Precap Feb 12 - Anandi against reporting assault?

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: krystal_watz
What? Are you sure? 😲

Yes. Like many others have said should check out the whole scene tomorrow but I was flabbergasted to hear even this from Anandi.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: SiriuslySujal
I am shocked to hear that Anandi used the word "badnaami" in association with rape. The Anandi I remember would never have said anything so regressive. This sounds like yet another example of the BV CVs cloaking a regressive mentality in mock progressiveness.

I could not believe it! Need to see how it plays out tomorrow but seriously, seriously taken aback.

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sushma89

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Posted: 11 years ago

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i dont think anandi is againist filing FIR may be she is telling the poverty of ira to shiv and before filing case its important know about poverty of all na and anandi never lets any injustice happens to anyone and i read in sum article that anandi tells sanchi not to give up and fight for her rights by which sanchi will be overhelmed and hugs her and thanks for her support and love

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Nazneen

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: aparnauma
She did not use that word badnami to express her thoughts. It was Ira's fears and thoughts on the issues she was conveying to Shiv.Ira is the one who is hesitating about filing complaint for the fear of facing badnami

I haven't heard the exact phrasing, but I just feel like it would be natural in such a situation for Anandi to phrase things to indicate a separation between her and Ira's opinions on the matter. E.g., if Shiv said, "Humme turant FIR darj kar dene chahiye", she could have responded, "Haan, Shiv... par main Maa ke baare me soch rahi hoon. Unko darr hai ke FIR darj karne se hamare parivaar ki badnaami hogi". This would have been neutral on Anandi's part and shown clearly that the opinion that reporting the crime should be avoided due to potential badnaami was Ira's and not her own. Whereas based on the TM's post, it seems that there was some degree of ambiguity in Anandi's words... saying something like, "Which mother would like her daughter's badnaami?" makes it sound like Anandi herself is emotionally invested in brushing the whole incident under the carpet as per Ira's wishes and wants Shiv to come around to that way of thinking. Which completely doesn't sit right for me, as Anandi has always stood for what is just and correct even when particular family members have disagreed with her.

This is all just theoretical analysis on my part, though, and may be completely wrong. I should probably actually watch the clip in question! Also, sorry if my Hindi in any of the above phrasings is wrong...

EDIT: Found the precap clip and watched it. It wasn't as bad as I thought it would be, and was mostly Anandi echoing Ira's thoughts. I guess I just feel like it could have been better written... referring to "badnaami" of daughters as a universal fear shared by all mothers is quite regressive. Forget that... referring to rape as a reason for a girl to suffer "badnaami" in the first place is regressive. No-one but the rapist should feel shame. So I feel like Anandi should empathise with Ira's views but should firmly not endorse them herself. It also just seems out of character for her to think more about Ira not wanting the FIR to be lodged than about the fact that lodging the FIR is the right thing to do by the victim, Sanchi, and in line with her wishes.

Edited by SiriuslySujal - 11 years ago

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rujub

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: TheRedQueen

Respectfully disagree. It's the job of the law to do this.

Also, as appealing as it might seem in an extreme situation (not this), vigilante justice is not the answer. I do know the mindset in society that makes women who are raped think they should feel shame but it's wrong! Women who are assaulted deserve speedy justice and counselling.

wht type of justice u thnk 5or 7 yrs of prison thts it ??? is it enough for wht he did nd wht if after released from punishment he will continue wid his tactis thn??? nd its true thr r so many rapist who got punishment for there crime bt after releasing from punishment thn also continue wid thr inhuman activity...

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Well , this time i WON'T blame Anandi . She is showing the other side of the coin . Coz doing the case has to be only and only Saanchi's decision , not Ira's , not Shiv's nor Anandi's . If anybody judges this as cowardice , so be it . Only the person with whom this has happened must decide , thats it . Bcoz sometimes the pressure of the ordeal becomes so much that half way through the victim opts for suicide .

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Jan50

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

Why would Ira object? She was ready to file a case against Sunny and gang. ( dont kniw what happened with that).

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Nazneen

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Well , this time i WON'T blame Anandi . She is showing the other side of the coin . Coz doing the case has to be only and only Saanchi's decision , not Ira's , not Shiv's nor Anandi's . If anybody judges this as cowardice , so be it . Only the person with whom this has happened must decide , thats it . Bcoz sometimes the pressure of the ordeal becomes so much that half way through the victim opts for suicide .

Agreed. So Anandi (and indeed everyone else) should be questioning what Sanchi wants to do and what is best for her in this situation. Instead, Anandi is worrying about how Ira will feel about them taking a particular course of action. It's great that she's trying to consider Ira's feelings and all, but are they really the most important thing to be considering in this situation?

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Jan50

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Posted: 11 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Well , this time i WON'T blame Anandi . She is showing the other side of the coin . Coz doing the case has to be only and only Saanchi's decision , not Ira's , not Shiv's nor Anandi's . If anybody judges this as cowardice , so be it . Only the person with whom this has happened must decide , thats it . Bcoz sometimes the pressure of the ordeal becomes so much that half way through the victim opts for suicide .

Good pont. It is entirely upto Sanchi in this matter. Whether she wants to face what was to follow.she

Already has a little mental problem. She is in a very delicate state.

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Nazneen

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Posted: 11 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Jan50
Why would Ira object? She was ready to file a case against Sunny and gang. ( dont kniw what happened with that).

Lol, good point! CVs ki short-term memory 😆 She was also raring to go in terms of filing a case against Jagya for jilting Sanchi - surely some "badnaami" was experienced in the aftermath of that fiasco? So why so much fear now when they actually have a legitimate case on their hands? 😕 I don't mean to sound callous - of course such incidents are hard on the victim's entire family - but this smacks of character inconsistency.

Edited by SiriuslySujal - 11 years ago

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