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Posted: 12 years ago
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For a broad minded collector saab who married a divorcee !
Why have CV's spoilt this character!!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Firstly very nice post. I agree with you.

I think what CVs are showing is reality. However mature the person., in this world 99 % people only speak mature words to impress others.

To maintain their image in society they act so refined to win hearts. The real testing happen when a person him/her goes through the tough situations like these and how and what they behave towards others is when the reality of the persons character is tested.

Shiv is also no exception i think. He simply in past episodes is just listening all the crap her mom is speaking towards Anandi.

How sick 🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: naina2010

Firstly very nice post. I agree with you.

I think what CVs are showing is reality. However mature the person., in this world 99 % people only speak mature words to impress others.

To maintain their image in society they act so refined to win hearts. The real testing happen when a person him/her goes through the tough situations like these and how and what they behave towards others is when the reality of the persons character is tested.

Shiv is also no exception i think. He simply in past episodes is just listening all the crap her mom is speaking towards Anandi.

How sick 🤢

Do u think shv till now only told words to impress but never acted on them. It's ather other way around. He actually talks less and does stuff. You just cannot ignore how any times he helped singhs and anandi till now. Every Eason has weaknesses and shiv is no exception. He himself is hurt a lot in his incident as his trust on someone is broken. Sometimes it's better to keep shut in the storm than increase the anger in the situation.
Edited by Sheetsden - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am also very disappointed with Shiv character these days..
whatever difference you hv with your spouse it is between you and her, but you should not let anyone else to insult your spouse.


Ira is being unreasonable towards Anandi and insulting her , still shiv is silent.. which is disgrace..




Edited by uknaik99 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shiv is silent bcoz he is not sure about Anandi's true feelings on all that has happened. He has always been open to her and listened to her - but he can't hear anything when she just won't speak.
From where he stands - his sister is heart broken, she had declared in the beginning that she was in love with Jagya and she showed that she was willing to change a lot of stuff about herself to mold into his family. Shiv himself - had asked Jagya b4 his engagement whether he had any doubts and was reassured BY JAGYA HIMSELF.

So then - imagine the rude shock he got when he sees Jagya walk in and announce its off - for no reason other than - general incompatibility and when they goto his his village to explain n apologise abt her seemingly ill-advised friend-boast - he finds Jagya MARRYING another girl and claiming he has ALWAYS loved her ???!!!

Any person in Shiv's situation wud get super mad. And then - when he is thinking about suing - his own wife - comes there and vehemently opposes his decision ? Tell me then - why will he not think his wife knows a lot more stuff about this and has not bothered to share ?

Specially now - when his sister in her extreme grief has stupidly cut her wrist - and his entire family is shocked and worried and hurt. His wife stands about serving nashta and chai and shedding copious tears but still won't share "aisi kai baatein" that she claims she knows ?

If she had doubts, if she had fears about the relationship, if she really cared about Sanchi as a younger sister - shud she not have shared her confusion with others ? If not others - atleast with Shiv ?
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Shiv has seen how much time Anandi took to release herself from Jagya's memories and allow proximity to Shiv. And Jagya's amnesia and deliberate drama to come close to Anandi. And still anandi SEEMS to be defending Jagya - why will it not enrage him and distrust Anandi ?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Cvs started butchering shiv character.
I don't want to see him always Mahaan.
At least he should have supported anandi when his mother humilitates so many times for no reasons.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nitha

Cvs started butchering shiv character.

I don't want to see him always Mahaan.
At least he should have supported anandi when his mother humilitates so many times for no reasons.


but you see - he can see how hurt his mother is and that when a person is hurting - they can seem unreasonable.

He feels he can't trust Anandi himself and is hurting too. He feels despite J causing his sister so much pain - Anandi still has more sympathy and feelings for J and the Singhs than Sanchi and his own family. He is feeling betrayed. Hence he can't support her. Now - unless Anandi can win back his trust - it will be hard for him to feel for her.

Someone cries one time - you can be supportive. Someone cries ALL the time - you can get tired of lending your hanky.

Shiv is also human. His baby sister is heart broken and his wife claims - Sanchi has not been totally 'imaandaar' and won't tell him the supposed 'aisi kayi baaatein' that support her theory about his own sister being a fraud and about Jagya being not wrong even though he broke his engagement 1 week b4 the wedding and married another inside 3 days.

If indeed - all was not hunky-dory in Sanchi land, Shiv expected his wife would have mentioned it and alerted him to possible disaster.

Anandi gets dreams and omens about Singhs and bad things about to happen in Haveli - but feels nothing of the sort for his own ? This is his family going crazy and Anandi is laying the blame not at Jagya's but at Sanchi's doorstep - without sufficient proof.
Edited by hooked - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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shiv himself has hidden DS role in UD episode saying that he will tell at the right time. Means will not tell.😆

Shiv anandi's rishta itself based on weak foundation of lies.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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The point is Shiv hid DS's guilt from his family. Whereas here Anandi hid even from Shiv !!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't believe they are butchering his character.
He is upset with all that has happened in his sister's life.

He knew that his sister is a spoilt brat and is very immature and selfish.

Then she fell for someone who was considered to be totally unsuitable for her.He tried to explaining to her that the man is not suitable for her.

So despite having doubts about the viability of the relationship he reconciled himself and accepted that relationship because despite knowing all the past about the man her sister wanted to marry he believed him to be a changed man.He thought the man will bring some stability in his sister's life when he saw his sister trying to change her self to fit into the man's life.

He had doubts when the man in question disappeared at the time of engagement so he asked the man whether he is sure of what he is doing and whether he is happy with his sister or not.When the man assured him he knew what he was doing he believed the man.

Then all of sudden just a few days before the wedding his sister's fiance walks into his home and calls off the marriage citing incompatibility as the reason.He did not see that as a reson to call off the wedding because he has seen his sister changing.
And he brought out the man's past because this is how he broke off with his first wife saying their lives have become too different.

When he got to know that his sister's views on her fiance's family was the reason why the wedding was called off he wanted to go and meet her fiance's family and apologise on her behalf and ask him to reconsider the decision.

But he was met with a sight where his sister's fiance married a girl who he has fallen in love with and declared her love for ehr.He even said that he never loved his fiance.It was a good enough reason for him to believe that Jagya has broken off with his sister just because he was in love with another woman.In his mind Jagya has handled the issue exactly the same way he handled Anandi and Gauri issue.He was angry at Jagya at that time for the way he hurt Anandi and now he is angry with Jagya for what he believes he has done to his sister.

Once they came back his mother did not make things easy for him either.She blames Anandi for all this mess.

Anandi finally told what she knew and believed about Sanchi and he was angry with her for telling this so late.Because he thinks if she had told all this before they could have broken off the alliance much before and saved themselves from being humilated and also believes that Sanchi's madness would not have reached to this level if the rishta is broken off before.


He is right in his POV.
He was angry with Jagya for the way he has hurt Anandi and now he is angry because he believes Jagya hurt his sister just like the way he hurt Anandi.So there is definitely no butchering of his character there.He is still the same man.

But yes he is totally blind to his sister's shortcomings and he has been this way right from the begining not just now.If he has any flaw then it is this inability to see his sister in her true colours.

Him being angry with his wife is quite understandable because she delayed in telling him things and if he feels upset that she is supporting Jagya that's also understandable because he is feeling betrayed by her.

But him accusing his wife of wanting to watch tamasha is not acceptable and keeping quite when his mother hurls accusations one after the other at his wife is unacceptable.
Edited by aparnauma - 12 years ago

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