Originally posted by: rpmenon
Hamda,
DM said he "trusted" her but didnt have a "proof" So,its proof he needed,not trust.So,Indeed in his heart,he considered as his wife,loved her,all that etc etc..Then why diod he say she was not his wife anymore,bla bla bla.. You said,the man saw his wife with someone else,and hence he said those hateful things.But he admited that he DID trust her,then what justification is there for him for having said that?
I am confused,Please help us "negative" people see the "positivity" here.I honestly cant find a reason why i should be jumping in joy for this couple.
gosh why do you make me feel like the devil's advocate ???
OK, here we go again,
yesterday i said DM was wrong coz :
1- he said bad things he should've never said to santo. it would be better if he just shut up !!
2- he didn't kick everybody out of the room to discuss it with her in privacy.
santu was wrong coz :
1- she had been acting vague lately, bragging about how evil she can be !
2- chasing that guy rudra constantly.
3- not denying in any way possible that she & rudra had an affair (oh please before any one start telling me about girls going through a phase of shock after being raped, i know it's utterly awful), but CVs made her not only talk but lecture DM about truth, so i was asking CVs to shove something useful in santu's mouth to say , a slight hint to tell DM "no, that didn't happen" ,for god sake at least shake your head santu ...
today, i didn't jump with joy myself , "OK i enjoy seeing RR\DM hugging ppl😳" BUT, what i've been asking for-since my first post commenting on today's epi was- :
santu your hubby proofed himself dumb - admitting that he knew from the start about her innocence was sick🤢- , but it's time to get over it , life has to move on , if u are asking for punishment let it be punish him santo he deserves it , if she's willing to forgive him...🤔 it's up to her !
& as i told rakhi; do not ask perfection !! we make mistakes & we expect others to forgive us ...DM was stupid & needed his wife to forgive his stupidity, you guys kept repeating ( unforgivable) through out 101 pages, & i just stepped in & said -doom on me- that it is forgivable , sick but forgivable as the hubby regretted it, how did he regret it , he defended her, consoled her, acted fool just to make her smile, i hoped that he asked her forgiveness in front of everybody or at least say sorry before the hug ...
i blame both DM & santu & defending both, period .
i guess now ppl you know where i stand, IN THE MIDDLE ! is that what you call "fencika" ??
gosh 😕, i hate myself 😲can't believe i wrote that much trying to explain the CV's twisted mind, again ??
i guess after all, this is simply me, i'll always try to see a hidden reason for some one treating me bad to work it out, solve the problem and have a peaceful day & still i wont save telling him how jerk he was !! 😳
PS. if i ever argued again report me
😳radhi are we still friends ??😕😭
Edited by hamdasgh - 15 years ago