Why does Anandi always has to be Mahaan ? - DTN pg 2 & 4

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SPuja

@SPuja

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Kalyani Devi is not Anandi's grandmother - she was her grand mother-in-law who did help her because she thought Anandi suffered due to bal-vivah. It was to undo the damage done due to bal-vivah. It did not give Anandi any legal right or made BH as Anandi's home. It is Jagya's home - and Anandi is J's ex-wife.

As regard Anandi's reaction to the talk of her third marriage - again an illogical track. A 40 something cannot say a firm no. There was no need to bring Pushpa and Anant was worse than Anandi - how can he day dream Anandi and then happily reunite with his divorced wife 😲 - looks like none of them have any spine.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Well Singhs made Anandi their daughter.If they think of her as their daughter it is their business.Jagya apparently doesn't mind so he doesn't question his grand mother.

What she did for Anandi after the marriage broke she didn't have to. She could have just settled the issue with financial settlement.She did it out of love for that girl.

She could have easily allowed her to go off to her mother's place and helped her financially if it had been just guilt or if she felt it was her duty.

Anandi apparently was not aware of what they were thinking she went to bring Pushpa with the intention of re uniting them if possible.

Even before theyes had a chance to open the topic she started her efforts.

In the end she told no to Dsa and Jagya in a very clear manner.

Where is the question of telling Anant when he never got a chance to open this topic with her?

If he was interested in Anandi at least he should have opened his mouth and tell that he wanted to marry her not patch up with Pushpa.

Anandi told her decision to people who are interested in her well being that is Dsa Jagya and Ganga.

If Anant made any noises about wanting her instead of first wife she would have told him too.

When she said no to the marriage even for right reasons people still have problems 😛

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: aparnauma
Is Anandi living there because of Jagya or is it because if Dsa? - It doesn't matter, because it doesn't change the fact that the two exes are sharing the same roof.

Another question.if Jagya had been living somewhere else and Dsa in Jaitser where would she have shifted to ? Would she have shifted to Jaitser to live with Dsa or where J is living? - No point discussing this, as in the given scenario, Anandi has moved into the house where her Ex was already living with his family.

Just because J lives there why should Anandi deprive herself of Dsa's support and company?She loves her grandmother just as much J loves his grandmother. Why shouldn't she live with her grandmother .

I thought she loved Shiv too. And he too has parents, family, and a place of his own. Does Anandi love Dsa so much that she chose to leave behind all the her husband left for her, only to settle down with her ex and his family, for Dsa's sake?

If Dsa means the world to Anandi, why not remarry Anant too? Why bring in Shiv to justify her rejection?

If the involved parties don't think they are doing anything wrong if their hearts are clean they are not answerable to society.

And what about the wrong that is being subjected to Ganga. Isn't that abusing another woman's rights?

I still don't understand why Anandi should let a marriage which happened way back when she was a child dictate her relationship with a family which loved her very much and cared for her like she is their own daughter and in turn she loves them like they are her own family.

Why should Jagya's presence in taht house be a dictating factor in Anandi's life?.If Anandi wants to shift because she wants more space for her kids or more independence then it is valid reason.

Why should she let Jagya factor dictate her life and the decisions she makes?

And what about Ganga's privacy, her space, her emotions and her needs?

Why no one questioned Singhs when they did Kanyadan of Anandi? Why did no one question when they did her bidai after her marriage with Shiv? When Singhs consider her as their daughter and she considers them as her parents why should she not live there?
Then who is Shiv to Anandi?

What is that connects Jagya with Anandi - isn't the answer obvious ? It is Dadisa. - Will Anandi move out of BH after DSa dies.

For Anandi Dsa and her feelings matter much more than what some jobless onlookers think of her. For Jagya Dsa's feelings are important than what society thinks. Excuse me; Who are the jobless onlookers you are referring to here? By that standard, you hold the highest number of posts on the forum in the same time frame as I do? Should you be declared as the most jobless member?

What I do with my loved ones depends on the circumstances and things which are at stake and definitely will not depend on what society thinks about the issue.Nobody is answerable to anybody unless what they are doing is against the law of the land.

I am sick and fed up of this issue. - Then don't bother replying. I didn't invite you get back at my post in the first instance on page 1.

Tomorrow after Anandi is gone from the show also people will come back to talk about this🤢🥱
That would be none of your problem

I had already started replying question by question before I read the last the three paragraphs.

I regretted having bothered to reply after reading your last three paragraphs. I do not want to waste time with someone who is so obsessed with one character that they start calling names to real life people.

