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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

Nimboli's outburst was expected, but BH people didn't handle it well enough either. They should have told her upfront when she came home. There was no need to beat around the bush.



Anyways, one thing is clear. If Nimboli doesn't get to know why she is being treated as someone special, then there is no reason for her to stick around.

In her perception, she was an orphan who is now Mangala's daughter. This identity means a lot to her than any luxuries offered at BH. She doesn't want to belong somewhere as a guest forever without a reason. Until now she was here, because her mother was here.

Now she wants to go back home. Even if they are monsters, that's home. That's her identity and that's how she associates herself with.




Don't see why 4 grown up mature adults can't see that one of them should respond and not let her go upstairs and discover her teesa is missing. They were looking at each other as if they were guilty of driving her out.


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Posted: 9 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: kase

Don't see why 4 grown up mature adults can't see that one of them should respond and not let her go upstairs and discover her teesa is missing. They were looking at each other as if they were guilty of driving her out.


yes they should have told her upfront why M had to leave and in fact should have offered to call on her mobile, instead of Nimboli demanding for it.
Nimboli would have understood the situation more sensibly.

The problem is also that these teenagers are being treated as kids and not as teengers.

Shivam also complained for the same thing.

Even Abhi gets treated as a child.

Anandi's behaviour and lack of success is a parenting flaw more than Mangala's wit
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Mangala is testing that child's love for her by abandoning her and going away without telling her.

Did she ever pause to think what if the child tries to do something drastic like running away to meet her and what if she falls prey to dangers that lurk around?

Why was she expecting Anandi to hand over the child to her?

Is this how mothers behave with their children?

While what Mn did is definitely not mother like, however what is the real mother doing in giving the child the security and identity she deserves? I pity Nimboli , both her mothers are doing injustice. Mn running away is very mean esp when the child has been so disturbed post the disastrous birthday party.
Wish both the mothers realize their mistakes and accept at least once to Nimboli
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anandi and BH wasis behaviour and the way they told her about Mangala's departure to Jhalra is making the child suspect that this people had hand in the lady leaving BH when in reality it was Mangala who left the child and went away.
How can any mother abandon her child just to reassure herself that the child loves her and can't live without her?

Shivam went off to guest room to show how displeased he was with his mother and wants a show of her love for him and this Mangala is asking the same of that small child.

No kid should be asked to prove his/her love for his/her parent this way.

Children need reassurance from their parents from time to time but adults testing the children like this?

If Nandini did not turn up at Jhalra for some reasons does that mean the child doesn't love her?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

yes they should have told her upfront why M had to leave and in fact should have offered to call on her mobile, instead of Nimboli demanding for it.

Nimboli would have understood the situation more sensibly.

The problem is also that these teenagers are being treated as kids and not as teengers.

Shivam also complained for the same thing.

Even Abhi gets treated as a child.

Anandi's behaviour and lack of success is a parenting flaw more than Mangala's wit

:) that is a problem with most mothers I guess. My teenaged son too says I treat him like a kid eventhough my life is quite boring and not exciting or adventorous !!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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chalo good to see people will now not bash Nimboli saying her greedy, she is dazzled by wealth😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: hisusmita

chalo good to see people will now not bash Nimboli saying her greedy, she is dazzled by wealth😆

Can't wait to see Nimboli run away to her Teesa maa

Who knows she may be in a dilemma as to choose between Anandi's dazzling wealth or great mamta of Mangala.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Did M left for Jhalra because she wanted to check how much the girl loves her? I am confused after reading the posts here. I thought she wanted to go to Jhalra with Nimboli but was told she can't (take Nimboli) perhaps she felt humiliated by shouting of DS and J. Even while leaving - she told DS where she was going and DS was happy that she's going alone and not with Nimboli. Still it's all M's fault? If the girl runs away (as per posts in forum) it will be due to Anandi and BH people and not because of M - she wanted to take her along but was not allowed.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja

Did M left for Jhalra because she wanted to check how much the girl loves her? I am confused after reading the posts here. I thought she wanted to go to Jhalra with Nimboli but was told she can't (take Nimboli) perhaps she felt humiliated by shouting of DS and J. Even while leaving - she told DS where she was going and DS was happy that she's going alone and not with Nimboli. Still it's all M's fault? If the girl runs away (as per posts in forum) it will be due to Anandi and BH people and not because of M - she wanted to take her along but was not allowed.



She was thinking loudly while travelling. and also at Jhalra.

And how can anandi let her take Nimboli to Jhalra forever?

If Nimboli is adamant Anandi may take her to Jhalra and convince Mangala to come back. But she will not leave Nimboli there knowing the dangers.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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If Anandi leaves Nimboli there, she will be accused of taking her to a dangerous place for the second time.

Anandi has kept up her promise of not disclosing but Mangala has not kept up her promise of bringing mother and daughter closer.

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