Bandini Live Update Do or Die Day - Page 41

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Posted: 15 years ago
The only thing Santu really expects from DM (all the time she has been Mrs. DM) is some respect and love.
When DM can stand up for Santu against Moti on the basis of a torn saree border which really is not so serious as compared to what happened yesterday, is it so hard for him to show her the support she deserves against a stranger, an animal who has invaded his home and attacked his wife?
A man who lets his wife cry alone needs to examine his priorities!
The situation was handled badly and DM is now projected in very bad light regardless of what his intentions are.
"The path to hell is paved with very good intentions!"
Edited by chalia - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
@cuterosy:

I'm sorry but I don't buy that....right now she must be feeling really alone and abandoned and shattered....this is no time to give her space but to give her strength and support so that she can atleast begin to recover from this ordeal......and I think a few words from DM on how he believes and trusts her would have gone a long way in doing that.....and she doesn't really care what the world thinks, only what he thinks thats why she had left the decision of defending her honor up to him.
Edited by sg08 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
The bond of respect and love was developing between DM and Santu but then bacteria came and unleashed his evil eye. Santu took blame for Bacteria's murder to save her daughter Birwa from prison but post leap that very daughter turned her back on Santu. In prison when DM came to Santu to ask what happened Santu fed him wrong story - she married DM only for money. Then to break the bond between Santu and DM Chemical Khemi took vow from DM that he won't see Santu as she killed her husband. So in past 10 years the trust that was developing between DM and Santu was bit shaken and fault was on both sides DM's as well as Santu. Yesterday Santu put her trust on DM and DM would have reciprocated it back but there were allegations against Santu's dignity and honor and at crucial moment Santu chose not to speak - she could have just said that all of those are false and seek private time with DM but then Santu did not opt for it. Even baa said that you will have to fight for your honor but she chose not to. DM got projected in bad light cos he was in situation where if he accepts his wife her character would have been tarnished due to Rudr's baseless allegations therefore DM chose to silently fight for Santu and prove her innocence and restore her dignity and honor. Lets see what Fruitcakes dish out to us hope they show us DM fighting to restore Santu's honor and dignity cos if they show DM not doing anything to restore Santu's dignity and honor they should end the show as the essence of the show has gone and slowly the viewers will also go.
Edited by cuterosy - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
yes cuterosy you are right. I am sure the real person behind rudr is to be unveiled now & its vanraj. Thats why DM PROBABLY did it to catch the culprit. I know you all think its the wrong way but its my POV that santu did not always go about things the right way either.
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: sg08

@cuterosy:

I'm sorry but I don't buy that....right now she must be feeling really alone and abandoned and shattered....this is no time to give her space but to give her strength and support so that she can atleast begin to recover from this ordeal......and I think a few words from DM on how he believes and trusts her would have gone a long way in doing that.....and she doesn't really care what the world thinks, only what he thinks thats why she had left the decision of defending her honor up to him.



I completely understand Santu's situation and am pained by it and DM won't give her that much space cos he will be on the case, beat **** out of Rudr and restore her honor and dignity and then comfort her and be with her so she can recover from this ordeal. This will happen if CVs haven't completely ruined DM's character. On the other hand if DM does nothing to restore Santu's honor it is end of Bandini there is nothing left in show as its essence is lost.
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: cuterosy


I completely understand Santu's situation and am pained by it and DM won't give her that much space cos he will be on the case, beat **** out of Rudr and restore her honor and dignity and then comfort her and be with her so she can recover from this ordeal. This will happen if CVs haven't completely ruined DM's character. On the other hand if DM does nothing to restore Santu's honor it is end of Bandini there is nothing left in show as its essence is lost.


You know what, I don't even care anymore if DM tries to restore her honor.....it will be too little, too late......some things once broken cannot be fixed. I am sure Santu will eventually recover, and all on her own, she is a very strong woman, otherwise she couldn't have survived the M-clan all these years and she definitely does not need DM's help to recover, not anymore. And I hope that if DM even tries to comfort her now or even come near her, she shows him the door, shuts the door in his face.😡......and if she doesn't, I'll be on her case next.
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Posted: 15 years ago
no doubt what DM did was completely wrong, but the way santu bhaved wuth him in jail was also completely 🤬 i still cannot bear to watch that scene again or condone her bhaviour. To say that no one else was around at that time is wrong bcoz at that time is not an excuse bcoz at the time mahaanta bhoot was so much on her head that had 150 people been around she'd still do it. Anyway be that as it may.. Declaring herself dead is not the answer to the present imbroglio either...had she wanted to put DM in his place quietly & purposefully she cud hav just quietly left. But since cvs dont want that they' chose this death route by whch no one can remove her as she now did her last rites & can only go where her funeral pyre awaits. so there she will remain & probably fast unto death & much mayhem will ensue & then of course some ridiculous twist whch makes her come around.
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Posted: 15 years ago
also another thing just struck me... Sinse the cvS ARE BORROWING ideas/from the FF of our forum writers... There was one written by i dont exactly remember who... Where sanraj hav a fight & santu takes a vow of silence & DM cant stand it & begs her to speak. I'm afraid this is the next one to be stolen... As she's in death mode she wont speak a single word.. And her silence will be deafening.
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Posted: 15 years ago
Lets hold our breath and if we look back Santu could have rang alarm about Rudr atleast to baa, she could have gone and confided in her as her and baa's relationship was back on track this wouldn't have stopped or put obstacle in Monghi's wedding. DM is angry with Santu on personal level cos she did not confide in him for bacteria's murder and fed him wrong story - Santu being after DM's property and money. Recently we saw sparks between SanRaj and eventually they would have been reunited even if Birwa did not spill the beans on Arjan's murder. Meanwhile Rudr steps in and alleges that Santu has relationship with him. Santu puts her entire trust on DM and sadly we viewers were shown DM suspects Santu. We are still to see the story progress and lets see what CVs show us.

Lets step back from the show, if it would be real life and I am the one who is caught in compromising position with another man who is forcing himself on me, My husband would doubt me cos that is what his eyes witnessed and then I have to speak up for myself what transpired during that time otherwise even if I share strong bond with husband and his strong belief on me it is very difficult to shake what your eyes see. My husband has unwavering faith on me but just seeks explanation. Similarly if I catch my husband in compromising position I am going to doubt or atleast want an clarification, I am not questioning his dignity but just seek explanation and have unwavering faith on him.

I am pained by Santu's suffering😭😭 and am angry at DM for not standing by Santu's side😡 or even consoling her but hopefully DM has something and in nick of time will restore Santu's honor and dignity otherwise Bandini has ended there is nothing left to be shown.
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Posted: 15 years ago
Ok, so is this all now Santu's fault?.....DM did not have faith in her and suspected her and this is somehow Santu's fault? And DM of course is "doodh kaa dhula"



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