Jagya's role in the twins' life

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Posted: 9 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: Missesha
Makers are showing a traditional Rajasthani family here and have shown all their traditional beliefs and practices so why mess up in relationships?

Even lot of people who are not rajasthanis and are far open in their day-to-day lifestyle do not endorse complications in relationships, so makers have made a big mess by making a khichdi of relationships here.

Makers need to be sensitive about the cultures of the specific society they are promoting.

Anyways, all is now left is Anandi tying rakhi to jagya. Looks like they have left this option open incase they want to bump off Ganga and make Anandi fill the vacant space in jagya's life.

@ Blue - Though sounds weird(still less weird than Anandi' stay in BH) anything is possible in BV world

@ Red - I am all for this. Jagya & Anandi can promote..." Dekhna math booliye Mere aur unke bacche ke pakka rishta hamare bacche ke saat" and Mannu playing big brother 😆😆

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Rashmi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: Aarya19

I expected Anandi to be a good mother as well as a good father for Shivam and Nandini after Shiv's death. Sadly she failed as a mother itself leave father alone. But if we see, till now Jagya played a role somewhat close to father in Shivam and Nandini's life. I think he will continue like this.

Usually when a child loses his/her father paternal/maternal grandfather or uncle fulfill the duties. If the mother is strong and independent she herself does all this.Already Anandi'scapabilitiesare clear and I'm not against Jagya looking after Shiv's kids. Someone has to do it but the sad thing is despite having a great grand father, two sets of grand parents, and an uncle (Mahi) these kids have to live an unusual life under the care of their mother's ex-husband and family.

Thank god they at least have Jagya and family's support! If it is only Anandi we know how terrible their life would be.

The role is not of a father figure or somewhat like a father but just of an uncle. Who could have been anyone, Mahi, Sanchi's husband, or Shyam had they been present in the show. They have never shown Shivam looking upto anyone as father figure. All his world revolves around Anandi even though he stays in the big family.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: russhmeSS

The role is not of a father figure or somewhat like a father but just of an uncle. Who could have been anyone, Mahi, Sanchi's husband, or Shyam had they been present in the show. They have never shown Shivam looking upto anyone as father figure. All his world revolves around Anandi even though he stays in the big family.

True.It is not just Jagya it could have been Mahi Sanchi's husband or Shyam.Most probably he may have met his father's brother and sister and their families and had he been living with them he would have been attached to them just as he is attached to Jagya and Ganga because they are all family.

He was well adjusted kid quite content till now and his world is just his mother.Thta is the reason why he is reacting so badly to a random girl who is taking up his mother's time getting so much attention from his mother.

He knows the difference between father and uncle.If children are left without father it is quite natural for them to turn other male members of the family in case they need any guidance.

In today's episode CVs answered the question whether Shivam knows about his family or not.He knows that Daddu got lockets made for him and his twin sister and his mother obvously must have been the one to tell him.

Anandi does want her children to know all about their father and his family and be awre of their legacy.They mat be growing up in Jaitser but they will grow up as Shekhar children.

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kate-nic

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Posted: 9 years ago

#44

Amazing

some people have so much problem if any one says shivam sees Jagya as a father figure and comes with so many explanations at same time same people are giving logics shivam is attached to Jagya and Ganga because they are a family? How does a random uncle and aunt became a family if a random uncle cannot become a father figure ?

cvs have very clearly shown shivam looks up to Jagya as a father figure but its only some people who don't want to accept and nothing can make them accept if they dont want

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

#45

Father is someone the son wants to emulate even father figure is someone the child looks upto when in trouble.or from guidance

Shivam wants to become like his father and he looks upto his mother for all his needs and when in need of guidance and no one else.

He did not want to shift to SN but once he shifted there he is quite happy there with just him and his mother though he missed having lot of kids and adults around him.

So he knows that his mother and him are family Singhs are extended family.

