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Posted: 9 years ago
#81
"Where is Mangala being punished ? Anandi only took her daughter with her as per Nandini's wishes. It was important to reveal Mangala's doing, this drama couldn't have completed any other way. I am sure future episodes will show Anandi warming upto Mangala and taking care of her.
Anandi being away from her daughter for 12 yrs, was that not a punishment for her.."
What does this statement means? Anandi was away from her daughter for 12 years and this is called punishment for her? The ONLY punishment? Why was she away from her daughter? She actually sacrificed her daughter - she was not away from her because of some punishment. And no one knows what Anandi did - least the girl who wished to live with Anandi. Anandi should have been searching the girl day and night - here she got the girl on platter - everything was done by others - and it is called punishment for Anandi?

How can one say that this drama could be completed only this way? If two persons done wrong towards a third person - let all the truths to reveal to that third person. This drama ended the typical BV way - injustice.

And where is the need of Anandi warming up to Mangala? Is it Anandi's prerogative to slap and the warm up? Why M needs Anandi's daya? It was Anandi who should have been taking M's daya - the woman who saved her lost daughter, who cared for her all these years often at the risk of her own life - but in BV - such a woman will be subjected to shame and will be slapped and left alone. And then to glorify the lead further - the lead will warm up/help this woman? Totally crap story.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nobody asked M to give up Nandini. Dadisa and Anandi only asked her reveal Anandi's true identity.
Nandini is a child for whom all this was too much to take from a woman whom she adored and obeyed and respected.
Mangala was given a very long rope of trust and gratefulness.
She broke it badly for Jagya and Anandi with total disregard for Nandini's feelings or welfare.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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No one considered Mangala's feelings?
It was Mangala who didn't consider anyone's feelings before breaking their trust.

Mangala's feelings were taken into consideration by Anandi and she refused to accept that the lady is acting against her interests as well as the child's intersts because she believed in the lady's love for the child and the child's trust in the lady.

Things came this far because Anandi kept quiet and accepted what ever the lady told her.


Things came this far because the lady in question didn't give Anandi a chance.


Mangala could have become like Harki? Didn't she become like Akheraj and Harki once her interests were under threat?

Why could the lady who acknowledged Harki's rights to torture the child couldn't acknowledge Anandi's rights to love the child?

If she didn't know how the baby landed at her doorstep and was genuinely under the impression that Anandi dumped her baby in garbage bin her behaviour towards Anandi and her stand on the child's custody would have been respected.

The lady knew the child was not dumped she knew the mother was searching for the child and yet doesn't recognise her rights?

She respected Harki's rights to torture the child because it suited her but had utter disregard for Anandi's rights to love the child because it was against her interests.

She is better than Harki and Akheraj when things are going well for but if things go wrong she can be just as bad as them.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#84
@ Vijaya (tellygeek).
Point is that it was an unbalanced and highly stretched track with almost every character becoming faulty (behaving out of character) by the time the track ended. But Mangala bore the biggest brunt.

The track lost it's fizz and genuineness, based on the way it was scripted and executed.

As a viewer, I neither enjoyed Mangala's humiliation (even if she was wrong) and neither felt that heart-felt happiness upon seeing the reunion (even if the mother -daughter deserved it)

I felt everything was half baked. And one's happiness was built on another person's sorrows. Or rather, Anandi's line was lengthened by shortening Mangala's.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anandi didn't send Jagya to jail for bigamy

Anandi forgave DB even when she almost killed her with those drugs
But she made sure the lady was kicked out for far leeser crimes like instigating a disgruntled Anop
She had the lady kicked out for calling Shiv jhoru ka glam.

So what different thing did she do by not filing a police case against Mangala?

As for the child right now she is too hurt to think straight.More than hating Mangala she is hurting.
It is hurt anger disillusionment that has turned the child against Mangala .

As for the child accepting Anandias her mother Mangala knew that the child always was curious about her mother and knew that the child wanted a mother like Anandi was willing to give a chance to her mother even if her mother threw her in garbage bin.

How can the child's anger against Mangala be not justified?


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: tellygeek


Nobody asked M to give up Nandini. Dadisa and Anandi only asked her reveal Anandi's true identity.
Nandini is a child for whom all this was too much to take from a woman whom she adored and obeyed and respected.
Mangala was given a very long rope of trust and gratefulness.
She broke it badly for Jagya and Anandi with total disregard for Nandini's feelings or welfare.

M was directly and indirectly asked to give up Nandini, by both DSa and Anandi.
She was constantly reminded what is supposed to do by staying in BH, and how she was allowed to live there only because Anandi had permitted it?

