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Posted: 10 years ago
@jia thing is not abt being scolded but the way. its not done like this. scolding in whole of staff esply jrs & relatives of patinets. nowhere i said he wanted 2 insult ganga deliberately but his tone was insulting whether its unknowingly.
and ganga said sorry and moreover abhi also said that kid was crying so he brought him there. why can't J accept that & talked or even scold them in his cabin?? scolding in front of whole of staff not thinking abt ur colleagues's feelings is not inhuman??
i wish Cvs show J going sum oder place 4 few days where hes Jr & his Sr. scold him in front of whole of staff including Jrs how will he feel??
i wish CVs show J realizing this ASAP & apologising & introspect his beahviour.why din't he rembr his own experience wid gauri in mumbai??
Edited by tiny15 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: surabhi01

sidra no one is saying jagya should not scold ganga for mistakes .v r not against jagya scolding ganga but it would be better if jagya scolded ganga at his cabin .I have seen when junior do mistake some senior scolded junior in front of all and some senior scold junior in back but advice given to senior also that crictize junior in back and praise junior in front of all because there r juniors too who are really sensitive who cant tolerate when senior scolding junior in front of all , some time it lead to high depression in junior mind when senior point out mistake in junior in front of all , for me it is best approach to critize junior in back

surabi he was her scolding in a corner He took them to a corner I again repeat the thing you guys are making issue of was not even an issue Neither he was loud If the people passing by dont have special hearing capabilities they cannot listen him Ganga was herself scolding a nurse once in front of patients but then she scolded her in much similar tone as he but that nurse told her problem why she was depressed thats why could not be careful with medicines to patient but Ganga here has no defense for her because she knows she was at fault
Ok if he would have scolded her in cabin lets say then Ganga would be carrying sad face too then staff wont gossip what happened ?Last time he scolded Ganga for her mistake Dadisaa declared him wrong This time for one mistake he scolded Ganga at home Ganga misunderstood and we are again blaming him he was correct Ganga felt bad Here he scolded in corner again it became matter of her repute so from this i deduce that he cannot scold her?


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Posted: 10 years ago
@dolly and surabhi i just cannot understand why you are going this far to blame Jagya to even compare him with Gauri ? Hello both situations are utterly different its so unfair to compare both Gauri insulted him in a meeting of his colleagues and seniors , she shouted at him and called him useless , worthless fellow who does not deserve to work at this place and she made a mistake to get him at job here Jagya was not wrong He just gave a suggestion Seniors minded it because it bruised their ego and Gauri shouted at him calling him useless not worthy to work at this You are comparing it to Gauri and asking Jagya should remember that How unfair is that ?
why he should apologize to Ganga what wrong he said to her ?
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Posted: 10 years ago
whether he was scolding ganga at corner or at middle or at left or right but it was recognize by all staff .if jagya scolded ganga in cabin that at least staff would have not come to know about it ]and I think ganga will not come out in sad face .she will try to control emotion and let them gossip at least ganga willsatisfaction that jagya did not scold her in front of allI remember jagya even did not tolerate dean scolding and say one day I wil become dean of hospital and I will give u job though dean did scold him in cabin only .when jagya feel bad even Dean did not scold him in front of all so how ganga would have felt when she was scolded in front of all .there is protocol for everyone not only for junior but there is protocol for senior too .in office this is office this not home where u can behave like u wanted , in office proper procedure should be follow]v r not interested in crictizing jagya as it is .I have also seen today bv episode on tv and for me it look jagya scolded very badly to ganga .I am not watching different versions of bv .I have seen today episode clearly and other thing v r not only jagya but also crictizing ganga .it is not like that v like to find fault in jagya only, v find fault in ganga too
Edited by surabhi01 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
All understanding is reserved for Ganga only i guess ? she is more human more understanding Whatever she does has a reason Jagya is always wrong wow Amazed He is even accused of he wanted to insult Ganga more when he only scolded her for her mistake before that he was fine and can he ever want to insult Ganga ?Such distasteful blame on him So unfair i am really heart broken reading comments here i cannot differentiate these are Jagya fans or haters who refuse to see things from his POV but blaming him

