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Posted: 11 years ago
GM everyone
At khatam nehi karna before 9th , dheere dheere chalo.

Shiv is at peace now knowing that he is Shekhar😊

Ira has gone mad as she thinks herself aaya now🤢

Now Shivjee will be instrumental for adoption has he has realised the pain atleast for 2-3 days and he will be the person who will love Anuja most.

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Hiral whose fan club you are joining
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: hisusmita

GM everyone

At khatam nehi karna before 9th , dheere dheere chalo.

Shiv is at peace now knowing that he is Shekhar😊

Ira has gone mad as she thinks herself aaya now🤢

Now Shivjee will be instrumental for adoption has he has realised the pain atleast for 2-3 days and he will be the person who will love Anuja most.

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Hiral whose fan club you are joining


Sus i am still not over Ira's aaya dialogue . How can she even think of this term after loving and taking care of a child as her own for 30 year? Is motherhood all about giving birth?

My heart goes out to Shiv when he heard it direct from the horse's( his mother's ) mouth. He was looking sooo much bechara at that time, he became orphan in the true sense right now. The woman he considered his mother till now has abandoned him and the woman who is actually his mother can not own him due to fear of hurting the other one. Sid gave perfect expressions y/day.
Edited by anshurg5 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
For some love is all about caring and giving oneself up for the sake of the happiness of their loved ones.
And there are some for whom love is all about possessing that person use that person for pleasure and manipulate those people for their own pleasure - which is shallow and melts away fast.

The loved one may be spouse parent,child sibling or even a friend.

Ira's concept of love is very obvious it is all about possession and deriving pleasure from them and not about giving and caring.

She has been possessive about Shiv but did she care about him?Had she truly loved him she would not have had fear of losing him.

Is it so surprising that she reacted this way to the revelation?According to her she did not own him because she did not give birth to him.She cared for him because she thought she gave birth to him and has rights over him.
For her it is all about rights and possession so what she said in the precap is expected.

Situation she finds herself may be unfortunate but the reactions to those situations very much tell about the kind of person she is and this is how a person like her would react.
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Will Shiv tell Anandi what he over heard?Will Anandi tell Shiv what she saw?

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: aparnauma

For some love is all about caring and giving oneself up for the sake of the happiness of their loved ones.

And there are some for whom love is all about possessing that person use that person for pleasure and manipulate those people for their own pleasure - which is shallow and melts away fast.

The loved one may be spouse parent,child sibling or even a friend.

Ira's concept of love is very obvious it is all about possession and deriving pleasure from them and not about giving and caring.

She has been possessive about Shiv but did she care about him?Had she truly loved him she would not have had fear of losing him.

Is it so surprising that she reacted this way to the revelation?According to her she did not own him because she did not give birth to him.She cared for him because she thought she gave birth to him and has rights over him.
For her it is all about rights and possession so what she said in the precap is expected.

Situation she finds herself may be unfortunate but the reactions to those situations very much tell about the kind of person she is and this is how a person like her would react.
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Will Shiv tell Anandi what he over heard?Will Anandi tell Shiv what she saw?


Gm GAls
@bold Appy i think s has per the promo
shiv standing near window and A comes to him

may be shiv will tell Anandi what he heard
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: blushing

For what u wrote and for red

BUT Aditi n Appy

WE propose (red) CVs dispose 😡😡😡

Edited by Chahanya - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: aparnauma

For some love is all about caring and giving oneself up for the sake of the happiness of their loved ones.

And there are some for whom love is all about possessing that person use that person for pleasure and manipulate those people for their own pleasure - which is shallow and melts away fast.

The loved one may be spouse parent,child sibling or even a friend.

Ira's concept of love is very obvious it is all about possession and deriving pleasure from them and not about giving and caring.

She has been possessive about Shiv but did she care about him?Had she truly loved him she would not have had fear of losing him.

Is it so surprising that she reacted this way to the revelation?According to her she did not own him because she did not give birth to him.She cared for him because she thought she gave birth to him and has rights over him.
For her it is all about rights and possession so what she said in the precap is expected.

Situation she finds herself may be unfortunate but the reactions to those situations very much tell about the kind of person she is and this is how a person like her would react.
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Will Shiv tell Anandi what he over heard?Will Anandi tell Shiv what she saw?

