March 4 - Live Update Pg 9 - Page 16

One thing today epis proved was that DM is putty in santu's hands, she's the only one who can control him & the only one he listens to, the way he bcame totally absorbed in what she was saying the way he kept staring at her when she told him off showed herPower over him, hiten's character is totally idiotic, when he told DM to take a decision on santu DM said I only decided abt toral.awwwwww 😉

The very first time,I actually liked what Santu said today.That was needed indeed.Also I dont think DM knows what she is upto,neither is he playing along,but the truth is,despite his peripheral hatred towards her,he still can see sense in what she is saying.Thats driving him towards the right direction.

Champu asked the M.$ question today.Why doesnt Santu directly tell DM.I do not agree with the reason she gave champu.Right now,no one in that house will believe her,but DM would have,had she come clean initially,instead of waiting till the last minute,and being nasty meanwhile.So,its her own fault.

But one thins is clear.We will NOT get SanRaj for another month or so.

Originally posted by: SanRajDeewani

Baa slapping Santu was proof that she still believes in Santu.. she said I don't know whether you killed bacteria or not but you've changed so after everything Baa and Babuji were waiting for Santu to come back..

If they did, why did they sit on their fanny all these years and let Santu rot in jail.....DM had promised Khemi, not them, they could have done something to help her if they believed in her, but they didn't even visit her even once in jail. I don't know.....Baa saying now that she doesn't know if Santu killed bacteria or not sounds fake.....too little too late....if she had her doubts, why didn't she try to find the truth, maybe she wouldn't have succeeded, but she could have tried.....or did she think Santu was having the time of her life in jail?

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

Anu

I don't care that wasn't his place, if DM hits santo that would've been fine with me, he has every right that his wife not Hiten and I'm glad DM stopped him. I don't approve of men hitting women but in this case if DM had slaped Santo I won't be angry.

really you wouldn't be angry if DM hit santu? if thats the case then i think santu has every right to point or slap DM, he is her husband afterall. but personally just because they are husband and wife that doesnt mean its ok to hit them thats domestic abuse. if he does it once he prob do it again over something so stupid.

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Originally posted by: sg08

Have got to blame Hiten for raising his hand on Santu......proves he never really considered Santu his mother, that was only talk......because no matter what a mom does, a son would never raise his hand on her no matter how angry he is or what the instigation. He would never have done the same had it been Subhi in Santu's place or DM or even Moti, but he did because it was Santu. But then Hiten has always been a dodo, don't expect any better from him.....today he really lost whatever little respect I had for him, not that he had much anyways ever since he fell for his maasi witch.

Wont blame Hiten.If you see your step mother pointing fingers at your own father,then how will a child react.Not saying what he did was right,maybe he shouldnt have raised his hand,but he was justified in his anger.

i guess that im not much of a gopika because i like this santu, shes much stronger, more independant, she doesnt depend on DM all the time and as DM is his own man, santu is her own woman. a lot of people on this forum are hating on her because she shouted at DM but thats how he treated her in the beginning through no fault of her own, so i think he defo deserves some of it. i want to see equality in their relationship. a strong malik need a equally strong malkin to look after him and their household. i also want her to figure everything out on her own to prove to DM that she is no dufford, no chokri but his wife and mother to their children. its pretty obvious that DM can't look after his children without santu. his route of punishment has not worked all the time, it makes them want to rebel more, think maulik, kaadu etc. but santu's way is more effective and has brought a family together when DM simply couldnt. i mean someone got to look after these ungrateful children and who better than santu. just by being herself she puts them to shame and shows them how to act.

just because she acts like a mahaanta that doesnt means she is not human, thats how shes always been, a good hearted person. maybe im looking at this through rose tinted glasses but when did being good natured become a sign of weakness. she loves her kids even though they are not her own, she willing to sacrifice her happiness for them, isnt that what every good mother does? but lets hope shes gives them a good telling off. im sure a lot of you would choose your children over your husband anyday.

also i know a lot of you hate tracks that are not about sanraj, but one relationship can make a good movie but not necessarily a good serial, having other relationships is what makes it more realistic. they are a family afterall. also for those hardcore sanraj lovers, a realistic marriage isnt always happy happy, theres up and downs so you should expect that even if ekta makes the downs rather unrealistic. it these that keep the show from ending, i dont care if this serial has turned unoriginal but i do want it to be realistic.

bdw Im not hating on DM this is just another point of view. im all for sanraj but no to all this santu hating crap

I least liked Santu attitude today. agree she had to go far to wake up the maalik but this is not done👎🏼 there was no need of SUCH attitude😡

Originally posted by: rpmenon

Wont blame Hiten.If you see your step mother pointing fingers at your own father,then how will a child react.Not saying what he did was right,maybe he shouldnt have raised his hand,but he was justified in his anger.

Thats what I am saying, he never really accepted Santu as his mom despite all his talk about Santu being like Subhi for him during Subhi's death anniversary.....whatever happens between parents, how much ever they fight, kids don't raise their hands on their parents even if they see one insulting the other, it's just not their place. Would he have done the same if it was Subhi pointing a finger at DM or DM pointing a finger at Subhi or Santu(which DM has done) or would he have done the same if it was even Moti -- he has seen Moti insult Santu who he suppposedly considered his mother innumerable times, but did he interfere, no. Anger is one thing, kids get angry at their parents....but raising your hand at your mother when you are angry at her, which son does that?