Why every time Ganga is justified Just how amazing is it Ganga is justified for same people for everything understandable even when she directly accuses Jagya for being biased to shivam She said why you cannot give love and care to both kids in same way but that dialogue of her is twisted and given her excuse Jagya was wrong not she He told her i was really busy then i did not even know Abhi was with you but she accused him why this coincidence happens with Abhi only He never scolded her there he only asked her to go to sleep Yeah he got angry but after her taunts but he cut it there No where in next conversations he was volatile angry or irritated Total false blame

Next she does not consult him before making 28 lakh deal Just how true was her excuse he always remain busy and does not have time for talks could be seen from today's episode when Jagya came for conference If she would have asked him for him surely he would have come but she did not bother He scolded her because it was a huge insult of him in front of others He is MD he needs to know what happens in hospital because those people contact him He comes to know from third person what Ganga did but of course he is wrong He does not have heart to feel insulted Ganga is justified He should have sit and told her in politer tone She can keep doing whatever mistake no matter how much hurting and insulting it is for Jagya Each time he has to show patience to her poor her and otherwise will be declared as wrong His behavior is not even justified as human being then acha hope is punished for being so inhuman to poor Ganga and what crime is He scolded her for her mistake but that becomes taunt Her act was highly insulting to him but he became criminal because he said to you are expert you dont need for me anything Which by the way all of us would be saying in his place if someone does same with us but no we just don't want to see things from his POV and blame him only

He forgive and forget it and moved on even when Ganga actually never realized her true mistake Here he was all in good mood to her until he did not see Abhi in swine flu ward Just how shocking would be that be for him In his place even we would be furious What he is doing there who let him be there If he would have got virus then ?Mistake was Gangas Abhi comes to meet to her daily she could have told him wait for her in ward Just don't go anywhere not to this section at all but no she did not do so He scolded her That became issue He scolded in front of everyone God knows which everyone those were only passer bys I don't think he was loud enough This shouting and screaming blame is so false but i am sure he is going to apologize to poor victim of Ganga but at that time he was shocked and in anger only concerned for Abhi not for his own personal greed or like he is accused of here that he wanted to insult of her more So disappointed to read this false blame and comparing him to Gauri where Gauri always shouted at Jagya and blamed him in front of others to pacify seniors ego or her ego thats it but no where he did same still compare him to Gauri Wah

That doctor remark was a general statement Even reading so rude remarks on Jagya i can even question you guys are you really Jagya fans ? if yes then why not for once see things from his POV Ganga is special case ?same way he said there You consider yourself a doctor you don't even know to tell Abhi this This even an intern knows God knows why it becomes the mater of poor Ganga's honor and repute that he should be considerate to poor thing everything she does whatever that can have drastic effects but Jagya cannot get angry at her and scold her At home he does that issue in hospital he does thats issue God knows why so much partiality to Ganga but all blames are for Jagya ? He cannot be understood Disappointed I am happy to justify his so called volatile nature because to me he never scolds Ganga or anyone for wrong reasons then falsely accusing him


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Posted: 10 years ago
why would jagya be wrong after all he is god who can never do mistake .it is always fault of ganga ..jagya is free to do anything he is most perfect person .whatever jagya do is completely right .it clearly look jagya taunted ganga that u calling urself doctor
Edited by surabhi01 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
why its always J whos 2 b understood?? why not ganga??he was wrong in his way. he din't take him in the corner but in btn the corridor and started doing all that rant. he shud'd scolded ganga in his cabin as a colleague & not a wife.
if gauri called him useless then wat J said 2 ganga indirectly if his intention was gud or bad or not done intentionally?? din't he call ganga incapable dr. indirectly & unintentionally.
gauri & this situn r not difft. they r almost similar. gauri also called him useless in front of his colleagues & J also called ganga as incapable dr indirectly & unintentionally i front of whole staff 7 relatives of his patients.


and yes its always fault of ganga & J can't do anything wrong.hes more human and ganga is not human enough or a gud wife.he can shout on his wife,son & colleagues but hes justified but not ganga. he clearly taunted ganga twice once in his home & 2nd in hospi. but hes not wrong.only ganga is wrong. how cud she do the deal widout his consulting??and wen she tries 2 rectify then again listen 2 taunts of not liking interference by her boss not husband.

and i don't think any1 said J was wrong in scolding we r saying that his way was wrong.and hes not accused of her 4 insulting deliberately or intentionally but it luked like he din't like ganga doing deal on her own & unintentionally insulted her.and ganga never blamed J 4 being biased 2wards shivam indirectly oderwise she wudn't'd told &suggested him that shivam is messing wid abhi & he shud talk 2 A abt it.but he again took it against & said all kids r treated equally.

