very well said koolsOriginally posted by: koolsadhu1000
So . Whats the point . Point is these rituals r done in every marraige ...formerly they were only done in one marraige coz marraiges were for life . Now things have changed , there r divorces and one can marry often . Point is now they r done so long as u r in that commitment . Anandi did them when Jagya was her husband now with Shiv as husband . Doesn't make her less of pativrata as whichever commitment she is in , she honors it . Same way whichever commitment he is in he honors it too ...and he cannot help it if the ladies he marries do it for him . Not his fault . Why should 3 marraiges be a crime if circumstances were such and why should one stick in a marraige arranged by elders in childhood and only and only then these rituals command respect . They command respect so long as the commitment is serious and hippy culture is not therte in a marraige .