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Posted: 10 years ago

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@Anshu

Mangala cares for the child as she should. That was the reason she kept her, in order to quieten her maternal stirrings. And there is nothing wrong in her loving this child and not wanting to separate from her now after 11 years.

But 11 years ago it was a different story. 11 years ago Kundan was 8, Kamli a few years older.

Teesa had already been living under Akhiraj's roof as a widow for over 10 years. She had already been enacting her Devi act and keeping him at bay. She had already exposed him to his parents as the murderer of her husband in the guise of Devi. By now she knew how petrified he was of Devi. That was the reason she was certain she could save the child who had brought out her maternal instinct in her.

She did not have the courage to question Akhiraj directly. Quite possible. No issues. What about under Devi act?

Or for that matter did she even for a moment question herself about the whereabouts of the baby's mother/parents? Did she spare a thought for them is the question. Nothing was stopping her from talking to herself.

Arti, Here we are talking about the 'talk ' Mangla should have with her . For assuming that she has sometimes wondered about Nandini's parents or thought about the pain of her mother, we have to watch those scenes but when it comes to Anandi and about her pain , about her on going search for her daughter we assume that she is still doing that without watching any scene where she is thinking of any new strategy to search her or where she is updating with police or even missing her in the darkness of night.
Why this disparity?


Mangala is not responsible for returning that child. But she had no right to keep her either at that time. If a family member brings home something that he/she clearly could not have acquired rightfully, other members have two choices in front of them. They tell the erring member to return it. Or they feel happy at the new acquisition and also become party to that act.

We understand Mangala to be the voice of reason in that house. Her words may not be accepted, but that does not stop her now and then from telling Harki and Akheraj that they are doing wrong. Which means she does know the difference between right and wrong.

Did she even once tell even herself that Akhiraj is wrong and he should return the child. That there must be a mother somewhere pining for her baby. Irrespective of who the mother is.

Has this thought ever occurred to her all these years? Or is she just petrified of losing this unexpected gift that her DevarSa brought with him that fateful day?


@ Bold , Here again there is a big possibility that she might have told herself that Akhiraj had done wrong if she is aware of the true facts of snatching. Till now have not seen Mangla advocating any of Akhiraj's wrong acts even in her mind.
But there is also a big possibility that she is not aware of whole truth of Nandini's snatching . Considering how she stopped Nandini accusing her mother for throwing her in dustbin , it looks she too was told this concocted story. If she was aware of real facts and wanted to strengthen her position in Nandini's eye by portraying her mother black why she would have wasted that golden opportunity?
If she too thinks that Nandini was dumped by her mother then what is the point for thinking about a pining mother? This notion must have got enforcement since no pining mother came to search for her daughter in these last 11v long years.

@ Red , She had no right to keep her that time but what else she could have done ? Saved that child from Akhiraj's sward and dumped her on road since she was wrongly brought at that house? Or left the child unattended?
I am sure her deversa had not gifted that child to her on silver platter. She might not have given the free right to attend that child , no one would have allowed to treat that child with any love and care, Mangla toh specially not. Whatever Mangla could have done, she must have done by hiding her efforts from Akhiraj and Harki .
I am thanking Mangla for her maternal instinct which led her to make efforts for the sake of that little child who had no one to take care of her in that cruel house.

Btw Mangla had Kamli ( who was neglected by her own parents) to satisfy her motherly instincts , she was not in dire need of Nandini but it was other way round.

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Posted: 10 years ago
Isn't Akhiraj told some Dayaan stop Wedding...plus Nimboli too calls Anandi as Chokhi Chudail...
wow women who refer as Chudail, Dayaan why would Mangala trust Anandi ... does not matter she is mother of Nimboli...

If Mangala truly cares for Nimboli she won't handover Nimboli to Anandi
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: blushing


thanks one more point why Mangala shd not trust Anandi ⭐️

well Shivam already on way to b lost remember...Mela sequence Anandi enjoying toys without caring where is Shivam 😆

that time Nimboli saved Shivam ...so Mangala can use this too in court too... Anandi will lost Shivam too

so Shivam can be handover to Mangala...since Nimboli is there for him 😳 Both kids will be for each other plus Mangala who can saved them from all evil 😛

Anandi she can do whatever she wan do 😆



Have not read all last pages so not aware why this mocking is going on but have a question in my mind if you guys care to think...
Bond of trust btw a mother and child is very valuable , a child believes that whatever may come her/ his mother will be able to protect him/her to the best of her capacity and will not let any harm come to him/her.
After reuniting with her mother can Nandini will ever be able to place that trust on her mother in future ? Will she be able to think that her mother will give utmost priority to her well being above every thing?
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Posted: 10 years ago
Mangala knows that Akheraj snatched the baby of the woman who came and spoilt Kundan's wedding party.
Akheraj himself told at that time when he walked in with the baby all hopping mad wanting to kill that babu because baby's mother spoilt Kundans' wedding.