Edited by Missesha - 9 years ago

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

When the concerned exes have moved on in life so far away as to find a potential partner for the ex and people still are stuck on that it becomes irritating too especially every topic degenerates into this one issue.

Then that must be some kind of an obsession too.

If some people are obsessed with characters then there are some people who seem to be obsessed with an issue which ceased to be an issue for the characters in the story.

Anandi is not concerned about the job less onlookers in the society where SHE lives in.

I do not know about others but if I come acros someone in the REAL world who have this kind of arrangement I will not question too simply because their living arrangements are of no concern to me.

If they are my neighbours I leave it at that if they happen to be my colleagues what matters me how my equation with them is on work front is. It is not my place to question them. Nor do I spend time speculating about them and their equations.

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

- Anandi was not Mahaan by reunting Anant with Pushpa.

She does not want to give the place of her dead husband to anyone, because he made her life complete. So she will not marry Anant. I give her the credit for this.

Nidhi and Anant needs a family, so if Pushpa is ready to come back, why should not they reunite. I did not find anything wrong in doing so.

- Why Anant reconciled I am not sure, may be he was too hurt to know that the lady for whom he was having feelings, does not love him. So he just accepted Pushpa to move on. Good end of his character.

- Anandi and Singhs , Anandi living at BH - I do not like and also do not support the views of some obsessed views on this. It is not a real life situation. But I do not want to comment on this. And now leap coming in, we will not see Anandi moving out.

- Moreover, I think Nandini will move with Kundan and Harki after her mom's death since N is back on full ghagra choli in montage.

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Thewanderer
Anandi had a chance of finding love again but no, she had to complete Anant's family and make them happy. She always does this, keeping her own interests in the end. Her samaaj seva has made her suffer so much.

She was mahan ?? 😲 I found her selfish.

If she did not want to marry him, fine, no issues. But to bring his wife in front of him without his permission, to force him to talk to her and give him a lecture how happy she will be if he accepts her and gives her a chance again ??... that was utterly stupid and selfishness.

She also said to him I am doing this for you, as if she knows what is best for other people.

When he wanted to talk to mangala, she bluntly told him not to interfere in her personal life... why does the same rule not apply to her?

I was stunned at her shamelessness. 🤢

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

She had used the same principles to get jagya agree for third marriage.

Her next bakra was dr. anant. Divorce is not a joke that people go for it one day and the next day they reunite.

Before divorce there is always a period of separation for at least one year. During that time the couple actually realise whether they want divorce or not... when nothing works, the last option is divorce.

People do reunite after separation, but no one does after divorce.

Actually anant was brought for anandi, but since she is going to die in the show, the CVs made him reunite with his ex-wife and gave him a proper exit from the show.

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

@Is Anandi living there because of Jagya or is it because if Dsa?

This question is raised again and again in the forum by some members.

The answer to that is she is living in Jaitsar neither because of jagya nor because of dadisa, BUT ONLY for herself.

If she did not want to, she would not have stayed in BH... when she does not want to listen, she does not, no matter what... like she went to bring mangala when everyone had told her to stay away from her... And the latest case because she did not want to marry anant, she forced him to reunite with his ex-wife.

Edited by Shinya - 9 years ago

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1013962

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Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Shinya
She had used the same principles to get jagya agree for third marriage.

Her next bakra was dr. anant. Divorce is not a joke that people go for it one day and the next day they reunite.

Before divorce there is always a period of separation for at least one year. During that time the couple actually realise whether they want divorce or not... when nothing works, the last option is divorce.

People do reunite after separation, but no one does after divorce.

Actually anant was brought for anandi, but since she is going to die in the show, the CVs made him reunite with his ex-wife and gave him a proper exit from the show.

Yes CVs made plan for her third marriage, post Nandini Anandi reunion.

This was the creative difference - and channel evacuated them. And going for leap.

No she did not bully Anant, she just suggested. And Dr Anant lost hope for Anandi ji and went to Pushpa. He could have stayed alone , but it is better than having nothing.

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1013962

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Posted: 9 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Shinya

She was mahan ?? 😲 I found her selfish.

If she did not want to marry him, fine, no issues. But to bring his wife in front of him without his permission, to force him to talk to her and give him a lecture how happy she will be if he accepts her and gives her a chance again ??... that was utterly stupid and selfishness.

She also said to him I am doing this for you, as if she knows what is best for other people.

When he wanted to talk to mangala, she bluntly told him not to interfere in her personal life... why does the same rule not apply to her?

I was stunned at her shamelessness. 🤢

Frustration of AnAn fans. Is Dr Anant spoon fed kids, Anandi ji ne bola and wife ke piche piche chole.