Why would any woman in M's place not feel insulted for the love and care she gave to this rich woman's child, and in return, she was only being showed her place.

Didn't Anandi confess to Anant, that "ek maa hoke woh mera dard kyun nahi samajti. Mangala ko jimmedari di gayi thi". Wasn't Anandi just plain expecting from M here. Did she ever try to anticpate M's pain and helplessness?

Anandi and Dsa's constant selfish expectations from M, made M resort to downtrodden ways, because she had no other options legally or financially to put a fight against Anandi.

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Mangala only did wrong to one person; and that is Nimboli. Nobody else. Everybody else wronged M or used her to meet their selfish desires. Dsa tried to buy M's feelings for N, and showed her off by showering her wealth on N.

Nimboli is justified in her anger for M, but still, this doesn't call for hatred.

Yes, N had to know the truth one day and it was right if she chose to go with her bio mother / real identity over M, but M need not be made complete evil and be solely blamed for (the way it ended).



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

@ Vijaya (tellygeek).

Point is that it was an unbalanced and highly stretched track with almost every character becoming faulty (behaving out of character) by the time the track ended. But Mangala bore the biggest brunt.

The track lost it's fizz and genuineness, based on the way it was scripted and executed.

As a viewer, I neither enjoyed Mangala's humiliation (even if she was wrong) and neither felt that heart-felt happiness upon seeing the reunion (even if the mother -daughter deserved it)

I felt everything was half baked. And one's happiness was built on another person's sorrows. Or rather, Anandi's line was lengthened by shortening Mangala's.




I agree Esha, CVs were unfair to both Anandi and Mangala.
Track ended with M suffering. But Anandi also suffered a lot with Mangala's possessive behavior.
Mangala shutting the doors on her, not allowing her to touch her own daughter, showing excessive love for Nandini etc. that was hurting too. In the end it was Manga's turn, but M's own acts were responsible for it. Anandi didn't create any of this.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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@bold - Anandi lost her daughter because of her own actions - the child almost got killed - and the punishment is only the separation till others found the girl? And the girl does not even know that she was sacrificed needlessly - there were means available for her mother to keep her safe?Anandi got away without any punishment. And M got all the punishment - mainly because she saved the girl's life. It is all because Nimboli is alive today that M got punishment. Had the girl died that day - M would have continued her life the way it was - in terror but still helping others in her limited means. Maybe she would not have found a way to punish Akheraj and died without Akheraj being punished - but at least she would not have got punishment for an exemplary act of kindness and bravery to save an unknown child and care for her close to 12 years. Nobody cared in yesterday's episode - not even Nimboli that she is alive because of this woman and she was going to be killed because of the woman she is choosing to go with.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Anandi didn't send Jagya to jail for bigamy


Anandi forgave DB even when she almost killed her with those drugs
But she made sure the lady was kicked out for far leeser crimes like instigating a disgruntled Anop
She had the lady kicked out for calling Shiv jhoru ka glam.

So what different thing did she do by not filing a police case against Mangala?

As for the child right now she is too hurt to think straight.More than hating Mangala she is hurting.
It is hurt anger disillusionment that has turned the child against Mangala .

As for the child accepting Anandias her mother Mangala knew that the child always was curious about her mother and knew that the child wanted a mother like Anandi was willing to give a chance to her mother even if her mother threw her in garbage bin.

How can the child's anger against Mangala be not justified?


Who is saying the child's anger is not justified. It is her hatred which is not.

If the child was only angry and hurt (which is a natural behaviour), she would have chosen to go with Anandi but never said "kabhi naa dekhni teesa ki surat" - This was hatred, which is not justified, because Nandini owes her 12 years of safe life to Mangala. And she knows what M did for her.

This Nandini was ready to save Akheraj, but hates Mangala??

And Anandi took no second in endorsing N's hatred for M. It suited her after all.

If Anandi let M go scott free, it is because she figured out that N hates M and won't be a threat anymore. Had N showed softness towards M even after all this, who knows Anandi would not have stopped police from taking M

Just as she never pushed J into jail, because by the time she figured out her rights as BV, she had already known how nice Singhs were to her, and how they were going to support her, so she looked out for positive interests / better gains.




Edited by Missesha - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#90
If mangala is so loving, why did she want to separate the child from is family knowing she cant even dream of giving her the upbringing she would have there..she was allowed to be with the child. Even if not with anandi child will be sent to shekhars ...where she belongs...kidnapping an already kindnaped child and posioning her mind, is crime, mangala is a mental criminal...her place is bot in jail and mental asylum, just because anandi lost the child does not mean either legally or moraly that mangala will get the child's custody..child's future is zero with a nobody like mangala , on top of it evil maniac.

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