DM being unfair

when Monghi was calling Santu to play holi. DM stated that Santu's family is her maika people not Dm's family. That was after Pinakin pointed out that Santu's family is Dm's family now. Dm's refusal to knowledge that Santu belongs to Mahyavanshi now is unjust and unfair. He claims to be the judge and jury of the town and he is not serving justice in his own house. Santu after merrige is his wife and that is the fact. He keeps insulting her to his convinience. He refuse to sit with her during pooja and literally threw gulal at her in front of all that many people.
I am still hopeful for tomorrow thinking that Dm and Pinakin's conversation ened the show and maybe it will start from there on. Dm will have a better reason to say that Santu's family is her maika. Maybe his reasoning will make sense. My expectations from Dm are higher than a common man and hopefully are fulfilled.

I know Cimba...he is a meanie, he is unfair towards his living wife. I felt the pain champakali was going through...for Santo. LOL🤣
He threw Gulal on her, that was kinda romantic...i think, it was like a hubby is mad at his wife, and she is trying to manaofy him. Anyways u r right, at least he should acknowledge that she is their own. God, kitna bada hai maalik ka ego.

He refuses to sit with her in the pooja because he has not internalised the fact that she is his wife. I do not think he is mean on purpose, she is still someone detached from him. The throwing of the pooja, although looked so mean, he did not just leave...he did fulfil the part.

I think he is excellently reflecting an insecurity he is not aware of, which all human beings have in their psyche. By showing appreciation to others, we sometimes can fear that our love is lessened for another. But DM has shown naram eyes to Santu. There is hope...far away, but there is!

that was a good point Rani. but insaaniyat ke naate he could have considered Santo's feelings. He won't be attached to her till he detaches himself from the portrait. You are Mrs. mahiyavanshi at least u shuld understand...he is being unfair to you LOL!!

LOL, ab baat filmy kar di hai to jawaab bhi Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Gham wala hi hai...

"Meri mohobbat unkayliye, unki nafrat se kayeen gunah ziada hai"

Dil nu thandaakkk paigayeeee! You are absolutely right, he needs to detatch from the portrait and for that Santu is going to have to do something which is just mind blowing. Not just the whole achi bahu, even Subadra was all that...Santu is going to have to make one big filmy scene in the sense do something too great for the family...risk her life, actively!

And insaaniyat kay naatay he could be more naram dil, but who HAS he been naramdil to except Baa and Sabhadra? Even with his children there is a bit of formality i sometimes detetch.

Originally posted by: Sammie_Ronit

that was a good point Rani. but insaaniyat ke naate he could have considered Santo's feelings. He won't be attached to her till he detaches himself from the portrait. You are Mrs. mahiyavanshi at least u shuld understand...he is being unfair to you LOL!!

Originally posted by: MrsMahyavanshi

LOL, ab baat filmy kar di hai to jawaab bhi Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Gham wala hi hai...

"Meri mohobbat unkayliye, unki nafrat se kayeen gunah ziada hai"

Dil nu thandaakkk paigayeeee! You are absolutely right, he needs to detatch from the portrait and for that Santu is going to have to do something which is just mind blowing. Not just the whole achi bahu, even Subadra was all that...Santu is going to have to make one big filmy scene in the sense do something too great for the family...risk her life, actively!

And insaaniyat kay naatay he could be more naram dil, but who HAS he been naramdil to except Baa and Sabhadra? Even with his children there is a bit of formality i sometimes detetch.

🤣 that was classic.
Mrs. M - you are sooo right....i guess you need to start teaching him what insaaniyat is...aapko kuch fabulous karna hoga. 😆 I salute u for ur perseverance towards his ignorance of ur presence in his life. Dhanya ho aap dhanya ho

Tabs finally u felt bad for Santo...mere ko laga u will support DM only over here...she chose him over her nana ji and he even heard what she said to Indu ben, about his presence in her life...still kitna naatak hai DM ko. Gawddammit 😒