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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

So . Whats the point . Point is these rituals r done in every marraige ...formerly they were only done in one marraige coz marraiges were for life . Now things have changed , there r divorces and one can marry often . Point is now they r done so long as u r in that commitment . Anandi did them when Jagya was her husband now with Shiv as husband . Doesn't make her less of pativrata as whichever commitment she is in , she honors it . Same way whichever commitment he is in he honors it too ...and he cannot help it if the ladies he marries do it for him . Not his fault . Why should 3 marraiges be a crime if circumstances were such and why should one stick in a marraige arranged by elders in childhood and only and only then these rituals command respect . They command respect so long as the commitment is serious and hippy culture is not therte in a marraige .

very well said kools
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anandi married multiple times???? This is the biggest joke
First time she was married off when she did not even know the meaning of it. But still fulfilled all the responsibilities of a wife and was faithful wife.She never even dreamed of anybody.But still she was considered as unsuitable as wife and was constantly compared with someone else by her great husband and then was thrown into dustbin the man
Second time she was forced by the family to get married and she married to make her family happy and even in that marriage she was honest and told her husband to stay away from her till the time she could accept him wholeheartedly
And Jagya's multiple marriages less said the better.Except with Anandi who he was married to when he was a child every marriage of his happened according to his own will.Each time marriage happened because he met his saccha pyarrr😛not to mention his habit of comparing his second and third wives with his first wife and not to mention the fact that he walks out on his marriages after taking unilateral decision to end marriages
There is a difference between what Anandi considers as marriage and what Jagya considers as marriage
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't understand why Dsa is worried about Gauri's actions and this is the same lady who forced Anandi to pretend as Jagya's wife during the JAMNESIA drama and believed that Anandi could be given to either Shiv or Jagya according to her own wish and will.
She is worried about Gauri's tamasha?
How did she forget all the tamasha that her ladesar did when he left Gauri and decided that he wanted Anandi back?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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ROFL i don't know who is cracking the biggest jokes here because i see the above post as the biggest joke here Marrying on your will is a crime Didn't know it 🤣He find his sacha pyar how many times why he is suppose to stick with a woman who does not care for him O i see there is new rule here by some marriage is the name of sticking to a person even though there is nothing left in your relation and sacha pyar does not care for you That is not called greatness but foolishness

He has habit of comparing his third wife to first wife Lol when was the last time people have seen BV o i see probably this is story of BV version 2 especially visible to some Too hard to accept naa his so called great first wife is not being compared to third wife LOL

Anyways he is happy and satisfied with his Ganga People can live in their land praising Anandi the great she considers marriage as great She is great or keep defending Gauri the great to prove Jagya bad To me these are only biggest jokes here 🤣


He didn't put Gun on Anandi's head during jamnesia drama Forced bechari Her mahanta was over flowing she suffered because of her own over dose of mahanta Forced her ROFL He wouldn't have died She could refuse but how can refuse , will miss the CHANCE TO BE MAHAAN
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

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Second time she was forced by the family to get married and she married to make her family happy and even in that marriage she was honest and told her husband to stay away from her till the time she could accept him wholeheartedly

🤣which serial story is this because in original she was pretending to be asleep while she was not She was never ready for marriage and was not honest to her husband In fact making lame excuses he guessed it from her antics when he pretended and forced out from her she said mujh sai nahi ho ga and later promised her he wont come close to her until she gets over her pleasant memories of ex No bad memories she was remembering good days so credit goes to husband what credit goes to her here Kudos to Shiv who tolerated her
Jagya's so called second great wife rejected him in time when even people care for their enemies i don't expect anyone can love such woman Probably you do In no moral book it is written you cannot marry third time when you first two relationships fail you become not criminal If there is any show me

and Jagya does not compare his third wife Ganga with great Anandi even if he did that was before marriage that too either hearing her story or either the habits of Anandi which irritated him were present in Ganga too The long bashan bazi so your writing he is comparing his wife to Anandi when was the last time he did 🤣Accept it Anandi is nothing to him He gave perfect reply to Dadi bua

and dear Anandi is extra mahaan who can compete her Jagya is a mere mortal there is no need to prove Anandi greater than him she is already great more than any human being on earth
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Anandi married multiple times???? This is the biggest joke

First time she was married off when she did not even know the meaning of it. But still fulfilled all the responsibilities of a wife and was faithful wife.She never even dreamed of anybody.But still she was considered as unsuitable as wife and was constantly compared with someone else by her great husband and then was thrown into dustbin the man