why there r always justificns 4 J even if his ways r wrong but if ganga does any mistake she being taunted & bashed. why can't J b wrong in handling situtns??din't ganga said 2 abhi that its her fault that she shud 'd told him not 2 cum 2 this side wen abhi blamed himself after J's scolding?why ppl 4get that she realizes her mistakes & tries 2 rectify them also. but its now time 4 J 2 realize his ways r wrong in handling the situtn in sum cases.

and ganga is being accused that she din't realize her real mistake. wow.i don't think i m watching anoder ver of BV.i saw that she clearly told J that she wanted 2 rectify her mistake so cancelled the deal tho i say she MU J abt that he doesn't want the deal done as such after his taunt 2 dinner table.but J again blamed 4 being not liking his interference. if ppl cna think ganga's behaviour seems that she din't like his interference then why can't oders think J being falsely blaming or insulting ganga even if unintentionally??

ppl accused & were disgusted wen she brought that gender issue 4 this.but if J 's wrong ways r pointed out it bcums blasphemy.he clearly taunts ganga but it never luked taunts wow wat double stds?gauri not always wanted 2 insult him so she did all that. sumtimes her intentions were not 2 insult him but she acted acc.2 situns also yet pp blasted her .why?? bcoz she was wrong in her ways.no1'd prob wid gauri's insecuirties but she w as abshed .why?? bcoz her ways were wrong in expressing it.

similarly J is not wrong in scolding ganga 4 deal thing or this abhi case but his way was 2 harsh & wrong. and i m not talking abt being a wife but being a colleague he shud understand wat impact & impression his behaviour is giving abt ganag & himself also 2 oders.
and just bcoz we r J fans doesn't mean we shud overlook his wrong ways & justifies him.just bcoz we r not liking his way or can't justify him doesn't mean we r not his fans or blaming 2 spare ganga.
where ganga was wrong she was criticised but we find J wrong then we"ll say him wrong.and its not taht we r not seeing his POV but why only his POV matters and not ganga's. why can't we see that alos.

and 4 the false blame that we r accusing J 4 insulting ganga i"ll say no1 said that his intention was 2 insult her deliberately. but his tone was taunting & seemed insulting.and no1 justified ganga's doing deal on her own and why can't ppl think taht she mite b rite wen she said she tried 2 contact him he was busy?? why its s aid that she was giving the lame excuse?? why its a lame excuse wen related 2 ganga but its a genuine reason wen related 2 J??
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Posted: 10 years ago
theres protocol of doing things in pvt & govt sector/institutions. and there r unwritten rules abt it 4 Srs /bosses also. an dj din't do that.
and i m happy i m not justifying his volatile nature or wrong ways 2 handle just bcoz i m his fan. i m seeing the situtn from all sides not just J's POV.if 2marrow ganga will do same wid her colleague i"ll criticise her also like the way i m doing 4 J.

i don't know why its being assumed that we want only J 2 understand ganga & not the oder way around??
and why its being assumed that we r saying J is always wrong or ganga is rite??no1 saying J is wrong in scolding ganga in deal thing or this but only that his way was wrong @ both times.

and if we r finding him way 2 harsh or more short-tempered then why its being assumed taht we r not J fans or just don't understand his POV.😕
if ganga cud b questioned abin that deal thing t her intentions then why not J in the same??same applies 2 him.
Edited by tiny15 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: surabhi01

why would jagya be wrong after all he is god who can never do mistake .it is always fault of ganga ..jagya is free to do anything he is most perfect person .whatever jagya do is completely right .it clearly look jagya taunted ganga that u calling urself doctor

enough this is appreciation thread This kind of language he is a god why he will be wrong will not be tolerated here and by the way if you declared him wrong Does that become universal truth that he clearly taunted her We are talking about situation you don't want to see that fine but better Go pour your frustration at FT not here You want to accuse him You accused Shekhars to be wrong as well for scolding Anandi for losing her daughter Everytime always others are at fault cannot be understood You want to believe he taunted here I don't That does not mean we who are supporting him consider him God He is most perfect but if others can be understood he too can be
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Posted: 10 years ago
I dont want to be jagan at member remove my name .I dont know what abusive language I have use that u r talking me , like this .

remove my name from jagan at I dont want to be jagan at member fom now onward

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