DM's view! - Page 3

Originally posted by: sg08

You can put as much positive spin as you want to on this fiasco and I applaud you for seeing a silver lining in whatever happened today but for me SanRaj as I knew them is dead and the pair I loved is done. What DM did today was unforgivable, to malign his wife's character not only in front of his family but also outsiders is not something I can forgive him for......you might say that he did not malign her character but he did, what he did was essentially agree to Rudr's accusations and that is as good as maligning her character. He was supposed to stand up for her, to have her back, to defend her, to protect her and he failed miserably in all of these, he failed her when she needed him the most....she was looking to him to defend her and he didn't. How is Santu ever going to trust him ever again, I wouldn't? Santu is softhearted and she will probably forgive him and take him back once the truth comes out and he realizes his mistake and asks for forgiveness but the fact would remain that he did not trust her, and it took very little to break his faith in her and if it could happen once, it could happen again. Their bond is no longer unbreakable, infact it took very little to break it. If I was in Santu's place, I would never forgive him for what he did. I think I for one have lost all respect for DM.

@ shalu 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

You put everything in words I wanted to say and just couldn't. Today DM was no different then rudra and DM being her husband was worst. DM died for me today and their's nothing he can do that will ever change my opinion of him. I'm glad you ladies are seeing the silver lining in this crappy track.

Originally posted by: ramonag

@ sg 08 why did santu get upset & run off to nanaji during anamika track? Did she trust DM blindly when he took anamika supposedly lovingly to their room declaring they wud spend the night together& santu overheard?

Posted this in another thread, reposting it here --

I don't think we can equate the two. During Anamika track, Santu saw DM with someone she thought to be his wife, the love of his life and who she thought had first right over him, she didn't think she had any right to object to their relationship because DM had not confided in her.....where was the question of trusting him when she didn't think he was doing anything wrong. She ran to Nanaji's because she was hurt and wanted to remove herself from being the third angle in the relationship as Moti had been telling her.

Here the guy was a stranger who tried to rape her, her husband was supposed to have faith in her which he didn't, instead he essentially accused her of having an affair with her to-be rapist.

oh come one you cant say DM was was no diff than rudr now thats dissing DM's chacracter too much

Originally posted by: ramonag

@ sg 08 why did santu get upset & run off to nanaji during anamika track? Did she trust DM blindly when he took anamika supposedly lovingly to their room declaring they wud spend the night together& santu overheard?

Ramo , santu ran to nanaji becoz she was thinking anamika is DM's wif subhi , the Subhi whom he loves than his life , she couldn't be the second wife and she didn't want to be heavy load on DM's shoulder that's why she left and she didn't say a word and I'm sure even if DM did that to a non supposed to be subhi I'm sure she wouldn't ever say disgusting things like what DM just said
Would have said Ok DM can be redeemable if he just walked away , but what he said was just unacceptable

Originally posted by: sg08

Posted this in another thread, reposting it here --

I don't think we can equate the two. During Anamika track, Santu saw DM with someone she thought to be his wife, the love of his life and who she thought had first right over him, she didn't think she had any right to object to their relationship because DM had not confided in her.....where was the question of trusting him when she didn't think he was doing anything wrong. She ran to Nanaji's because she was hurt and wanted to remove herself from being the third angle in the relationship as Moti had been telling her.

Here the guy was a stranger who tried to rape her, her husband was supposed to have faith in her which he didn't, instead he essentially accused her of having an affair with her to-be rapist.

was posting the same shalu

Never said or implied DM was the same as Rudr.......Rudr is the scum of the earth who has no respect for women.....DM does repect women, just not his wife, atleast not enough to not have humiliated her like this in front of the whole world. Sorry, DM is no longer the man I thought him to be and whatever he does in future, it's not going to wipe away what he did today.

I understand some want to see the positive angle to this story and that's okay but let's be a little realistic while doing so.

Ana track and this disgusting act rudr just did to santo is no way in HELL the same thing. Anamika wasn't trying to rape DM. DM knew she was a fake subhi but santo didn't. What santo was seeing was her husband in the arms of his assume first wife and the love of his life. Santo was dealing with insecurities of her own at that time cause santo felt she couldn't compete with subhi and not that she didn't trust malik. Santo didn't question or get mad at DM and said if you knew ana was fake then why were so close to her, santo asked her husband from now on promise me that you will never allow third party in our relationship.

It mistake of both. As far i feel this relation can never be revived.At this stage proving innocence is waste. I will not comment on part of husband. but as a normal reaction when third person violates dignity of your house. You don't courage them. You fight them. That wht no1 in M-clan did including DM. That is his mistake. They rather created a tamasha of their own dignity.

Originally posted by: ramonag

@ sg 08 why did santu get upset & run off to nanaji during anamika track? Did she trust DM blindly when he took anamika supposedly lovingly to their room declaring they wud spend the night together& santu overheard?

Yes she did trust her husband completely. Santo was blaming herself for DM not being closed to his wife and she asked her husband can she go to nanaji house for few day's but in reality she wasn't going to come back cause she couldn't handle seeing DM with subhi. DM told her no don't go cause he wanted her their cause he wanted to bring an end to ana natak but santo didn't know and when she saw them she was hurt cause she couldn't understand why malik wanted to stay back to see him with subhi.

anyway i dont want to discuss it further. For me sanraj is sanraj no matter what & both DM & santu are at fault for the present state of affairs. Right now too they are behaving like a peevish sulking couple.