.

We know that you too want the same.

Wafah, I just want to explain what I feel, if I hurt you at any point, sorry for that, I don't mean it

Bye
Sneha

Originally posted by: Wafah

Vidya's Saagar anyways...😆

I know Saagar does deserve a nogging in his head...but I'm going to add my two cents...and defend Saagar (regardless of whether he deserves it or not.)

I'm not saying he's right, but his feelings are justified. It is frustrating to watch him be confuddled half the time, but it is understandable.

Saagar's character is meant to be a perfectionist. He doesn't remember Vidya's sacrifices when he was mentally ill. So we can't really hold him to what he doesn't remember.

What he does know of Vidya confuses him. Vidya's simplicity nonplusses most of us too. We question how Vidya can continue to listen to Sindoora when she knows that Sindoora is never up to any good. It's because Vidya is a simple minded person. We being educated question the niceness and simplicity of Vidya everyday in her actions, not that we doubt her goodness. I think the same goes for Saagar.

It has nothing to him being educated or not. Even sometimes the most educated people lack worldly skill ar the ability to express themselves.He realizes her goodness, and as a result cares for her deeply, but has never experienced what he feels for Vidya before. Like when he talks to Buaji, you can sense his hesitation. His mind can not encompass what his heart feels. In his mind it doesn't feel right.

When Sindoora suggested divorce, he was shocked. I think his anger at that moment was at himself more than anything because he can't think straight when it comes to Vidya, and this frustrates him. He doesn't want to believe Sindoora, but doesn't want to think of the possibility of his sister working against him. Sindoora sugar coats everything. For us it may feel easy because we know the Sindoora of behind the scenes.I mean even someone like Buaji was fooled in the beginning.

As Saagar said to Buaji, that when he thinks about Vidya his mind takes a spin, and he finds himself falling in to a hole. (I think when Saagar talks to Buaji, his true feelings come out.)

The education, I think he's using as an excuse not to fall in love with Vidya. In his mind anyways.

His action today stemmed from his jealousy. When Jealousy and anger mix, they leave you incapable of thinking straight.

I realize that Vidya has been a lot for him, but most of it he has no recollection, and can't be held accountable for. it. Again I'm not saying his actions are right, but his confused frenzy is understandable.

Just wanted to say..Now you can throw any tomatoes you want...(no rotten ones though) I hear they are good for the skin....

Wafah😳

wafah....kya yaar...why would we throw tomatoes at u....yeh humare sab ke dil ki baat hain...even ive always defended saagar...if u noticed...even in my ff's....i show tht he's confused but i always defend his case as to why is his behaviour is tht way.......and u knw...even in my other post i said...we are usually upset with the person we luv the most....and in our case....we luv saagar soo much...so sometimes we do get angry....but we defend him tht much too....😳

and saagar too...he luvs vidya sooooooo much...thts why he's confused and upset with her....cause he cant picture her goin with someone else.....

ab toh bas kaisey katenge yeh do din...i dunno....and whn i see saagar sad...i get very sad too..today i could really feel his dilema......im sure we all saw it on his face....his expressions....whn sin was talking......i didnt wanna watch the episode at first....but thn i did.....just for him...so i could justify his actions....i wsa gonna make the same post...whn i saw ur post....and ur words are exactly wht i was goin to say too...so well done....in defending our dimwit....buddhuu....👏

Shaili

Originally posted by: sneha_17

I really agree with you 😊

Sagar doesn't remember anything about his past two years, so he doesn't know how much he loves vidya.

Vidya's purity, innocence, love and truth can be seen in her eyes, since eyes speaks heart.

Sagar whenever looks directly into vidya's eyes , he feels it.

Sagar has feeling for Vidya in his hearts else he can't make love with her on their big night and feel happy about it

Sagar was really happy until he used his heart to feel the incident rather than his brain.

When Sagar thinks about Vidya through his heart he feels his love for her and when she suffers he feels the pain but every human brain tries to be pratical and when he thinks about their relation in a pratical way he can't accept it

Being practical let us to think about status, education, standard and so on

I accept all this things and will support Sagar for it.

I have only one problem with Sagar, why he simply listens to his sister, I accept he loves sindoora, he feels her as his mother and can't accept anything against him.

No one will accept when someone comes and say that she/he is against you if we love and trust them a lot even the person who is saying us is more important for us in our life.

He is in a dilemma, he can't understand what and who is right now?

I just want him to act smart and matured instead of acting a puppet of Sindoora.

He should take think, analysis, talk with vidya and then decide, why he is behaving like a immature baby

As per my understanding, guys find solution of their own ever listens to anyone and decide on their way, then why not Sagar is doing it.

I want him to behave matured thats it.

We are against Sagar, we want Sagar to think by his own.

Everyone loves Sagar and Vidya, whatever Sagar does hurt both of them so we want Sagar to sync up his heart and brain and then decide and not to listen Sindoora words and accept as if.

We know that you too want the same.

Wafah, I just want to explain what I feel, if I hurt you at any point, sorry for that, I don't mean it

Bye
Sneha

No I love that you expressed what you feel...that's the whole point about discussions....

I don't think that he's being a complete puppet, but Sindoora is overbearing...If someone is on you 24/7 continuously forcing to think in one way...Saagar hasn't had time to actually articulate things in his brain...and when he does I think he avoids it, because it leaves him with more questions than answers..

I agree that he should seek his own answers instead of falling prey to the answers that Sindoora provides for him...

that is so true wafah ji he is frustrated from sindrooa

Wafah, nicely put...
All of us share the same feeling I am sure.
We love SV to death. We wrote about Sagar not using his brain because we were frustrated the way things are going..
We thought he'd listen to his inner self who undeniably cares so much for Vidya. His emotions today does hint that. Sindura is a great manipulator; she knows his weakness and uses it to her benefit...
It just that last five days Vidya and Sagar went through some tough time, so did we. We wanted to vent our frustration and thus started writing about Sagar..
We do love him and we are so pleased that you've put down our feelings in such an eloquent manner..

Armlover said the right thing , why would we throw tomatoes at you ? everyone thinks like that but somtimes we just get mad that how can he do that , and we forget he forgot his 2 years so , You are right ! Thankxxxx ! 👏 😃 😃

^^yup...humara dimwit bechara...in these few days humne usko kya kuch nahi kaha...but kabhi kabhi chalta hai...we still luv him to death....

wht say grls? 😛 😉 (we all knw wht the answer will be...but still.... 😉 )

Shaili