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Posted: 10 years ago
#21
and anandi if really a careless mother then she would have not take nandini to hospital for check up when anandi take nandini to hospital for check up then how she is careless mother ??
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Why did she not take Shivam with her? Simply because Shivam did not require hospital visit and he is at home with the family
What was Anandi supposed to do? Walk away from the lady who is asking to take her to the wedding venue?
What guarantee is there that Nandini will be safe in the car? If she can't be safe in her mother's arms will she be safe in the car all on her own?
Anandi was thinking about her beti's safety.If she didn't have her baby with her she would have run to that little girl and ran away from that place and let the police do the rest of the job rounding up the criminals.At every step she backed away thinking about her child.
There is nothing to suggest that she had been careless.
Don't know whether Anandi is ideal woman or not but she definitely is not an ordinary woman who would just think about her family and her happiness and leave the world to it's own fate.But I guess understanding extraordinary in a seemingly ordinary woman is beyond our comprehension
But strangely Shiv's intentions which are same as Anandi even his actions which led to his demise are similar to Anandi's ways and he will be lauded but Anandi will be mocked
Why?Is it because she reminds us what we are not capable of doing?
Shiv took risk when dealing with the terrorist and he lost his life.Taking risk is way different from being careless or unmindful of safety.
Anandi did take risk but she has not been careless nor foolish.
People don't seem to understand the difference between putting life and safety at risk and being careless

shiv's act was same as Anandi's?...i don't remember Shiv taking Amol or pregnant Anandi with him and had he done so he would not have let Anandi stay in the venue even for a minute
can't anandi take her daughter home quickly n then go with the lady? I'm sure as a mother the lady would have understood Anandi's priority
trust me no one is jealous of Anandi...unlike BV makers, there are women who like to be themselves rather than a copy of someone.
Anandi is not putting risk at her life, she is involving her daughter too...how sweet of her 🤢
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Posted: 10 years ago
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anandi ne jaanbhujkar apne beti ko risk mein nahi daala .she is equally worry about daughter and I will like to know what anandi could have done for safety for her baby , ,who is going to take responsibility of child except anandi .
Edited by surabhi01 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#24
anandi ofcouse would have put nandini in house if she would have. get enough time but unfortunately anandi did not get enough time to put nandini in house .
Edited by surabhi01 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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yes anandi is definitely committed to the cause of bal vivah and she does the needful every time she comes across such cases, instead of just standing and advocating against it.
this time also it was no different, and in fact i see a lot of growth in the way anandi handled the entire thing. she called up home, called up police, and at every single moment nandini was in her mind...if we compare her to anandi who is all alone at such situations, she was way too calm and allowed the police to do the work. her intention was to leave with the lady maybe, and she never in her wildest dreams would have thought that nandini would be kidnapped.
if we compare this to jyoti's wedding track, anandi has matured and improved a lot in her way of handling things.

coming to taking nandini with her, well if i see from a mother's perspective i think it was wrong somewhere...but if i see myself in anandi's shoes i think i would have done the same. for anandi child marriage is not just a social cause for which she is fighting as a social worker, she has an immense personal connect with the issue and even after leading a content and happy life with Shiv this is something that will never go away from her.

we can argue that she could have dropped nandini at home, but then its CVs who wanted nandini to be there to take the story ahead, just like they wanted to show Shiv as a superhero fighting alone inspite of huge police force present, just because Shiv had to be killed.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: rdjha

yes anandi is definitely committed to the cause of bal vivah and she does the needful every time she comes across such cases, instead of just standing and advocating against it.
this time also it was no different, and in fact i see a lot of growth in the way anandi handled the entire thing. she called up home, called up police, and at every single moment nandini was in her mind...if we compare her to anandi who is all alone at such situations, she was way too calm and allowed the police to do the work. her intention was to leave with the lady maybe, and she never in her wildest dreams would have thought that nandini would be kidnapped.
if we compare this to jyoti's wedding track, anandi has matured and improved a lot in her way of handling things.

coming to taking nandini with her, well if i see from a mother's perspective i think it was wrong somewhere...but if i see myself in anandi's shoes i think i would have done the same. for anandi child marriage is not just a social cause for which she is fighting as a social worker, she has an immense personal connect with the issue and even after leading a content and happy life with Shiv this is something that will never go away from her.

we can argue that she could have dropped nandini at home, but then its CVs who wanted nandini to be there to take the story ahead, just like they wanted to show Shiv as a superhero fighting alone inspite of huge police force present, just because Shiv had to be killed.


