~*~DOTW: Forgive and Forget~*~

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Thanks for the discussing last weeks discussion of the week.

And now its time for a new discussion of the week...

This week's discussion of the week is based on Forgive and Forget. It's so easy for us to say to somebody to Forgive and Forget..but is it really that easy to forgive and forget??

On Friday we saw the truth being exposed, and Vidya returning home, we are surely very happy Vidya has returned, im over the moon, but one thing which really annoyed me was Sagar's mother infact not only her but the whole family, they think this was all some kind of joke. Its not the first time they havent trusted Vidya, correct me if im wrong but Sagar's mother had asked for forgiveness when she found out that there was nothing between Vidya and Harsh, and she was ashamed to have even suspected Vidya, where did all that crying and forgiving go?? It didnt take her a second to suspect Vidya again?? And then she thinks by saying sorry she can play happy families again??

And Vidya well what can i say? seeing her i realised forgiving and forgetting is surely very easily... I dont think she should have forgiven her that easily, not after all she had to go through, i can understand why she forgave everyone, but when will she realise their faith in Vidya is really weak, it doesnt take them a second to suspect her.. what guarantee is there that in the future they wont suspect her again??

Do you think its really that easy to forgive and forget?

Do you think Vidya was wrong in forgiving the family?

Do you think Sagar's mother and the family will learn from this mistake and never suspect Vidya again?

Chinu has always been the one who's supported Vidya, i suppose because he was the one who saw Vidya's true qualities first, i mean Sagar's parents saw Vidya later, but Chinu after seeing Vidya realised she was the one for Sagar and from that day on has shown full faith in her, so why cant the rest of the family do the same??

And lastly, should mistakes which Sagar and his family have made by suspecting Vidya be forgiven?? Do you even think they have realised their mistakes??? To me it seems they all think its some joke, they suspect Vidya, aplogise, suspect her again and apologise again? i mean what is this some sort of JOKE???

Please discuss and share you views...

Khushi, Yuvika, Ammmu and Nabihah

On Friday we saw the truth being exposed, and Vidya returning home, we are surely very happy Vidya has returned, im over the moon, but one thing which really annoyed me was Sagar's mother infact not only her but the whole family, they think this was all some kind of joke. Its not the first time they havent trusted Vidya, correct me if im wrong but Sagar's mother had asked for forgiveness when she found out that there was nothing between Vidya and Harsh, and she was ashamed to have even suspected Vidya, where did all that crying and forgiving go?? It didnt take her a second to suspect Vidya again?? And then she thinks by saying sorry she can play happy families again??
Well said Yuvika ji...👏 I really hated it the way mummy ji and the family just asked for forgiveness like it was some minor thing. They accused her of something really sick. I am sure if Vidya didn't forgive them, they would have made a big deal out of it and remain mad at her. I really dont like that fact!

And Vidya well what can i say? seeing her i realised forgiving and forgetting is surely very easily... I dont think she should have forgiven her that easily, not after all she had to go through, i can understand why she forgave everyone, but when will she realise their faith in Vidya is really weak, it doesnt take them a second to suspect her.. what guarantee is there that in the future they wont suspect her again??
It will happen for sure. They're probably going to suspect innocen Vidya once again for something Sindoora or someone makes up. Its really sad that after many past incidents, they probably will

Do you think its really that easy to forgive and forget?
For me...no! I think for basically everyone in reality, its hard. Not many people in this world are like Vidya.Everyone is only human and they need to show their anger...escpcially when accused of such things Vidya has beem accused of. If I was in Vidya's shoes, I wouldn't have forgiven so easily. Even because they didn't even give me a chance to speak from my side. Maybe in the long-run I would've slowly forgiven...but not as easily as Vidya did.

Do you think Vidya was wrong in forgiving the family?
Well, Vidya is the type of girl who's nature is just forgives everyone in a second. It kills me the way she is just toooo nice! Personally, I think she shouldn't have forgiven the family this fast. Its sort of like the family taking advantage of her-playing with her life like she is some toy. Sometimes angry-then ask for forgiveness. Vidya is human, she should be allowed to speak her mind from times.

Do you think Sagar's mother and the family will learn from this mistake and never suspect Vidya again?
Considering this is a serial/soap, i doubt that they will learn from this mistake. Vidya has enemies...they will definitely try to stir up some bad thing and then once again, i'm sure the family will suspect her...and here comes the cycle yet again. Then once again they'll ask for forgiveness. Its like an innocent girl cycle.

