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Posted: 10 years ago
#11
People are comparing Ganga's behavior in this matter equal to Mannu's behavior now ? What were Ganga's fears and insecurities that she behaved irrationally?That as a mother she was scared her dark horrible painful past will break him down That became her such big injustice done to mannu maharaj that he shamelessly lies about her Something he has not seen he lies about her just to put her down ? When he has seen Ganga rude to Anandi? in fact he was so confused why suddenly Anandi left BH and asking from Jagya so why lying about Ganga ?Even if Ganga would have told him earlier whats the guarantee he would not have behaved like this today meeting Ratan ? Seeing Ratan's Singh 's two seconds of love he has changed drastically He has forgot even basic courtesy that his parents have taught him He does not have any reason to blame Jagya Ganga so he makes his stories to put them down if he is angry hurt the truth came out in front of him like this fine but turning abusive to same relations who through out loved and protected him Not thinking on how much they loved him but only talking bull crap about them What right he has to do this?
people are saying his behavior with Jagya and Dadisaa are a bit too much? a bit too much ? He is excessive rude nasty abusive than any one can be Even when Ganga in clear words told her i was hiding this from you but he shouts at Jagya for it Jagya is shell shocked seeing his this behavior He never expected this He was only worried about Mannu should not be heart broken knowing it from outside but Mannu will become like this no one thought

His truthful Anandi maasi supported Ganga but he does not believe her too in other way Mannu thinks Anandi is very good person Very truthful he follows her words but when it comes to support of his mother Anandi is lying too ?

Mannu is going to pay big time for this The relations he is insulting now he will carve for them someday See what happens with this boy He is gonna hate his very existence He will hate himself so much He totally deserves that

and Ganga is not God These circumstances were not in her control She would have told Mannu one day herself and she said that but circumstances came in front of her like this In that what she could do She did not kill Ratan on Mannu's birthday People are saying why now she told him this if she would not have told him even now and he come to know from outside his real father has died and he was not given chance to do his last rites then what would have happened ?so Ganga took the right step but she did not know even after the great moral values given to Mannu he will throw them in waste bin like this

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Posted: 10 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: RTee

Mannu's change is drastic. But what was done to him was no less drastic.

One moment a boy is celebrating his 16th birthday with his friends and family, next moment he is whisked away in a car by his mom to light the funeral pyre of a man he met a few hours ago and who was so kind to him. He is told that this dead man is your real father and all other relationships as known to him have a different flavour to them.

He is angry, very angry. His behaviour is more because he feels betrayed by the people he has loved all these years.

No explanation given to him will be able to explain the reason why he was not told of this earlier. Why tell him at all now. And if by some perchance he learns that his father had requested a meeting earlier that was denied, dont know what will happen.

Hopefully Ratan would have written a nice letter.


I agree totally.

She said to mannu that she wanted to tell him when the time was right ...but the truth is she did not tell him anything even when the time was right that is when he was lying in the hospital. She knew Ratan was going to die, yet she hid the truth from him and then suddenly asked him to light his pyre at his funeral.

Why dominate this way over a grown up boy? Does he have no mind of his own ?

She took him for granted, she thought since she raised him with love, he would never ever go against her wish.

Moreover, she is not even accepting her mistake that she did not pay attention to jagya when he asked her 6 yrs ago to tell the truth to mannu. At least jagya would have been spared from mannu's rudeness.

I dont blame mannu. He is going through a major trauma and it may take time to heal.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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she din't hide truth 4 sum selfishness . she hide the truth so that he cudn' b affected from her dark past.and she wanted 2 tell him the truth on rite time which ppl r thinking. she was thinking of telling him the truth wen he wud'd grown up as grown-ups r considered more mature.and ratan was not dying. ganga din't know. she was expecting ratan 2 live . even if shes doc but shes still a human being & a a human being she was expecting him 2 get saved.
and she din't know that circumstances will turn like this.no1 can predict future or how will our actions of 2day will affect our 2marrow. sumtimes we do sumthing thinking it as gud & rite but sumtimes consequences may turn out 2 b bad or wrong

where did she dominate him & in wat way?? hes not adult.hes still a minor as per law & also as per societal norms. so parents can do watever they think i rite 4 their kids just like Aji did by not telling shivam abt nandini till she competed wid ganga & thot ganga's words as challenge.so ganga has also every rite 2 take any decision on him.
and no1 is saying he shudn't b angry or upset or give cold shouklder but then give it 2all naa. why 2 exclude sum ppl who were equally party 2 hiding the truth.and moreover theres diff btn getting angry & bcuming cheap uttering cheap dialogues & thinking cheaply.

and wen did she not accept the mistake. she did thatswhy she rembrd J's words abt telling truth at 1st.
and even if he'd told truth i wudn't b srprsd if he'd behaved like this only.he wud'd behaved like this only.

mannu is not behaving nicely. theres no excuse 4 his this cheapness & thinking cheap things abt his parents.
but yes ppl will find justifcins 4 it bcoz hes going against ganga.if the same mannu'd gone against Aji & told her 1-2 cheap things 2 her he wud'd been bashed 2 death 2 dare 2 do this 2 Aji.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#14
Good or bad, weird or not...whatever mannu's behaviour is, it is just a reflection to his parents behaviour with him especially his mom's.

What I wouldn't like is mannu going to extreme ends in hating them. That's because, as per CV's history, if they make an X character hate Y to an extreme level...X would end up feeling terribly sorry for Y...It would be like a redemption😳. Example - Sanchi, Sumitra , gauri...and maybe more? Initially they would have valid reasons...then they go over board...go on and on and finally they end up saying sorry for everything even for the things they have done right.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya

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Why dominate this way over a grown up boy? Does he have no mind of his own ?




