Spooky and Scary - Page 7

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Excatly.

She never remembered anyone when the girl was being tortured.But when she wanted to run away she is finding places to go to money and everything.

So all that helpless woman illiterate where will she go with the child etc arguments world is too dangerous etc.

But she had no problems running away.

There you see that our CV's are so innovative and take freedom of creativity. From one to the other episode kuch bhi ho sakta hai!

Originally posted by: maahi11

Good question

She will brainwash nandani coz she doesn't want to lose her... to shower love on her like a mom... and make nandani one like her... who will living a life under dominance.. and sometimes to make fool of others act like god.. coz education say koi matab nhi... achi life mane nhi jee how can nandani live... coz Mangala needs to satisfy her need... a person with whom she can stay...

Since she hasn't given birth to any child she doesn't understand the pain of mother... to become a mother and to be mother is different... If it's said that mangala should stay with nimboli then nimboli will never become nandani coz she won't let her become one... and that's exactly she wants...

i am hating mangala track...they had consumated alot of time for reunion and now this..

Originally posted by: dsupriya

Sorry could not help but jump in. Are you saying by not giving birth to a child one can not understand the pain of mother. To become a mother you need to give birth. Then are you implying all those women who can't give birth are not fit to be mothers or cant understand pain. All those women who give love to a child when they adopt should simply give up their precious because biological mother turns up and asks child back. They should give up because they do not know the labour pain. But what about the nights they spent when kid was unwell. The pain they felt when kid is hurt. All that is meaningless. Wonderful BV has given a great message by making anandi give up Amol. We women also feel pain . We may not have given birth but we do feel pain or even more. Adoption is not spur of moment decision like shown by Anandi nor is it easy to give up.

Anyway why am I talking when forum can appreciate a jee for giving up Amol who am I. Also CVS are excellent
In making anandi look great completely demonise a side character for no reason. Make her evil and negative. Of course drama can not be achieved. And BV CVS should stop making tall claims .

Sorry no offence meant but though had thought will not say could not help saying. I know it is what lot of people think like that. I have encountered the same thought in closed ones. I just could not help venting out as i question this thinking which what majority in forum think. After all parallel are being drawn with ya shod a and deva ki where half of you appreciate yashoda for giving up. That is mindset which of course cv's also keep unfortunately

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Supriya

Thanks for "jumping in". About time somebody called a spade a spade. Cvs could have so easily made it a real vehicle of social message by uniting Mangala and the other women against Akhiraj and making them bring change in the village environment.

They could have shown an interesting confrontation between Mangala and Anandi centred around biology and nurture, and sending the message that motherhood and emotions are common to both.

More importantly a child who has been nurtured with love and care cannot just be handed over to the biological mother on the ground that giving birth is morally superior to giving care. And even when the bio mother has been proven to be negligent and indifferent.

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When Amol was adopted, CVs tom-tommed the adoption message and the forum gave a standing ovation to Anandi. You don't have to give birth to experience motherhood, people said. Many interviews and self-congratulations later, CVs made a mockery of the track by sending him back to his parents.

Now the argument has been even more completely reversed. Indeed, not just in this track, CVS have again and again knocked foster care whether in the case of Amol, Shiv or now in the case of Nimboli.

A loving, good, helpful woman has been forcibly turned into a negative character with psycho traits.

Anandi had become a shell character so to redeem her and elevate her they have diminished and demonised a side character. You are right about the message. They should stop the homilies.

I have to agree with you on this one.

Originally posted by: rohini55

Supriya

Thanks for "jumping in". About time somebody called a spade a spade. Cvs could have so easily made it a real vehicle of social message by uniting Mangala and the other women against Akhiraj and making them bring change in the village environment.

They could have shown an interesting confrontation between Mangala and Anandi centred around biology and nurture, and sending the message that motherhood and emotions are common to both.

More importantly a child who has been nurtured with love and care cannot just be handed over to the biological mother on the ground that giving birth is morally superior to giving care. And even when the bio mother has been proven to be negligent and indifferent.

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When Amol was adopted, CVs tom-tommed the adoption message and the forum gave a standing ovation to Anandi. You don't have to give birth to experience motherhood, people said. Many interviews and self-congratulations later, CVs made a mockery of the track by sending him back to his parents.

Now the argument has been even more completely reversed. Indeed, not just in this track, CVS have again and again knocked foster care whether in the case of Amol, Shiv or now in the case of Nimboli.

A loving, good, helpful woman has been forcibly turned into a negative character with psycho traits.

Anandi had become a shell character so to redeem her and elevate her they have diminished and demonised a side character. You are right about the message. They should stop the homilies.

Don't want to get into adopted and biological mother discussion

Threads happen because people love to argue some points. Again and again in different ways. A TM just starts the thread with something in her or his mind and the thread goes haywire over which TM has little or no control.
I like to be a chameleon than something unmentionable.

Anandi said those words, because she did not want to waste her time in searching the girl - other things were more important for her. Mangala has saved the girl (that is akin to giving birth) and has cared for her for more than a decade - the attachment is natural. Anandi has just memory of her pregnancy and a few months with her daughter - Mangala has more than a decade. If it was like the girl again gone missing from where she is at now - perhaps even Mangala would be saying - let her be happy wherever she is.😊