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Posted: 11 years ago

#151

Originally posted by: adi2512

Aparna..

am' not justifying Meenu's action...but the thing is she has not abondoned her baby but sacrifised out of her own guilt.

You know Uma --the beauty of the whole thing in CM's sacrifice - she did not consider it as a sacrifice, I mean qualify her action as sacrifice. If she wanted not to part with her baby, nothing on earth would have stopped her..and I do not think guilt made her hand over the baby jmo.. If she was motivated to handover the baby because of guilt, the last scene would be meaningless where meenu is looking at Ira- and momentarily forgets her pain - that scene was the highlight..

do not why I am very moved by today's episode --it brought in so many emotions, how different people deal with crisis..

Methinks bechara is going to get a thappad from CM - if he starts ignoring Alok and Ira

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anshurg5

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Posted: 11 years ago

#152

Originally posted by: dixie123

Those are done when the babies lives are in danger or something when mothers go the extreme step of committing crimes, if that it what you are saying.. It has nothing to do with the feelings of the baby..

Motherhood makes mothers protect their children at any cost not fearing their own life. Here, the baby is not in any danger. The baby is giving life to a woman who is on the verge of dying if she got to know that her baby didn't make it..

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For Meenu, it is not some other woman. Meenu and Ira have shown to have a sisterly bond.

Suppose Meenu had been refused Alok's suggestion and something happened to Ira,

Then could Meenu have lead a normal life or could have given her child carefree love of a mother or could have basked in the glory of having a healthy child herself.

She would always be guilt ridden, specially whenever she had seen Alok alone or

herself trying to enjoy her childs smiles.

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So she did what she thought was right for all. Her baby was going to her sister, was giving new life to her , and could still be remain in front of her eyes.More importantly no harm was going to come his way by going to Ira.

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Hope now A will comfort Shee .

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aparnauma

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Posted: 11 years ago

#153

Originally posted by: dixie123

Those are done when the babies lives are in danger or something when mothers go the extreme step of committing crimes, if that it what you are saying.. It has nothing to do with the feelings of the baby..

Motherhood makes mothers protect their children at any cost not fearing their own life. Here, the baby is not in any danger. The baby is giving life to a woman who is on the verge of dying if she got to know that her baby didn't make it..

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For Meenu, it is not some other woman. Meenu and Ira have shown to have a sisterly bond.

Nivi - Alok's grief and helplessness and fear are very real just as well Meenu's guilt.

Alok's fear to a large extent understandable and if he had gone around trying to find a baby for his wife and then came to Meenu it would have been acceptable.

Meenu's guilt feelings are not big enough to hand over the baby to Ira and give up rights on her baby.

There are two things their feelings and emotions and their actions.

Emotions we can connect to but their actions cannot find justification no matter what.

You may all think I am being harsh but what is wrong is wrong both Alok and Meenu are wrong.

Tomrrow if Anandi tells them that they are wrong in what they did I fully support her and if Shiv finds them and their actions I will support him.

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Khusi

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Posted: 11 years ago

#154

put some content abt ansh

not to forget

its ansh AT

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Sweta

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Posted: 11 years ago

#155

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You know Uma --the beauty of the whole thing in CM's sacrifice - she did not consider it as a sacrifice, I mean qualify her action as sacrifice. If she wanted not to part with her baby, nothing on earth would have stopped her..and I do not think guilt made her hand over the baby jmo.. If she was motivated to handover the baby because of guilt, the last scene would be meaningless where meenu is looking at Ira- and momentarily forgets her pain - that scene was the highlight..

do not why I am very moved by today's episode --it brought in so many emotions, how different people deal with crisis..

Methinks bechara is going to get a thappad from CM - if he starts ignoring Alok and Ira

that was the best part of episode today
ek aur thappad ...pehla wala hi bohut zordaar tha...😆
shiv would never do it...either he will ignore everyone or accept everyone 😛...he wont be partial in this case.

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Uma

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Posted: 11 years ago

#156

Originally posted by: umam

Aparna..

am' not justifying Meenu's action...but the thing is she has not abondoned her baby but sacrifised out of her own guilt.

You know Uma --the beauty of the whole thing in CM's sacrifice - she did not consider it as a sacrifice, I mean qualify her action as sacrifice. If she wanted not to part with her baby, nothing on earth would have stopped her..and I do not think guilt made her hand over the baby jmo.. If she was motivated to handover the baby because of guilt, the last scene would be meaningless where meenu is looking at Ira- and momentarily forgets her pain - that scene was the highlight..

do not why I am very moved by today's episode --it brought in so many emotions, how different people deal with crisis..

Methinks bechara is going to get a thappad from CM - if he starts ignoring Alok and Ira

Gowri...

She has taken the decision out of guilt.

She stood by her decision, seeing happiness on Ira's face and satisfaction that her baby is in good hands.

She had never regretted after that.

That's the strength of Meenu.

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Sweta

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Posted: 11 years ago

#157

Originally posted by: aparnauma
Nivi - Alok's grief and helplessness and fear are very real just as well Meenu's guilt.
Alok's fear to a large extent understandable and if he had gone around trying to find a baby for his wife and then came to Meenu it would have been acceptable.
Meenu's guilt feelings are not big enough to hand over the baby to Ira and give up rights on her baby.
There are two things their feelings and emotions and their actions.
Emotions we can connect to but their actions cannot find justification no matter what.

You may all think I am being harsh but what is wrong is wrong both Alok and Meenu are wrong.

Tomrrow if Anandi tells them that they are wrong in what they did I fully support her and if Shiv finds them and their actions I will support him.

what if anandi says they are right 😛 which am sure she will say.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 11 years ago

#158

Any ways while I can understand what they went through what they have done is NOT RIGHT.