She told this when she was telling Chagini about the secret behind her Devi act.

Akheraj wanted to kill that baby because he wanted extract revenge on that woman then she saw that baby she felt an awakening of her maternal instincts and that's why she decided to save that baby.

All this was very clear in 9th May episode.

None of them know that the lady's name is Anandi and none of them know where she came from.

But she very well knows that Nandini is not found in kachre ka dabba.

She claims to love that child so much doesn't her heart bleed when she see that the girl feels so miserable because her mother threw her in a bin and her mother found her unlovable?
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: blushing

Isn't Akhiraj told some Dayaan stop Wedding...plus Nimboli too calls Anandi as Chokhi Chudail...

wow women who refer as Chudail, Dayaan why would Mangala trust Anandi ... does not matter she is mother of Nimboli...

If Mangala truly cares for Nimboli she won't handover Nimboli to Anandi

Akheraj did tell that the child is that Dayan woman's baby.

But people want to ignore that bit of story since it doesn't suit their purposes.

Mangala or Akheraj and no one knows where that Dayan woman came from and what her name is but she knows very well that lady has stopped Kundan's wedding because it was bal vivah.

Akheraj lied because he can't tell that he has snatched the baby but what reason does Mangala have to let the little girl believe that she is found in garbage bin?
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: anshurg5


Have not read all last pages so not aware why this mocking is going on but have a question in my mind if you guys care to think...
Bond of trust btw a mother and child is very valuable , a child believes that whatever may come her/ his mother will be able to protect him/her to the best of her capacity and will not let any harm come to him/her.
After reuniting with her mother can Nandini will ever be able to place that trust on her mother in future ? Will she be able to think that her mother will give utmost priority to her well being above every thing?


Anshu 😃 i am not mocking first thing... i was thinking from point of Mangala

exactly my point ...what u wrote is after Nimboli being Nandini started living with Anandi then this Q raise ... most difficult task for Anandi to gain trust ...Anandi who always known as give imp to others than her ...here Q will be raised by her own kid ... lets see

before that why would Mangala trust Anandi ... knowing background of Anandi

Mangala who saved kiddo so many times give her top most priority will trust Mother like Anandi just like that ...nah...
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: blushing


Anshu 😃 i am not mocking first thing... i was thinking from point of Mangala

exactly my point ...what u wrote is after Nimboli being Nandini started living with Anandi then this Q raise ... most difficult task for Anandi to gain trust ...Anandi who always known as give imp to others than her ...here Q will be raised by her own kid ... lets see

before that why would Mangala trust Anandi ... knowing background of Anandi

Mangala who saved kiddo so many times give her top most priority will trust Mother like Anandi just like that ...nah...


Really Aditi?
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Posted: 10 years ago
Anshu...
i am thinking about like this what before Akhi Anandi face off Mangala accidentally know Anandi is Nimboli's mom also that due to carelessness of Anandi Nandini being lost had this fate

would she trust Anandi as mother of Nimboli ... I think she won't

Mangala won't trust Anandi ... does not matter Akhi snatch Nandini from Anandi ..fact remain Anandi was careless Mangala will point out this

Mangala won't blame Akhi for snatching kid he is evil why mother Anandi took risk ...Mangala will raise this Q
Edited by blushing - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: blushing

Anshu...

i am thinking about like this what before Akhi Anandi face off Mangala accidentally know Anandi is Nimboli's mom also that due to carelessness of Anandi Nandini being lost had this fate

would she trust Anandi as mother of Nimboli ... I think she won't


Mangla is no one to think that Nandini's mother is good enough for her or not.

It is question of Nandini, but I think it will never be addressed by CVs, at least not in a logical way.

Anyway leaving this...
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Posted: 10 years ago
Disa: Main Nimboli ke bina jee na sakoongi 😭

Me 😡

She can't live without Nimboli but she can see Nimboli live like this

Nimboli is verbally physically emotionally abused 24*7 in that hell hole
Nimboli is like a maid nahi unpaid maid nahi scratch that too she is a slave in Akki's home
That girl is not even given good food; if she would have then she would not hog laddoos and jalebis like she does; Nimboli justified it as she being a chatori but nahi she is starved of such foods
Disa gives her nuts sometimes but come on...

Disa can live seeing all this but she can;t live without Nimboli all in the name of the so called mamta

She is worst than Akki and Harkhi

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