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ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Every kid knows who is my father and who is my uncle In father's absence all kids look up to uncles or elder brothers as father figures to fill the void of their lives. It is quite natural Even with the fathers alive kids are told to respect their uncles equally as their fathers because an uncle is like a father figure but it seems like some people have very much problem if people say shivam looks up to Jagya as father figure but funny thing is the same people are calling Jagya as shivam's family? How did Jagya and Ganga became family member ?Dont we have relations in a family? Mahi is shiv brother , vivek is shiv's brother in law , shyam is Anandi's rakhi brother but who is Jagya ? if Jagya can be family member then why he cannot be father figure to shivam? and what is a father figure ? A father figure is someone who generates emotions from a child generally felt towards one's father Does shivam love and respect Jagya less than he feel for his father ?

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kate-nic

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Posted: 9 years ago

#47

O really shivam was very happy in SN? i think it is pretty clearly shown he was bored in SN and even complained to Anandi he does not like here around so many girls and second SN is not so far away from BH and Anandi and shivam were all the time in BH when they were away ? They only slept in a different house nothing more. Let me see how shivam lives happily far away from BH

if shivam comes to his mother for all his needs then why he ignored his mother who was sitting all free and called Jagya in his office for ice cream ? Why for even such small thing ask Jagya not ask mommy?after all as per some people he comes his mother for all his needs ?

and just because he said he wants to be like his father is it enough to prove he does not Jagya as father figure? Leave Jagya if here it would be Mahi who is a good human and would have loved shivam and Nandini a lot, people would be saying he does not see Mahi as father figure ? In fact Mahi and Jagya's both children enjoying the love and care of their fathers make shivam love his father even more because he can see how nice are fathers and he imagines his father to be like same .

anyways i am not here to prove Jagya as father of shivam i am talking a natural thing

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CosmoCoCo

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Posted: 9 years ago

#48

if Singhs are just an extended family then shivam should stop putting himself on same balance as of abhi and Mannu It is Jagya's goodness and kindness he would give shivam turn to burn the ravan statue with his sons Mannu and abhi Just like he gave to shivam he gave to Nandini too why shivam made a issue of it and if he did then his mother should have explained to him instead of giving shocking expressions

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Rashmi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#49

Its also amazing how so many logics come up to prove that Jagya is Shivam's father figure 😆 😆 Jagya has his own sons why Anandi-Shiv's son should forcefully be made to have any father like relation with him 😕

It was shown 1000 times Shivam looks upto only his late father as his idol his inspiration his strength.

I think relationships in BH are very clearly defined. Mannu is quite close to Anandi as well but that is just as masi, he doesn't consider her as any mother figure. Same is the case with Shivam and Jagya.

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kate-nic

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Posted: 9 years ago

#50

Lols very poor attempt to give it back to us without reading whole posts Too bad 🤣

who is trying to make Jagya as father to shivam when he has own sons ? who is forcefully making Jagya's relation with Anandi's son if you have bothered to read our posts most among us are not even interested to see Anandi in BH around Jagya and his family and in very same thread we are talking this we are not interested to see Anandi in BH around Jagya's family so from this question someone is posing at us that people are forcefully making father son relation between jagya and shivam 😆For us if Anandi leaves BH even today along with her kids we will have no issues 😆

Jagya does not need any shivam to fulfill his needs of a father He has his own sons Jagya is not even trying to become shivam's father nor even people are trying to make him shivam's father Thats why i said it was poor attempt to give it back to us because we have talked about Mahi too if in place of Jagya there would be Mahi so why telling us we are forcefully making a relation of father and son between Jagya and shivam

.We are talking from shivam's pov It is natural for any fatherless child to see father figure in an uncle if the uncle is loving and caring to him . A mother cannot fill the void of father just like a father cannot of mother In mother 's absence a child looks up to next closest relation as of mother an aunt or elder sister as motherly figure and in father's absence he does to uncle or elder brother . Thats reality Thats human psychology This what we are talking here if some people are hell bent on proving shivam an exceptional case because they think in this way shiv's greatness get lessened then we cannot say anything 😆and by the way your blame on us is invalid because no where we are interested to make Jagya as shivam's father . Jagya has his own family we are very happy with that and we would be saying same thing for mahi too but here mahi is not in picture Jagya is

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