@ bold - Very True ...Aparna...
Meenu truly loved Ira...though her action is catalysed out of guilt, she never regretted her decision afterwards, b'coz of her love for the sister she saw in Ira.
Anandi, at one point of time, truly loved J...so, she gave up all of herself, to see him happy.
Shiv truly Loves his mothers...he cannot see sorrow in their eyes, either the one who was Mom to him now, or the one who called CM till now, but still is his Mom...
Ira - That's not True Love...but just love out of possessiveness...
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I feel., Shiv will share with Anandi and Anandi too will tell him...
AnSh as a unit only can work out this jigsaw, so, they have to be transparant with each other...
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: adi2512

@ bold - Can't agree with You more...😳🤗😆
@ bold red - Haina...Aditi, doesnot agree with me... 😔😆


Uma 🤗 Well 😆 😆


Anyways...will not spam / eat AT 🤣...Khushi will kill me 😉
Edited by blushing - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
Wassuppp
Done...so done with day and night work madness...😛 finally some time today to chat...phew!!
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My thots...S does love both his mothers equally, and I really liked S yesterday, but there is a part of it with has left me a little - his reaction and his bliss of discovering that he is still a Shekhar - I m quite doubtful what his reaction would be 'if' he was truely an outsider - would he have cared about Shekhars then?? There is some element of pride there - that he still is a part of a 'so-called' affluent family...and mayb if he would have been, lets say, an illegitimate child or a gareeb parents ka beta, or a criminal's son - he would have looked down on himself and would have mayb not considered Shekhars as his family - my problem is with that thought process of S coz somewhere, he is happy that his parents are do-gooders and Shekhars and he is not someone 'who was thrown in a garbage can' - why does it matter it to him so much that he is a Shekhar? why does it matter to him that he was not abandoned? mayb his reaction on discovering his true identity is a natural reaction - mayb if I was in his place, I would have reacted the same way...
But this also means that S, in his mind, is not ready for adoption - because for him orphaned kids are laachaar, bebas and are differentiated from the ones born in a family
As a father, would he stay neutral? that is my biggest worry, if at all Ansh adopt a kid before their own child😕
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Mayb just mayb, this track, is to change the above mindset of S - that no matter whose child he is, he still cares for the parents who nurtured him and grew him up...
inspite of being a Shekhar, and inspite of loving Ira, she still is going to shun him, for no fault of his own - so mayb he can take a cue and love the adopted child as his own, becoz blood doesnt matter, bond does😊
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I so couldnt care less about Pasha's story🥱 really where does he fit in??🥱
Id rather, Anoop never came back from dead...coz once he comes back in KB - what role will he play??😕 apart from recovering from war trauma and getting united with his son - later on, he too will be a part of pakoda gang
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Sush - whose fan club?😛
Hint - "Mirror mirror on the wall"😉😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Hiral_Halwa

Wassuppp

Done...so done with day and night work madness...😛 finally some time today to chat...phew!!
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My thots...S does love both his mothers equally, and I really liked S yesterday, but there is a part of it with has left me a little - his reaction and his bliss of discovering that he is still a Shekhar - I m quite doubtful what his reaction would be 'if' he was truely an outsider - would he have cared about Shekhars then?? There is some element of pride there - that he still is a part of a 'so-called' affluent family...and mayb if he would have been, lets say, an illegitimate child or a gareeb parents ka beta, or a criminal's son - he would have looked down on himself and would have mayb not considered Shekhars as his family - my problem is with that thought process of S coz somewhere, he is happy that his parents are do-gooders and Shekhars and he is not someone 'who was thrown in a garbage can' - why does it matter it to him so much that he is a Shekhar? why does it matter to him that he was not abandoned? mayb his reaction on discovering his true identity is a natural reaction - mayb if I was in his place, I would have reacted the same way...
But this also means that S, in his mind, is not ready for adoption - because for him orphaned kids are laachaar, bebas and are differentiated from the ones born in a family
As a father, would he stay neutral? that is my biggest worry, if at all Ansh adopt a kid before their own child😕
++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Mayb just mayb, this track, is to change the above mindset of S - that no matter whose child he is, he still cares for the parents who nurtured him and grew him up...
inspite of being a Shekhar, and inspite of loving Ira, she still is going to shun him, for no fault of his own - so mayb he can take a cue and love the adopted child as his own, becoz blood doesnt matter, bond does😊
++++++++++++++++++
I so couldnt care less about Pasha's story🥱 really where does he fit in??🥱
Id rather, Anoop never came back from dead...coz once he comes back in KB - what role will he play??😕 apart from recovering from war trauma and getting united with his son - later on, he too will be a part of pakoda gang
++++++++++++++++++++++++
Sush - whose fan club?😛
Hint - "Mirror mirror on the wall"😉😆

Hiral...
@bold - exactly my thoughts...
I got so disappointed with that dustbin dialogue itself...
a/ways...😳
Bringing Anoop back from dead - Yes...is it really necessary...?.😕
Let's see...CV's ki mahima...
@ bold - can be...😊
But I think ,Blood Vs Bond - they would have driven this point home, him being an outsider too...😕
I feel., this is just to highlight the meanness of SaIra...😆

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