conflicts and compromises

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Pushpa would not have been that angry

If Anandi was older, grey hair and wrikles.

If a man was there instead of a woman at SN.

If Anant was not having a nice conversation with Anandi.

Anant is just waiting for Anandi to say yes for marriage. I can see that eagerness in him. Nidhi wont be unhappy. Pushpa has to shed her ego or shed her daughter forever.

Why Kamli has to live with her parents? Is it to reduce costs of having 2 sets? Kamli should not take away the independence of Pushkar like this. Kamli is doing the same thing like Anandi did after the events at Udaipuir. The stock cow shot and the crude blue entrance marking akheraj's house. His house has become too crowded.

Why Sarita was so angry? It was only a ritual. If she knows the truth of pregnancy?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anant does not want to forgive his ex wife because she insulted Anandi. Men want to find some excuse to cosy upto another woman. I am not liking this Anant. He is as bad as his wife. He is making anandi also part of his dirty home politics.
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Urmi and Nimboli'sa bond is growing stronger. Harki is hurting Nimboli too badly.
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Mannu is extremely loyal to Pooja and Urmi is loyal to Nimboli.
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Kamili fears for Pushkar's safety outweighed her repulsion towards her parents.But yes she should have remained strong in the face of persuasion by Mangala.She could resist her parents but not Mangala.Kamili's fears for Pushkar's safety made her weak and therefore it became easy for Akheraj to clip her wings

This is what happened with Anandi after Nandini's kidnap. Had Anandi not been at fault in that kidnap they would have never been able to persuade her to go and live with Dsa.If Anandi felt no guilt but only pain over the loss of her daughter she would have never been weak enough to give in to persuasion by Dsa and Daddu and also because of her own inadequacies over her ability to take care of her children.

The two women had their wings clipped in their moments of weakness.Anandi's sense of inadequacy and guilt and Kamili's fear for Pushkar's safety made them weak.It is not the external factors that made them weak but their own fears made them weak therefore susceptible outside persuasive forces who are out to implement their agenda.

The factors that make strong women weak.Guilt and sense of inadequacy in Anandi and fear for her husband's safety in case of Kamili.
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Anannt and Pushpa's marriage seem to have had lot of unpleasantness.Don't like the way they start fighting in full view of public.No wonder their daughter wanted to get away from that home.

Yes Pushpa wouldn't have gotten so mad had she not seen Anant sitting there in Anandi's office looking all relaxed.
Looks like she still has feelings for her husband and probably that is the reason why she thinks that Anandi is eyeing her husband 😛😆

But the interesting thing is Anandi was not even paying attention to all those rants but was only looking at the pain that woman is going through.She was seeing a mother who wants to reach out to her child in Pushpa.May be that's what Anandi's mental state is like and probably that's what drives her.

Anandi looks more like a neutral third party in this scenario regardless what the feelings that estranged couple may harbour for her.


Nandini and Urmi's bond is all set to take the shape of Kacchi umar ki pakke rishte.
In season 1 it was between Balika Vadhu and her Balak Var and in season 2 it is between two Balika Vadhus who find themselves married to the same abusive insensitive Balak Var
Urmi and Nandini seem to have lot in common.They both are loved by their parents a lot.Though Naandini is not aware of it yet.
They both found themselves married to this boy because of the goof ups made by their respective parents/parent.
This is the only bond that Nandini worked hard to make it happen 😊

Mannu -Pooja - When ever they come on screen feel like taking their heads and banging them together till they get some sense🤢😡
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Anant does not want to forgive his ex wife because she insulted Anandi. Men want to find some excuse to cosy upto another woman. I am not liking this Anant. He is as bad as his wife. He is making anandi also part of his dirty home politics.


So what kind of behaviour u expected from anant yesterday?
Why is he blamed when his wife misbaheves and creates ugly situation? He does try to stop her but what more he can do. He never came up with his personal problems to Anandi... Anandi came in their lives through nidhi.
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So what kind of behaviour u expected from anant yesterday?
Why is he blamed when his wife misbaheves and creates ugly situation? He does try to stop her but what more he can do. He never came up with his personal problems to Anandi... Anandi came in their lives through nidhi.



One cant blame Pushpa entirely. She must be feeling miserable and that anger turned into heated words. What she saw was a beautiful widow and her ex husbnad conversing amicably and she must have felt jealous. Her ex husband, as usual like all men, saw the anger but not the pain behind that anger. And he owed not to forgive her at all. Funny. Is she asking his forgiveness in the first place?
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



One cant blame Pushpa entirely. She must be feeling miserable and that anger turned into heated words. What she saw was a beautiful widow and her ex husbnad conversing amicably and she must have felt jealous. Her ex husband, as usual like all men, saw the anger but not the pain behind that anger. And he owed not to forgive her at all. Funny. Is she asking his forgiveness in the first place?

True. Pushpa probably was feeling miserable because she lost a lot and mostly because of her own foolishness.
There she has to satisfy herself with visiting rights over her daughter and the husband looking seemingly happy in the presence of another woman.
While she is tryinto cope with the reality of losing rights over daughter the sight of her EX all happy and peaceful must have hurt her and it all came out in outburst against Anandi whose crime was that she is young and beautiful instead old and grey

This is not to support her behaviour but the reasons behind her behaviour are valid enough even though she herself is mostly responsible for the sorry situation she finds herself in.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



One cant blame Pushpa entirely. She must be feeling miserable and that anger turned into heated words. What she saw was a beautiful widow and her ex husbnad conversing amicably and she must have felt jealous. Her ex husband, as usual like all men, saw the anger but not the pain behind that anger. And he owed not to forgive her at all. Funny. Is she asking his forgiveness in the first place?



her behaviour was disgusting... Anandi is the principal of school... what u expect him to say!! That behaviour was embarrassing that too infront of nidhi.When gauri used to speak like this I could understand her. But pushpa seriously the day she entered the show she goes insulting people. Before this also she insulted Anandi and threatened to close down her school. Wasn't she the one to ask for divorce so what jealousy!
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seems pushpa is antagonist of anandi like earlier gauri was antagonist of anandi .now anandi story will be more. interesting as now antagonist pushpa enter anandi life .v have to c how long cvs going to show pushpa character

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