He thought it was a mistake?? - Page 2

like i said before, this is the typical male mentality. most males like to find an escape route by saying i'm sorry it shouldn't have happened or whatever crap but in the end, it's the women who will have to suffer pain and sometimes even an unexpected pregnancy.

ha.. if sagar says it shouldn't have happened or was a mistake, i tell you i swear i will curse him with all the bad words i know of. if you don't love the woman, where was the need to get intimate with her?

i don't know whether i should say this but you know if a call-girl was called to entertain sagar for the night at least she would have been paid.😕 look at vidya.. she lost her chastity to a man who seems to be intent on giving her even more pain after the incident. she has gained absolutely nothing from that intimate night. her husband still isn't ready to accept her is he?

man.. it really wasn't worth it. i never wanted this whole intimate thing to happen before sagar was ready to accept vidya and i still stick by it.

Originally posted by: jigglypuff726

like i said before, this is the typical male mentality. most males like to find an escape route by saying i'm sorry it shouldn't have happened or whatever crap but in the end, it's the women who will have to suffer pain and sometimes even an unexpected pregnancy.

ha.. if sagar says it shouldn't have happened or was a mistake, i tell you i swear i will curse him with all the bad words i know of. if you don't love the woman, where was the need to get intimate with her?

i don't know whether i should say this but you know if a call-girl was called to entertain sagar for the night at least she would have been paid.😕 look at vidya.. she lost her chastity to a man who seems to be intent on giving her even more pain after the incident. she has gained absolutely nothing from that intimate night. her husband still isn't ready to accept her is he?

man.. it really wasn't worth it. i never wanted this whole intimate thing to happen before sagar was ready to accept vidya and i still stick by it.

Originally posted by: rushvi99

I know we were all sooo happy about SV and their big night..but I thought that Sagar might of started to like her as a person and then went for it....How could he call it a mistake?!? Vidya will be heartbroken when she finds out that Sagar had decided upon just leaving her in that house with Sameer and wanted nothing to do with her 😕....I can't predict anything that will happen after this...espcially after tomorow'w preview where Sindoora shows Vidya the tickits....The only thing I can think of now is Vidya might get preg..

What are your thoughts?

Originally posted by: smartc

Ditto..Could not have said any better!!

I am simply astonished and amazed at the fact that this so-called "mistake" is so easily encountered in serials when the love does not exist in b/w both parties.. What kind of a message does that convey to the audience? That it is okay to get weakened by a moment and lose yourself into it only to repent your entire life ahead? Perhaps, some may argue that Sagar does love Vidya but he has not yet embraced it or realized it. But why does an intimate moment like this needs to happen in order to make someone realize how in love they are? Beats my feeble mind.. *sighs*

Very well said Sana..so true if he didn't love her or "hasn't realized yet" how could he just be lost in the moment...it is infact a very bad message being sent out....and its always the poor girl who has to endure all this...😭

I'd rather have Sagar seeing how hard Vidya is working to make herself worthy of him, how much she cares for him, to see all the sacrifices that she's done for me (to the extent of going jail n all) rather than have him get lost in one weak moment and call it a mistake.. This moment's supposed to be a beautiful thing to share .. Not one to have regrets over...😕

Yes..why isn't anyone telling him about all the things that Vidya has done for him...even Vidya said to Chinu before leaving for the place that she wants to tell Sagar that she wants to be exactly how he wants her to be...I want Sagar to know all the sacrafices this woman has made for him...I want him to fall in love with her by knowing Vidya's nature and what she has done for him...

I remember the same thing happening in Kasamh Se.. Sleep with your wife whom u dont love... Get her pregnant... Then have an intense emotional attachment to your "hone wala bacha" even though u still dont love the mom.. Then love happens along the way while your wife's trying to act all mahaan n stuff and is busy saving your property via divorcing you, then the miscarriage happens, more confusions.. and the list goes on... *sighs*

I was thinking about KS....but wasn't it a diffrent situation? Didn't Jai have feeling for Bani then? and Why would Sagar go for this if he didn't feel any connection with her....how could he regert a decision that he made while he was in full senses? but I guess these questions are never going to be answered since its just a show..thats what makes it diffrent from reality...😛

Damn.. These telly serials.. I tell ya.. Kabhi nahi sudhrain gain.. 😡

Originally posted by: armulover

well...tru the only possibility ahead could be vidya gettin pregnant....but another thought came to my mind....sindoora might give her the tickets to send her away and all...but saagar at last minute as usual will stop her...cause he'll realize tht he cant let her go like this...even if its just out of guilt...atleast he'll keep her near him and slowly all the misunderstandings can clear up...😃

Yeah thats very likely that will happen😛....but I want him to love her and stop her not because he feels sorry for her...😳