Second time she was forced by the family to get married and she married to make her family happy and even in that marriage she was honest and told her husband to stay away from her till the time she could accept him wholeheartedly


And Jagya's multiple marriages less said the better.Except with Anandi who he was married to when he was a child every marriage of his happened according to his own will.Each time marriage happened because he met his saccha pyarrr😛not to mention his habit of comparing his second and third wives with his first wife and not to mention the fact that he walks out on his marriages after taking unilateral decision to end marriages



Very well said aparna there is no compariso beteeen jagya and anandi when it is about institution of marriage
There is a difference between what Anandi considers as marriage and what Jagya considers as marriage




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Posted: 11 years ago
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Marrying according to one's wishes is not the issue but ignoring the fact that he has already got a wife when he decided to marry and then leaving the second wife without bothering to terminate the relationship properly and then hankering after the first wife who has already divorced him and getting married again trying to damage her life by implicating her fiance in a scam and then going and begging that man to leave Anandi to him because he wants her back.

All these are there in the show Balika Vadhu.
Compared to all these what Gauri has done is nothing.
Dsa and Jagy do well to remember what they did to Anandi
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hina-

🤣which serial story is this because in original she was pretending to be asleep while she was not She was never ready for marriage and was not honest to her husband In fact making lame excuses he guessed it from her antics when he pretended and forced out from her she said mujh sai nahi ho ga and later promised her he wont come close to her until she gets over her pleasant memories of ex No bad memories she was remembering good days so credit goes to husband what credit goes to her here Kudos to Shiv who tolerated her

Jagya's so called second great wife rejected him in time when even people care for their enemies i don't expect anyone can love such woman Probably you do In no moral book it is written you cannot marry third time when you first two relationships fail you become not criminal If there is any show me

and Jagya does not compare his third wife Ganga with great Anandi even if he did that was before marriage that too either hearing her story or either the habits of Anandi which irritated him were present in Ganga too The long bashan bazi so your writing he is comparing his wife to Anandi when was the last time he did 🤣Accept it Anandi is nothing to him He gave perfect reply to Dadi bua

and dear Anandi is extra mahaan who can compete her Jagya is a mere mortal there is no need to prove Anandi greater than him she is already great more than any human being on earth

She is not someone who has someone else in mind while she sleeps with her husband.She being an indian woman did not know how to tell that to her husband. The reason is she did not let him near as long as he reminded her of Jagya.
So unlike Jagya who used to imagine Gauri in place of Anandi 😛
Jagya did compare Ganga with Anandi and praised her soon after marriage then remembered the hangama Gauri used to create when ever he compared her with Anandi.Then he apologised to Ganga for comaparing her with Anandi.
This is one of the beginning episodes after replacement of Ganga
If you want you can watch that episode.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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and what is bothering to terminate the relationship properly in case of Gauri ?What is that He went to Gauri she refused to see him what he could do ? beg to her? He was wrong in Anandi's side accepted it but what he can do of Gauri ? Can you write a detailed a note what he could of Gauri the great The woman who three times rejected him off She closed all doors for him and he should committed suicide outside her office to give proper ending to her or get her married to someone ?what is proper ending ?
you are contradicting your own post previously you are making fun of him he married on his own wish now seeing i am not saying it Only Anandi was great because first she was sticking to her first marriage even when everything was over didn't ask for divorce until Singhs didn't push her This not greatness but dumbness and imagine if Singhs would never have asked her she would be sticking to it all along ?and in second time she begged to a man to marry her because she wanted to fulfill mother's promise ? Was other person her charity case if she was not ready to marry could have waited This not sensibleness at least not according to me

How many times he need to accept he was wrong to Anandi? how many times ? Become mad open a temple for her and do Anandi Anandi Anandi there ?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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How did he take Gauri's silence as her wanting to break up their so called marriage?

How can the silence from one's partner be taken as an agreement to separation? They were not legally married but still they were husband and wife for all practical purposes.Would he have taken the silence from legal wife as a wish for separation and gotten married to another woman?
Gauri was equally wrong in not conveying that she wanted their relationship to continue but so was Jagya for not making it a point to tell Gauri that he wanted out.
They just separated in anger.So many times even husband and wife have bitter fights and walk off in anger but does that amount to separation?
A decision to separate is taken mutually walking out in anger is no way to end a relationship and neither keeping silent and clamming up is no way to end a relationship,
Both Gauri and Jagya were wrong for they way they parted.

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