@bold - that is what most of the members (including me) are saying. If the track is ridiculous - it is criticism of creatives and if the track is good (commitment of Anandi towards eradication of bal-vivah) it is praise of creatives only. Anandi/Jagya/Shiv etc. are mere pawn in the creatives' hands. But here some members are defending Anandi just like on numerous occasions people defended Jagya/Ganga/Shiv etc.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: SPuja


@bold - that is what most of the members (including me) are saying. If the track is ridiculous - it is criticism of creatives and if the track is good (commitment of Anandi towards eradication of bal-vivah) it is praise of creatives only. Anandi/Jagya/Shiv etc. are mere pawn in the creatives' hands. But here some members are defending Anandi just like on numerous occasions people defended Jagya/Ganga/Shiv etc.


@ bold - Trying a lot to keep myself away from Forum and its discussions...but this line from you, made me respond, as I agree with you 200 % !

Looking from an impartial view, as a thoroughly neutral viewer who does not have any favorites of a character or a Jodi...this is the ultimate fact !

Till you are in the same tangent as that of writer's POV, you will definitely defend his way of showing the character's actions, but once you are no more there, it will be difficult to justify, as to why some things should happen.

Now that point, at any time in the show, would have already come for some audience, would be coming at intermittent intervals for some, and would NEVER come for others.

To each their own...isn't it ? 😆

Any no. of reasons and logics can come out of the actions of the characters , in the way they have behaved, but personally, in this track for me, how much ever of a social activist I'am, I would never risk my child's life in this manner.

Sorry to say, and frankly enough, I was actually giggling all through the episode y/day, when Ajee was standing facing the Guns of those mean men listening to the discussions of the child brides kith and kin with her infant in her arms...and forcing her way in midst of police, still with her child in tow !

But yeah, from a 'drama' POV, its would have been a 'fabulous' scene !
Edited by adi2512 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Adi thanks. Now I can understand a fan's point of view better and it is the first time I have seen someone so honestly expressing why people defend the characters
"Till you are in the same tangent as that of writer's POV, you will definitely defend his way of showing the character's actions, but once you are no more there, it will be difficult to justify, as to why some things should happen."

Yes a number of times it is difficult to digest why they show such a thing. But we should not refrain from these discussions because who knows if creatives come here - they would find some logical ways.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#29
@SPuja,
Thanks.

I 'am able to say this, becoz' at one time, I was there...a fan of a character and a Jodi..did my small bits of defending...but now no more.

I have 'expected' some thing from AnSh, as a couple, which didn't materialize, and even after that some sort of progression in the mindset of Anandi , which also, I'am failing to look forward to.

Realized my expectations were all wrong in the first place.

So, I'am a dispassionate viewer right now.

And yeah, I've also come to a conclusion that Anandi cannot be any more empowered, She is already a woman truly empowered, She does every thing she believes as right.

Now it depends on each of us, if we are in tandem with her thinking or no.

Some times we may, some times we may not...

Feel good when it is, and just let it go, when it is not...for we cannot control the writer's psyche ( of which the characters are his pawns ) per our own whims and fancies 😆

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Posted: 10 years ago
#30
No, we cannot control the writer - but I like this forum. Discussions give something to think and reading different point of views enrich our thought process. It only hurts when someone call you a hater of so and so or anybody questioning Anandi's ways is declared DB of real/virtual world.

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