Isn't Anandi equally to be blamed?

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Yup . She has handled it badly just as she sat on a lot of things in the Jagya Saanchi engagement phase . The best moment to tell all was when Ira mentioned that Saanchi went to a pajama party at Payal's house . She should have put Payal on speaker . And told Ira her findings . Neither does Mahi's responsibility nullify her goof up nor anything else ...she tackles everything on her OWN .

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Celet

@Celet

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Simple - if anandi had told Ira, Sanchi wouldnt get the permission to do a night out at Payal's house and they would watch over her. It is completely Anandi's fault. Also she stopped Shiv from going and tackling that guy before hand when he said I wont leave him capable of messing with any girl - why?? How could things get worse? She has acted irresponsibly here by trying to manage all herself. Just because she has gone and done some crazy things like scaring ratan singh which thank god, she got support at right time or she would have been dead today and just cause she said some big dialogues in front of that boy Sau and put one match box in the glass, she thinks no end of herself. Pure overconfidence. She has time and again taken risks that were not justified but fate helped her each time and she seems to count on it! Last time when she dint tell Ira about Shiv not being her son, Ira told her clearly that you could have proven you are my daughter by coming clean with me and here was that opportunity again but she has failed!

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Jan50

@Jan50

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Good post. But you just opened a new can of worms.😆. Already the board is brimming with

Very high emotion. People who dont fall in line with politically correct views have been rediculed.

Now you are touching a very sensitive chord.

Knowing Anandi, should you be surprised? . She loves to go solo in tackling any issue.

But i disagree with you on life after rape. Why should women ,that too a girl like Sanchi who has

Everything going for her be tarnished so much after rape that she can not not move on?

She needs a proper occupation. Right now she is doing nothing productive. As Tinoo mentioned

She needs to be gainfully employed. She is not the type to take up a hobby. Alok should involve her in his business.

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poorva

@poorvab

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#14

how can anandi be blamed for this.

what kindof parents are Ira and Alok who have absolutely no idea about their daughters life, her whereabouts, her medicines, her doctors visits, her friends etc

yes anandi got to know about it but does that mean at the smallest thing she gets to know she'll go and tell all others about it, anandi is a grown up woman is also a mother now, she felt she coulld handle the matter and she even shared it with Shiv.

i see nothing wrong here by anandi.

in fact whatver happened its blame cant be put on anyone.

yes sanchi did stupidity but she cant be blamed for being raped.

even her parents cant be blamed but yes they should have been more careful atleast about their daughter's behavior.

if her parents are so concerned now where were they when their daughter never visited the doctor. never took medicines etc. why they didnt keep a check.

in fact it was anandi who even bothered thinking about sanchi, noone else in the house gave a damn about sanchi's medical problem.

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Nandita / Tina

@5cents

Rocker

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

Whatever happened with Sanchi is shocking and distressing she sure didn't deserve it! But having said that I'll like to add ...she had it coming. The day she had invited him home for movie & popcorn that day only he had made his intentions clear ...if she could not judge him or did not get the hint or wanted to look past as she thought that he is her true love then that's why she got into this bigger mess. The Crocodile Hunter, Steve Irwin...did he have sting-ray attack coming I would say ...yes, he probably did...but did he deserve it...I certainly don't think he did! Similarly, Sanchi sure did not deserve it!

As far as Aji is concerned...Aji had warned adult Sanchi many times. My maid's kid in India were playing near a open manhole, she had told them several times not to go near that and they didn't listen fell in it and died😭

Did they deserve to die? Absolutely not!! Did they probably have that coming...yes, they most likely did.

In this only Saurabh has to be blamed. Sanchi sure did not deserve such a personally humiliating punishment but she is paying for her stupidity and irresponsibility...it is sad and difficult for her and for her family. She not only had this unfathomably horrible thing happen to her but it is documented too. For guys like Saurabh who willingly and knowingly and without pause or regret rape a girl should be hanged! This recording shd play catalyst in hanging him. For Sau it was about power...his bet with his friends goes to show it was about POWER not sex. 🤢

Edited by 5cents - 11 years ago

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ananhita

@ananhita

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Rape can never serve as a punishment to anybody however bad or mean that person is, having said that TM, I totally agree with your point that Anandi is very much to be blamed for Saanchis present condition. Anandi's great talk with Saurabh was as good as challenging and instigating Saurabh to take some drastic step...which he did...instead of going about this in a sensible manner by making sure that Saanchi was not getting out of the house alone and letting Shiv take charge and informing Ira, she took upon herself to solve this issue, knowing very well that Saanchi will not tolerate her interference in any way, now Anandi has landed herself in trouble, there will be too many fingers pointing at her as to why she chose to be quiet when she knew that Saurabh was in Kesarbagh in their absence...Anandi better have some good explanations ready or face the music...

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captkirk

@captkirk

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#17

Sanchi is responsible for her own actions, no one else.

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MaxMayfield

@MaxMayfield

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#18

For a moment lets imagine that Ira was informed - would that have stopped Sa from going out of the house?😕

most likely than not, Sa would have proclaimed that she loves that guy in front of everyone and gone against her entire family and back answered everyone...plus keeping her locked in the house is not the best option to deal with Sa - she was very much capable of staging suicide again...

if Shiv had taken charge - Sa did not even care or respect him after he was revealed to be not her real brother...she would have spoken to him in the exact same manner as she did with A...to not interfere in her life.,...if A warned Sau for this...then how much different would the situation be if S had warned him...Sau always knew that Sa's bro is a collector - it never had an effect on him??

whether it was A or in her place Ira/ Shiv - there wouldnt have been much of a paradigm shift in what finally did happen IMO

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Awfulggt

@Awfulggt

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#19

No it wasn't anandi's fault. She didn't rape Sanchi

haven't been following much of this serial...so just a doubt if anyone cares to answer. Didn't Shiv know all this? From what I read here, it looked like anandi shared everything with Shiv. So of Shiv knew all this, then he should've taken care of all this...he should have informed his Mom, dad and all...no?