Mannu was a young boy to know the truth until a day before. But a grown up cheapo for being rude to his parents on knowing the truth. You get the logic here?😳

Edit: On a serious note , I think if if he was too young to know the truth like his mom thought, he should still be too young to digest the newly learnt facts. So why is she expecting any kind of understanding from him?
Edited by The_Alchemist. - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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mannu's behaviour is not reflection of his any of parent. wid him. ganga never did like this wid mannu which mannu is doing now that mannu shud do this.that 2 this much cheapness. butyes his one of parents behaviour is reflecting in him ratan singh.2day sumis' feras that mannu is ratan's father so he can't b trusted came true.gud going CVs.
ganga or J r not expecting him 2 suddenly bcum normal but they can think/r thinking that atleast he shud b this much understanding that not 2 behave cheaply & rudely the way hes behaving.
if he"ll remain angry or sad & won't talk much wid any1 then JaGan & DS won't've any prob but hes going 2 far.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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God knows which world people are living to say with a 16-yr old his parents can do anything they want... such parents get no respect from their children and sometimes run away from house.

Mature parents treat children with respect, they talk to them openly. They dont cut their phone when they are talking or tell their best friend to stay away from their son or just come in the middle of the party and say the part is over, you all may go home now. How rude and arrogant.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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By the way, what was ganga's dark past which she wanted to hide from mannu? has she done anything wrong ? 😕

I thought she was a victim who ran away from her husband's house with her little boy. Why this should affect mannu? He would have been proud of her.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tiny15

she din't hide truth 4 sum selfishness . she hide the truth so that he cudn' b affected from her dark past.and she wanted 2 tell him the truth on rite time which ppl r thinking. she was thinking of telling him the truth wen he wud'd grown up as grown-ups r considered more mature.and ratan was not dying. ganga din't know. she was expecting ratan 2 live . even if shes doc but shes still a human being & a a human being she was expecting him 2 get saved.

and she din't know that circumstances will turn like this.no1 can predict future or how will our actions of 2day will affect our 2marrow. sumtimes we do sumthing thinking it as gud & rite but sumtimes consequences may turn out 2 b bad or wrong

where did she dominate him & in wat way?? hes not adult.hes still a minor as per law & also as per societal norms. so parents can do watever they think i rite 4 their kids just like Aji did by not telling shivam abt nandini till she competed wid ganga & thot ganga's words as challenge.so ganga has also every rite 2 take any decision on him.
and no1 is saying he shudn't b angry or upset or give cold shouklder but then give it 2all naa. why 2 exclude sum ppl who were equally party 2 hiding the truth.and moreover theres diff btn getting angry & bcuming cheap uttering cheap dialogues & thinking cheaply.

and wen did she not accept the mistake. she did thatswhy she rembrd J's words abt telling truth at 1st.
and even if he'd told truth i wudn't b srprsd if he'd behaved like this only.he wud'd behaved like this only.

mannu is not behaving nicely. theres no excuse 4 his this cheapness & thinking cheap things abt his parents.
but yes ppl will find justifcins 4 it bcoz hes going against ganga.if the same mannu'd gone against Aji & told her 1-2 cheap things 2 her he wud'd been bashed 2 death 2 dare 2 do this 2 Aji.

dolly Mannu will come around and apologize to Ganga for all his rude behavior and false assumptions then these Ganga haters will be uff ho Then they will start doing yawn yawn They justify even Ratan Singh in front of Ganga
Their darling Anandi is justified in hiding truth from Daddu about criminal DB for his health and Happiness but Ganga who was scared of Mannu's break down cannot be understood but yes Mannu is understandable in all his abuses to Ganga because he is blaming her Sumitra is justified in forcing her young adult son to follow her only otherwise she abuses him and his choices but Ganga is monsterous brute and deserves to be insulted by her son He deliberately abused her you are not my mother He was not shaken there thats why said so He deliberately did that to insult her


Ganga did not know this circumstances will turn like this This all happened in so less time In one week almost in serial not more than that
They will find justifications for every person who go against Jagya and Ganga because of their blind hatred for them
The so called fake support for Jagya is now only to put Ganga down we know in their hearts they will be happy because they want Jagya to suffer but don't worry Jagya and Ganga are good people One day Mannu will apologize to them and see the truth
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Posted: 10 years ago
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luks like only few ppl r enlightened how & wat can 16 yr old kids parents shud do 2 their kids. luks like havn't seen how ppl behave much badly.wen did ganga or j behaved badly wid mannu.
mature parents din't slap their kid whos behaving cheaply.i'd seen many mature parents who even talked openly but if kids behave like this slap them hard.

why not 2 cut the phone of their kid if thats going 2 b long one & not himself cutting the phone wen told 2 & making excuse of telling answers.

and why can't any parent cum 2 the party & ask them 2 stop if theres bad happening in the house. i think ganga shud'd cum & said cum on kid party harder bcoz we'd a tragedy in our house but we"ll celebrate the b'day till u drop. how sweet & nice wud'd been it luked.
atleast ganga politely asked them 2 go 2 home as theres tragedy. so it bcums rude & arrogant.

and mannu is young 2 tell such truth but hes enough grown up 2 konw how 2 behave properly & not 2 behave cheaply.
but luks like ppl hav their own logic 2 defend their illogical reasons.

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