Tackling mannu

Tackling Mannu. Shouting and getting angry will make him more defiant. He left everyone aghast. Hotblooded youth.

Why to make such a big deal about his teej nautanki? Instead they could have told him to pay attention to studies than wasting too much time on rituals. Everyone tried to suffocate him with their warnings and anger including dadisa.

You call this suffocating? If a child is rude, adamant to destroy his career - he deserves angry treatment. See what false assurance of the likes of DS and Anandi has made him think that he is not wrong in bal-vivah and those opposing his meetings with Pooja are wrong. Singhs know the law, Anandi is against bal-vivah and Sarita's life changed due to earlier attempted bal-vivah of her daughter. All of them should have taken first step to annul the bal-vivah of Mannu-Pooja. Making it very clear that they should first complete their studies, start earning and then think about marriage.

Originally posted by: SPuja

You call this suffocating? If a child is rude, adamant to destroy his career - he deserves angry treatment. See what false assurance of the likes of DS and Anandi has made him think that he is not wrong in bal-vivah and those opposing his meetings with Pooja are wrong. Singhs know the law, Anandi is against bal-vivah and Sarita's life changed due to earlier attempted bal-vivah of her daughter. All of them should have taken first step to annul the bal-vivah of Mannu-Pooja. Making it very clear that they should first complete their studies, start earning and then think about marriage.

Angry treatment does not work all the time. Sometimes it boomerangs.

They say a cornered cat can become violent.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Angry treatment does not work all the time. Sometimes it boomerangs.

Originally posted by: SPuja

Ultimate loser will be Mannu and Pooja. Let them face the music they themselves created. Why should parents give in always. In their current state - Mannu and Pooja will not listen even if they are treated with love. Even before eloping - did not people tried to make them understand? Did Mannu or Pooja listen?

They will learn when they face hurdles and that will be the best lesson. Parents can give in to some extent so that things wont go out of control. If the kids suffer, wont parents doubly feel pain?

If the kids adamant to learn only after facing disaster - parents can do nothing. Even if the parents treat Mannu and Pooja with love - they will anyway do what they are doing. If they are adamant enough to continue the pregnancy without telling anyone - perhaps they cannot come to right path before facing troubles because of their own adventure.

Originally posted by: SPuja

If the kids adamant to learn only after facing disaster - parents can do nothing. Even if the parents treat Mannu and Pooja with love - they will anyway do what they are doing. If they are adamant enough to continue the pregnancy without telling anyone - perhaps they cannot come to right path before facing troubles because of their own adventure.

Some kids learn lessons the hard way.

They are hell bent on learning the hard way - nobody can reform them. But I wish creatives end this track soon - it is not interesting.

Originally posted by: SPuja

If the kids adamant to learn only after facing disaster - parents can do nothing. Even if the parents treat Mannu and Pooja with love - they will anyway do what they are doing. If they are adamant enough to continue the pregnancy without telling anyone - perhaps they cannot come to right path before facing troubles because of their own adventure.

agree wid u puja. M & P din't listen 2 luv talks of parents or even the prsn whom both esply P claims 2 trust a lot.