Gauri went psycho because she couldn't tolerate Jagya thinking about Anandi or Jagya or Anandi calling each other or even arranging financial help for them.
Jagya tried earlier to stop AnSh alliance. His memories and traumatic experience of break up prevented Anandi from being comfortable with Shiv for some time after marriage.
Jagya visiting Udaipur and Anandi visiting Jetsar - their interactions led to this Sanchi drama.
After this case and all ends, shouldn't Jagya and Anandi completely cut off from each other and keep only bare minimum ties (exchanging hi-hello if any meeting occurs or meeting only in case of DIRE emergency)?
I think their interactions and interactions of families they belong to, somehow always cause some awkwardness or problem for them.
This DS or Sumitra talking to either Anandi on issues related to Jagya's life or taking Anandi's name in front of Jagya to influence him or drive a point - MUST stop!
Same way, why do people who want to influence or "reach out" to Jagya always use Anandi as a medium? Either asking her to talk to him or asking her to coach them or guide them on how to reach out to him?!
(Be it Ganga or Sanchi asking Anandi about Jagya or Shiv asking her to talk to him to make up for their blunder and convince him to give Sanchi a chance etc. - it's all so weird!)
I think both Jagya and Anandi themselves need to put their foot down, refuse or point out people when they drag each other's names in any matter and for God's sake even if they do have knowledge about each other there is NO need to express it!
When both are yet to establish their new lives (Anandi had begun to establish herself in new family after remarriage and Jagya had begun to start afresh, is now remarried recently), I think they need to CUT OFF till the time they have comfortably started and moved on with their new lives.