Why dadisa is so worried? - Page 6

There is no moral or immoral way to rebellion .😕 And each victim of a social evil reacts differently .

Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.

Trying to defend DS here : 😆

Her fears do make sense. she probably had more confidenceon anandi than she has on J now. She knows fully well about him , doesn't she? what if he starts feeling for gauri eventually and thinks of jumping back. Jumping from relation to relation is not new to him, right? When it was anandi,Ds knew that she will remain committed to one person (at that time it was Shiv). After all DS knew how anandi put up with her abusers because she was committed in first marriage. this is why DS is not okay now and okay then .

There is a moral ethical way to show your rebellion

a girl come in nirama advertisement .she say in that advertisement pehli baar pur aakhiri nahi .is that girl is debilina chatterjee?

Ofcourse there is. There is a always a better way, a morally correct way. However I'm not very sure if abusing a person even after having successfully 'rebelled' and impregnated the other desired lady, has got anything to do with 'rebellion'

gauri come in bh for rest or to do romance with jagya ? , now she is doing drama that she want to keep teej for jagya .why suddenl gauri behaving as sincere wife .why does not she keep teej fast for jagya after jagya left her

Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.

Agree , it looked like a joke. I hope I'll come out of it if hecontinues to stay in one relationship, at least for 10 years continuously without going for anymore saccha pyaars and sindoor brand marriages. 😳

Originally posted by: Theepetronauss

Rebellion against a childhood marriage imposed by the family and committing adultery and emotional abuse of a person in the name of some so called laudable rebellion are two different things. He was not wrong because he fell in love with Gauri , he was not wrong because he 'rebelled' against his family , he was NOT wrong just because he fell out of love with his childbride . Everyone has the right to live their lives the way they want to. Jagya's morals are not questioned because fell in love with someone else as an adult. But lying to your so called childhood bestfriend , cheating on her , keeping her in dark for 5 long years about your illicit relationship,two-timing , crushing her self esteem, emotionally abusing her all the time, blaming her for your unborn baby's death, acting like a lame MCP when she decides to continue education.. How can we justify that in the name of 'rebellion' or 'free will'? I fail to understand...Here the moot point of discussion is about the way that he chose to go about with.

so well said...

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Nobody is finding fault with him for rebelling against child marriage.Nobody finds fault with him if he wanted out of a marriage that was foisted on him when he did not even know the meaning of it.Even if he did not consider Anandi as his wife he could have told her that he wanted out of this child marriage because his interests and thoughts on life have changed.He owed that to her as a friend who has been with him through thick and thin and this decision of his affects her too.

Didn't he owe an explanation to her? Had he told his reasons for wanting out she would have fought for his rights to move out of the marriage.She would have supported his decision to move out. But no he did not tell her that because he didn't have guts to tell her the truth instead he just belittled her for years before he finally let her know that he fell in love with someone else and not for once did he spare a thought for her or her future.

Anandi too rebelled against child marriage instead her rebellion is directed against the custom called child marriage.He himself has seen Anandi rushing to prevent child marriages from happening.Why didn't he share his feelings about their marriage with her?Where was the need to walk all over her to get what he wanted from life?

His second marriage with his great Saccha Pyarr also ended up badly and this time both him and Gauri were equally responsible.Nobody expected him to stay in a relationship which was suffocating him.Instead of telling her straight that her and her ways are suffocating him he chose to find fault with her for her lies which were far less harmful than the lies he told her.What prevented him from telling her that he didn't want to be in a relationship anymore?

Both the times he never told the truth that he wanted out of the relationship but he found faults with his partners and walked out.

It is not just he walked out it is the way he dealt with his relationships that is being faulted he was not being faulted for leaving Anandi or Gauri but it is the way he ended those relationships without introspecting and laying the blame squarely on the partner in questipn..

Make it 3 times as he never had guts to tell Saanchi or anyone that he wanted to walk out of it as well. It was once again a unanimous decision, where he decided what was right and told off Shekhars that he is out.

If jagya has done everything correctly then the serial would have been done long time back. The whole point of this serial is jagya keeps making mistake after mistake and everyone else survive (as a character)to bash him slap him insult him reform him and in the process become great. Jagya is the tool to make scnes and story for each and every character in the show. To make others accepted and mahaan. If DS is not telling jagya what to do then there are no scens for DS, if anandi is not crying coz of jagya, no acceptance for anandi, if shiv is not teaching jagya what to do then no popularity for shiv. That's the complete moral of this serial.