Chinu has always been the one who's supported Vidya, i suppose because he was the one who saw Vidya's true qualities first, i mean Sagar's parents saw Vidya later, but Chinu after seeing Vidya realised she was the one for Sagar and from that day on has shown full faith in her, so why cant the rest of the family do the same??
I really dont know...good question. It keeps me thinking why the rest of the family, esp. mothet cant see Vidya true nature.
But for now, i'm really glad that Chinu has always supported Vidya and I hope he stands by her forever!

And lastly, should mistakes which Sagar and his family have made by suspecting Vidya be forgiven?? Do you even think they have realised their mistakes??? To me it seems they all think its some joke, they suspect Vidya, aplogise, suspect her again and apologise again? i mean what is this some sort of JOKE???
I dont think they should be forgiven so easily! Maybe in the long run...but definitely not sooo soon. Like I said before, Vidya is only human-not a toy...sometimes play, break, get tired with, but cry when you want to play with it again.

Great Discussion 👏
-Momo-

On Friday we saw the truth being exposed, and Vidya returning home, we are surely very happy Vidya has returned, im over the moon, but one thing which really annoyed me was Sagar's mother infact not only her but the whole family, they think this was all some kind of joke. Its not the first time they havent trusted Vidya, correct me if im wrong but Sagar's mother had asked for forgiveness when she found out that there was nothing between Vidya and Harsh, and she was ashamed to have even suspected Vidya, where did all that crying and forgiving go?? It didnt take her a second to suspect Vidya again?? And then she thinks by saying sorry she can play happy families again??

Maaji is a foolish woman who is even worse than her son sagar. she gets brainwashed by other so easily. she suspects vidya, hurts her then expects to be forgiven so easily. after a month or so, she'll start playing the same blame game yet again on vidya.😡😡😡

And Vidya well what can i say? seeing her i realised forgiving and forgetting is surely very easily... I dont think she should have forgiven her that easily, not after all she had to go through, i can understand why she forgave everyone, but when will she realise their faith in Vidya is really weak, it doesnt take them a second to suspect her.. what guarantee is there that in the future they wont suspect her again??

oh yeah, they will definitely suspect her again. what else can you expect from useless family members maaji except suspicion?😡😡😡

Do you think its really that easy to forgive and forget?

no way. i bear grudges & i bear them long & hard. it's not that easy to put that pain of being under suspicion behind you. vidya is a serial character who is nearly GOD, but me? i'm just a human & i can't forgive so easily.😕

Do you think Vidya was wrong in forgiving the family?

DUH! of cos she is. she should just give them each a big tight slap.😡😡 three slaps to maaji. speical treatment for an especially DUMB woman.😡😡

Do you think Sagar's mother and the family will learn from this mistake and never suspect Vidya again?

HA! FAT hope!! of cos they won't learn. sagar is already so bad, his mother is even WORSE. if vidya goes back to the house, what else can she expect? halwa? of cos she'll come under suspicion again & that dumb family will do all that drama again.😕

Chinu has always been the one who's supported Vidya, i suppose because he was the one who saw Vidya's true qualities first, i mean Sagar's parents saw Vidya later, but Chinu after seeing Vidya realised she was the one for Sagar and from that day on has shown full faith in her, so why cant the rest of the family do the same??

well because they don't have something chinu has. brains. and trust in vidya. the rest of the family no matter how much they claim they like vidya can NEVER come close to chinu.😊 sorry to say but compared to chinu, sagar is just a big fat 0 in the trust department. i bet you anything in this world that sagar is going to be even worse when he recovers.🤢🤢🤢

And lastly, should mistakes which Sagar and his family have made by suspecting Vidya be forgiven?? Do you even think they have realised their mistakes??? To me it seems they all think its some joke, they suspect Vidya, aplogise, suspect her again and apologise again? i mean what is this some sort of JOKE???

NO. NO. NO! vidya shouldn't have forgiven that family of fools. they look like they have realised their mistake but in reality, no. they still haven't realised their mistakes yet. for another month or so, sagar's best friends will be vidya & maaji's ideal daughter in law will be vidya. a month later when a new problem crops up, vidya will be the enemy of the house.😡😡

yes, to people in this singh parivaar, vidya is a big joke. she is in fact a brainless woman who can be suspected & forigven at will. that is why they treat her that way. and don't even let me get started on the horrid ways sagar has been treating vidya.

now he'll give all those lame dialogues, "vidya, you're my wife, my angel, my best friend. i'll always trust you." all that crap. and later on starts being mr bond & annoys the hell out of the audiences by being extremely mean to vidya.😕

LORD!!!!! this family just drives me mad!! if i was vidya, i would take a month off & go on a trip with chinu, sameer, bharath & tusshar!😃