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Dsa made Anandi part of her family way back when they were kids and when she decided to do Jagya's second marriage with Gudiya. At that time itself she said that Anandi will always be part of the family if not as a bahu then as a beti.
Bhairon and Sumi did always consider her as a beti.It is just that thye haven't taken legal steps.
They considered her as a family and gave her same legal rights as Suguna when they distributed property.
Anandi had been living there as Dadisa's grand daughter.
On one hand people say how regressive that Anandi is staying with ex sasuralwale and blah blah
But what kind of sasural wale get their bahu divorced from their own darling son because of infidelity and get her married to a good man and then look after her and her children when the second husband dies?
Which sasural with regressive mentality will do that?
This is a story of a relationship between the old lady and young girl which went far and beyond traditions and I think they are more progressive than the viewers who just see them from their own prism and split hairs.
Forming bonds which are way beyond traditions based entirely on inter personal equations.Isn't that a sign of progressiveness?
Yes I would like Anandi to move out of BH not because it is her ex sasural - but her child needs more space and healthier environment to grow and spread his wings .He shouldn't be spending his whole time and energy dealing with some pranks played by a kid who is jealous insecure and feels he is inferior to him.If Shivam is made to live there even his periphery of vision will become narrow and his life will be confined to protecting himself from the pranks or trying to get back at the other boy.
Ye Hai Mohabbatein
