Mannu - Page 4

Mannu is rude? Fine. But cheap and abusive? Teenagers don't know how to deal their own problems. Mannu's parents too do not know. but mannu a teenager+given the situation he faced, he is called cheap and abusive? 😳

mannu was cheap & abusive. teenagers don't know how 2 deal wid probs agree. but then let oders deal wid their probs an d moreover he can't deal wid his probs but it doesn't give them licence 2 behave like this.

Actually Ganga had created negative vibes in Mannu by keeping him away from puja... Nothing to do with ratan singh... The internal anger in Mannu actually stems from Ganga s behaviour towards puja and so Mannu s behaviour is totally acceptable. We all know Ganga s character in Bev is somewhat grey from the start.
Well BH gave a good place to Anandi and Ganga. Both these ladies are out of track now and dear DS and poor Jagya has to suffer.

Why is Mannu still angry? Why is he lashing out at everyone?Especially people who didn't do anythinng but love him so much?

And in all this accepted Anandi wholeheartedly as his maasi? He has seen Anandi at his home since he was a toddler - he considered him as family, now he knows a few things - Anandi was married to J in childhood, that Anandi and Ganga share no relationship - and this only resulted in downgrading of J from a God like person to a lesser mortal and nothing against Anandi? Then he comes to know Anandi also knew the facts of his adoption and like all other adults - also hid the fact from him. Still he feels respect for Anandi and disrespect for J and DS (considering all his anger is against his mother as he was seeing her behaviour)? This is the inconsistency that make the track unbelievable. If Mannu is hurt because truth was hidden from him for so long - he should have anger towards all those who were party to this. His initial reaction of going to Pooja was the only thing creatives made right - because she was the only one who told truth 😆

Is Anandi and Dsa responsible for hiding this secret or his parents?

If he is behaving like a teenager - he should think like a teenager also. When the truth is known to all adults in family - all adults are guilty of hiding truth. Why a teenager think that only his parents need to tell him the truth? Why did he not felt any anger/apprehension towards Anandi knowing well that she was once married to J and now living with them without any relationship? Teenagers are not expected to understand dil ka rishta. All I want creatives to show consistency - either make Mannu against all adults who hid truth from him or 'understand' all except whom his anger is directed (as per some posts - he is angry with his mother). And if his sudden change in behaviour is justified - then don't make him changing again suddenly - make his "realisation of his mistakes" a gradual process.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Why is Mannu still angry? Why is he lashing out at everyone?Especially people who didn't do anythinng but love him so much?

When he was at Anandi's place he did agree with Anandi that if his mother dissociates with her past and didn't want to connect with that past and if that is the reason for not telling him he understands that.

He did accept that Jagya has accepted him along with his mother into his life.

But he clearly said that he has been seeing a different side of his mother - Namely her behaviour

That only means that he has been aware of the undercurrents that have been going among the elders namely Jagya Ganga Anandi and Dsa.

He has been seeing friction between his parents Ganga's abrupt behaviour with Anandi his parents spending long hours at work parents arguments tense situations at the dining table and living room.

In all these tense situations the common factor is his mother so he came to conclusion that his mother's behaviour was the reason why his father Ratan Singh left his mother just like he came to conclusion that Ganga is the reason behind Anandi's exit from BH and he has also seen how she has been behaving with Pooja.

The stress at home combined with recent revelation that Anandi is not his massi but his father's ex wife and now this most damaging revelation the man whom he considered as his fatehr is not his father and a stranger who died in front of his eyes is his father - all have contributed to this behaviour.

Reasons for rejecting J - One that he is not the God that he thought he was but still accepted him because he is his father now he came to know that he only has been adopted by him. He thinks he is instrumental in seperating him from his father

Mother for obvious reasons

Dsa obviously because of the family connections

All the same I don't condole or support this kind of behaviour but all I say is that he is hurt scared confused frustrated at this time and is not really thinking but just reacting. Do hope he comes back to his normal state soon.

This is how mannu is seeing things. Anandi told him not to base his opinions on what he is seeing at present. But he is too young to comprehend this as he did not see what others were experiencing for the last so many years.He needs time to come to terms with all these things. And he needs lots of space and love. Which only dadisa can give him at present.

Originally posted by: SPuja

And in all this accepted Anandi wholeheartedly as his maasi? He has seen Anandi at his home since he was a toddler - he considered him as family, now he knows a few things - Anandi was married to J in childhood, that Anandi and Ganga share no relationship - and this only resulted in downgrading of J from a God like person to a lesser mortal and nothing against Anandi? Then he comes to know Anandi also knew the facts of his adoption and like all other adults - also hid the fact from him. Still he feels respect for Anandi and disrespect for J and DS (considering all his anger is against his mother as he was seeing her behaviour)? This is the inconsistency that make the track unbelievable. If Mannu is hurt because truth was hidden from him for so long - he should have anger towards all those who were party to this. His initial reaction of going to Pooja was the only thing creatives made right - because she was the only one who told truth 😆

We hate those who we love very much. Mannu loved and respected his maasa but he only respected his maasi. Thats why his anger is towards his mother even more than towards Jagya as Jagya is a third party for him as of now. He made up with dadisa when dadisa showed concern for his wish to have ratan's photo.
Now in this condition if his mother and father again tick him off about Pooja, he will go further away from them.
Ganga's greatest contribution is the most lovable mannu and for keeping Sanchi away from BH. And also ability to adjust in her own way and trying to balance her feelings in her own way.