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Posted: 9 years ago
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what ananndi did what jagya did digging the past has now no meaning, point is child's upbringing...and that will be best done with her own people ...mangala has no right legally and now morally because she is selfish and she was snatching the child's rights for her own satisfaction.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Mangala is selfish - but Anandi and Nimboli are more selfish. It is like you do my work and then get lost or rather be punished.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Maharaani

what ananndi did what jagya did digging the past has now no meaning, point is child's upbringing...and that will be best done with her own people ...mangala has no right legally and now morally because she is selfish and she was snatching the child's rights for her own satisfaction.

Why don't you pick on those who actually digged the past and brought up the topic?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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They did not punish her...she was punished for her own sins...the child herslef knew who is using her and who is silently loving her
They had given her every right on the child and child herself...anandi was not even allowed to talk and meet the girl...before accusing them, do not forget, mangala was given all respect, hospitality and love as no one could be given, even if they had the legal right on their own child...but mangala by plotting evil against such nice people and putting the child's mind and life to pain, depriving her of all good things and keeping her in dar and deciet. lost the child herself...else she was given the right to live with nandini for life.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

Who is saying the child's anger is not justified. It is her hatred which is not.


If the child was only angry and hurt (which is a natural behaviour), she would have chosen to go with Anandi but never said "kabhi naa dekhni teesa ki surat" - This was hatred, which is not justified, because Nandini owes her 12 years of safe life to Mangala. And she knows what M did for her.

This Nandini was ready to save Akheraj, but hates Mangala??

And Anandi took no second in endorsing N's hatred for M. It suited her after all.

If Anandi let M go scott free, it is because she figured out that N hates M and won't be a threat anymore. Had N showed softness towards M even after all this, who knows Anandi would not have stopped police from taking M

Just as she never pushed J into jail, because by the time she figured out her rights as BV, she had already known how nice Singhs were to her, and how they were going to support her, so she looked out for positive interests / better gains.




Is it the child's hatred speaking or is it her anger hurt and disillusionment with Mangala that is speaking?

What Akheraj did to the child was in her face and what Mangala did to her hurt her much more because the child loved her.

People say harsh things and react very badly and say things which they regret later
The child is hurt and lashing out saying shedoesn't want to see Teesa's face.Which is natural reaction after what all she saw.

If she didn't want anything to do with Mangala for the rest of her life why is the child wrong?If that's how the child feels right now why should shebe faulted?

Anandi's past history of letting go of the offenders was brought in to emphasise the fact that Anandi was being her usual self.She was no different with Mangala.
She wasn't being saint when she didn't want Mangala to be arrested but wanted to move on. She did not get J arrested because even though he may face jail nothing can be gained she saw no point in pressing chargesagainst Mangala because she knew nothing can be gained by that.







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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nimboli has not been told the other side of story - and her reaction is too harsh given that she owes her life to someone.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Jagya anandi think mangala a kidnapper because mangala herself made them think so by again attempt to taking nandini away.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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It is wrong to take away other daughter witbout permission of real parents and when intension is bad that not wanting daughter to meet her real mother then it is absolutely wrong .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Even if one proves Anandi wrong, one thing is sure as hell, that Mangala cannot get the custody of Nandini, there is Jagya and Dadi Sa, if not, let Shekhars take the custody as they are fully capable of giving the children brightest future, where as Mangala in no single way can do that, not only she is utterly incapable of bringing up the children happily and give them a good future...she is also dangerous and bad for them/her.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Missesha

Who is saying the child's anger is not justified. It is her hatred which is not.


If the child was only angry and hurt (which is a natural behaviour), she would have chosen to go with Anandi but never said "kabhi naa dekhni teesa ki surat" - This was hatred, which is not justified, because Nandini owes her 12 years of safe life to Mangala. And she knows what M did for her.

This Nandini was ready to save Akheraj, but hates Mangala??

And Anandi took no second in endorsing N's hatred for M. It suited her after all.

If Anandi let M go scott free, it is because she figured out that N hates M and won't be a threat anymore. Had N showed softness towards M even after all this, who knows Anandi would not have stopped police from taking M

Just as she never pushed J into jail, because by the time she figured out her rights as BV, she had already known how nice Singhs were to her, and how they were going to support her, so she looked out for positive interests / better gains.








@ Missesha

I agree that Nimboli's anger is justified . But I remember how DB was a dangerous woman. She used to torture Amol ,a disabled child. Amol had every right to be angry. But Anandi made Amol to apologise to DB even though he wasn't at fault . No matter what ,Mangala is the woman who saved Nimboli's life. If Anandi is really principled she should ( I will repeat your words)have corrected N saying that whatever the case may be she shouldn't disrespect teesa so much, after all teesa did care for her..Instead Anandi endorsed Nimboli's hatred.
Why different rules on a case-by-case basis? Is it because DB is a family or is it because Amol was just an adopted child even though he was abused ? To Nimboli it has not been said that she should recpect all good things Mangala did for her, most of all to be grateful for saving her life but Amol was taught to bow down to his abuser.

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