Is this Mangala as a mother - Page 6

Originally posted by: surabhi01

mangala is ready to give food to nandini she is ready to give education to nandini she is ready to give dress to nandini .but mangala dont want anandi to do anything for her daughter

mangala has not problem with nandini wearing frock .she has problem because anandi gave that frock

if in place of anandi other person would have given frock then mangala would not have any objection nandini wearing that frock

mangala is irritated not because why nandini getting all comforts .she is irritaed because anandi providing all those comforts to nandini she think if anandi keep going on taking care of nandini then nandini may leave mangala forever and will go to her biloigical mother forever such type of prejudice making mangala irritate

mangala want ek chatra rights on nandini .if nandini should eat jalebi kachori then mangala think it is me only who should provide jalebi kachori to nandini not anandi

story somewhat like vikramaditya .where two women go to vikramaditya for justice that whom should child go to which mother

I don't understand why she has to get scissors to remove the ribbons or is she trying to cut N's hair? I wonder what she will do with N?

This obsessive kind of attachment towards that child was visible from very early on. Couldn't understand how it was perceived as mother's love for a child😕

Anandi needs to take matters into her hands now. Enough of listening to Mangla and playing dress up.

Sooner Anandi touches on the school issue the better.

Mangala needn't stick around to watch and learn nandini growing up. She is only going to be a hurdle in the progress. Merely because she doesn't know the importance of it. She needs to be shown the door. Let her go back to her rightful place at Jhalra and fight herself or kill herself. She's a pain and will be a constant eyesore in BH.


All she has done is save the child's life by pushing her into the fire of child marriage. Since then the child has been fighting her battles. Aparna, she never ever lived like a beendni she was only a slave all along. And this is called as saving life and being a mother. Where was mangala's presence in the child's life I can't understand.

For 11-12,years the child has gone through physical and mental trauma which needs repair asap. People are saying she looks healthy and happy. Happy is what the child has taught herself to be. It's really admirable how she used to laugh when Akhiraj Harki used to thrash her. She used to say by laughing she felt the pain would go away. Did mangala ever feel pain for those things then why is she standing to compete with anandi now?

Originally posted by: Khaamekhan

Anandi needs to take matters into her hands now. Enough of listening to Mangla and playing dress up.

Nandini is a victim of all kinds of abuse...it is just not possible that it did not do any damage to her emotionally and pshychologically.

That girl needs some evaluation to determine her emotional and learning skills and see where she stands developmentally. There is no dearth of doctors around her now. And even though Anant says she looks healthy...she needs a thorough medical checkup...and checked for vaccinations and all. And Mangla ...IMO...shud be involved in all these things...so that she gets to know there's more to a child's life than just saving her life. She need to know all these things.

Mangla herself is not educated and hence does not know the importance of it. Nandini dropped out of school after the first day...and Mangla, not being capable, couldn't find out the reason. She shud be enrolled in school asap...and if she has any disabilities...will come out on its own.

I love your post.

Mangala doesn't need to know importance of education anymore. She's way past that stage. She has got enough knowledge of whatever she needs and how to acquire it by crooked methods. If she wanted to learn about something else she would've taught herself but she chose not to. Because it's not her priority nor her job. It's not her child as simple as that.


Nimboli was her toy teddy which she used when she wanted. Everyone loves to hug a teddy bear and dress it up when they want but no one cares to think about the teddy bears progress.

I'm wondering what does Mangala want the child to do? Dress up like grown up women and keep head and legs covered all the time?