Bandini Live Update Do or Die Day - Page 44

sanju.....i'll go 4 ur idea......he is DM.........he dont beleives in settling down d things in a simple way..........he is nt jst hot.......bt intelligent toooo.........i relly feel....he must hv something in mind while lukin at santu.....................RUDRA AB TERA KYA HOGA??? 😆 😆

Originally posted by: SanRajDeewani

Okay, i have slept on yesterday's episode and no matter how we try and put it DM's character can't be redeemed..
However..
Looking at what DM said and using it on the episode: I have thought of this..
DM said things are not always what they look like? But they aren't always false either..
Well...
We all saw how SanRaj had that eyelock and DM walked passed.. What if they did chat? What if we aren't being shown the full story here?
Everything we saw wasn't false, but everything you see can't be believed?
Isn't that the same here??

Sanju I was thinking that also but I don't know..... I hope so cause I don't think I can see DM character in the same way ever again if he hasn't spoken to Santu and told her his planning 😭

Shah, i agree with you totally. Its just not very palatable for me to see DM mete out this kind of behaviour towards Santu who as you say deserves only respect, love and protection at this juncture.

@ Shahara If we go back ten years Santu went to prison willingly - her intention was to save Birwa. During that time Baa saved her and instructed m-clan not to report anything to police but then Santu handed herself willingly to police without thinking of consequences. Agreed she was merely an 18 year old who did not have foresight to think of future. Also when DM turned up in the prison she gave him all that unwanted thing about her being after DM's money. DM was also at fault for buying into Santu's word and he was disturbed by it, that is the reason he sacrificed his family cos he thought he couldn't do justice to Santu due to Khemi's vachan. After DM's conversation with Baa we saw sparks between SanRaj and if Rudr incident did not happen we would have seen SanRaj reunite without Birwa spilling the beans about Arjan's murder.

It pains me DM not consoling Santu during the ordeal😭 but I think DM is equally hurt and is pained by the situation. DM is trying to quickly restore Santu's honor and dignity and will not leave any stone unturned in that direction. Santu is pained by DM's suspicion but she also did not confide in her husband or atleast privately talked with him which further worsens the situation. Again both of them are at fault - it is more on personal level. Baa instructed Santu to go and talk with DM but she chose not to. Hopefully CVs wouldn't damage DM's character much further and show us that DM is working towards restoring Santu's honor. DM's suspicion is merely a show because Santu's character was called in question in front of many people and those allegations against her will need
to be proven to be baseless and Rudr needs to be put on spot so that Santu's pureness is out in open. Lets see what happens ahead.

Originally posted by: ramonag

@shah i cant understand why you ppl are only mad at DM but santu remains unscathed. Of course its entirely your (Pov.@ hema i feel the same as you do, in fact i hav posted almost the same thing.

Ramona, i would like to clarify that i am equally mad at both Santu and DM for different reasons as you very well know.

I am here coz I just need to say this, so here I am. This wld probably my last post in a long time. I need time to heal from this horror that we were dished out. I know it's LaLa Land but it's part of us in some weird way coz when we see Santu or anyone in Bandini, we might see ourselves. Santu being a woman represents many of us in many ways.

Forgive me for being blunt but to me what DM said just appeared to be like since she was not with him, so she was willing to be with somebody else. No matter what greater good or silver lining they show us, the damage is already done. As usual the Fruitcakes likes to underestimate and ridicule the audience in general. They butchered each and very character and the one left was DM and he too is now gone.
I may have been a staunch basher but the FCs have always portrayed him to be a dignified man in that sense, which now is gone.
If they think people are going to enjoy watching the lead again, they are wrong because it's the same show but the feeling will never be the same. Some might just be put off and leave, it happened with Hitmi and it will happen with Sanraj. I was right with Bacteria and I will be right abt this as well. Now when ppl see them they will ridicule the old man n that young girl (aka hugh hefner and his bunny).

I dun think DM is pretending and he meant what he said abt her. As for KadduI don't think she is pretending either to get Rudr. I think the Fruitcakes are gonna show us this humorous plot where Santu has been set up by Sarang and Rudr so that she is out of the house coz they want the millions while the minions are out to get her out of DM's life completely. They had dragged Hiten as well because after DM, Hiten wld be the biggest hurdle. Now with Santu's character being tainted, there is no way Sanraj cld ever happen. This is all a grand plan by the M-ladies with all of them working together. (sounds sick right but this is the FC's calling card)

Ekta is a feminist, so since santu has declared herself dead, we will see the emergence of a new avatar maybe in Durga roop. Then she will kick *** everyone and take revenge.

I cld be wrong on all accounts here with the plot n I agree with all of what you girls have said abt DM.
However there is no redemption in my eyes ever and I wld never feel the same with Sanraj, the magic is gone.

I read some of the posts and I am upset seeing some of you being so insensitive 😡
Which woman who has been raped or nearly raped will tell that she was??? Have you ever met any rape victims? Do you know what kind of emotions they go thru? Almost all feel it is their fault purely because the rapist makes them think they are at fault.
In this case santu blames herself and needed DM to trust her the most but he didn't. Typical for men to reject their partners because they see them as tainted.
In almost all rape cases, the victims are raped by people closest to them and because the girls are too trustworthy.
No raped women or nearly raped women shld be pressurised to explain herself. What they need is a reassurance that it was not their fault and everything will be ok.
I am appalled that some of you are blaming Santu in that particular situation.
Clearly you people are not thinking properly.😕

Since when did any of us ever excuse Santu and her behaviour towards DM?