Just wanted to share....

Hello guys how are khana khaake janaa hawn!😃 Just wanted to make a poll of this topic, but thought to keep it normal😃Ki fark paindaa!😳

Well I have been visiting this forum regularly...and what I gotto see is, there are loads of people calling my DM selfish and all, for not accepting Santuri😭😭 Ummm so I thought to open this topic to share exactly what I feel abt all 3 ..... Santuri👍🏼....DM☺️🤗....and SanRaj😍..

First of all, if we see from Ms.Santuri and Mrs.Mahiyavanshi's perspective, she was a low-cast girl...she never ever dreamt of marrying her Maalik...THE DM🥱....And till date, whenever DM touches her, or talks to her, she just fails to look at him or respond him....rather kinda scared of him😆😆 And I bet, given a choice, she would never opt for marrying this Bedardi and kathor-hriday( only this much Sanskrit I know ) insaan....And after marriage, she's now like any other K-heroine....Adarsh-Sarvagunsampannya-Sati-Savitri Naari👏👏Trying to be BESTEST Mother ever....and on the way of becoming Adarsh Bahu of the family also⭐️....So she exactly doesnt have any flaw in her...Plus, she's kinda innocent and sweet, which is why, everybody is bound to love her😳....So living with Maalik and being treated as some creature is definitely not done for her.....Injustice to her!

Now coming to my Jaanu DM -- He was not supposed to marry Santuri that day....Given a choice, he'd also live with his Subhi's memories forever😊...Now the question comes, why did he have to listen to that Guruji! And now as he married her, he HAS to love her by hook or crook😲....and if he doesn't, he's being mean and selfish😭😭...But the point is, if he WON"T have married Santuri that day, as per the superstitions amongst illiterate people in villages, Santuri would have been unmarried throughout life....and everybody would break relations with Nanaji's family(that's what Jaggu was claiming !!)...So from that POV, DM actually saved her life from being destroyed🤗....And now he's not accepting her so easily, that's not becoz he's selfish or so, that's simply becoz of his unforgettable love ( imagine Subhi was with him since his college days to Suraj's birth❤️Kinda LONG journey😳) for his wife.....So from HIS perspective, he's not wrong either....And it's not that he spoiled her life, or Santu is doing favor to him, but he's mean to her....even he also did....😳So telling him to forget his love within 1 yr for this girl, is damn injustice to him also😭😭

And last but not the least -- SanRaj😃I think if he accepts her within 2 weeks/months, then it can break within 2 weeks only🥱...This kinda relation needs understanding....which is why, DM gonna accept her VERYYYYYYYYYY slowly....😊 First he has to put aside his memories of 25 yrs with Subhi....then trying to accept her, THEN love her....How can it be done so quick...😭😭So I am damn happy the way the progress of his change is shown in the show.....In fact on Thursday's epi, he just held her hands to ask what the matter is☺️....That was kind of UNTHINKABLE stuff before some days.....Hehe...

So now I wanna ask who of you really think DM is selfish....and doing injustice to her......

Ok so very long n krappy post😆😆I am sorry I irritated u😆😆

LOL my pleasure Sukhi....Got ur point....But there she cant be seated in her home all day long and HAD to come out, but the humiliations other villagers would make to her, I guess that's NONE less than this one....

In fact here also, she's getting Birwa, Suraj and Champakali and Bapuji....They're kinda nice to her....But seeing from Mahiyavanshi family's POV, the reaction of them towards Santu is kinda normal.....

Anyways, thanks😉me gtg to study now😭😭I hate it...and I HATE exams😡😡

I totally agree to what you have said!

All the best for your exams re.. ace 'em !

You are right .. both the sufferings are B A D !

i love dm too, and the expectation i have from him is not to love santu, but only to treat her humanely. she needs to have a clean room, decent food and proper clothes to wear everyday, not only when visitors come calling. he knows she is a 18 year old orphan with no support in life. he has married her out of his free will. she did not choose to marry him. he knows his bhootni sister. he needs to make sure his sister is not traumatising the little girl.

^ ekdum barobar mhanlis !

DM just needs to make sure that he treats Santo in such a way that he never has a guilt pang later when he realizes his feelings for her.. like guilt when he falls for her and realizes he has treated her so bad !

if not loving her like a husband should love his wife he can atleast make her happy by treating her well.