BREAKUPS..... - Page 2

I think you are unfairly linking the present situation with his past relationships. I really don't think there is room for comparison. Also, Sanchi and Jagya didn't really have a relationship because it was never established. Yes they were engaged but that's about it! And the circumstances this time round are completely different. It's not fair to lynch Jagya time and time again over the same thing.

It seems as though you are doubting Jagya's intentions for breaking off the engagement. But this time, the guy has fallen victim to family pressure and circumstance. It's about time we started to cut him some slack.

@TM

I kind of agree with you. The way CVs have handled Jagya, it's hard to know whether he was right or wrong even in his redemption!

Breaking up by phone or letter was indeed foolish. It's to Anandi's credit that he did not get into trouble and she did not drag him to court. His marriage with Gauri also suffered because he didn't take divorce from Anandi and didn't legalise marriage with Gauri which increased insecurities and rift between them.

Now also he has not checked any law at all, so to just avoud future problems.

In Sanchi's case, he should have not agreed earlier in first place. He obeys and disobeys family at wrong time since childhood. He should have explained to family why he did what he did. He didn't even explain to his own family. Still he hasn't tried to explain Singhs and has entered with Ganga, hoping for acceptance.

At least tell your own family why you did what you did!

In this Sanchi fiasco I think he should never have interacted with her, never gone to Udaipur and he should have asked Anandi to not to bring Sanchi with her whenever she came to stay at Jaitser. Or he should have taken some excuse of business trips etc. when Sanchi would come.

This hospital showdown and marriage to Ganga was not planned. Who knew Shekhars will come there? But his handling of the matter both before and after the storm was not right.

What's this "one day they'll realise I was right"? It is his duty (to himself, Ganga and his family) to expose the truth.

He is reckless. Even when doing the right thing!

I think his family is also responsible for him being the way he is. What was the need to keep allowing him to interact with Ganga? Or keep praising Ganga? Or visit her themselves (stealthily)? That too when they were committed to bringing a new bahu in family?

And why were they silent even amongst themselves if they thought Sanchi was not that suitable for Jagya and their family?

Haven't they observed Jagya's past? Didn't his lack of contact and lack of show of emotion towards Sanchi and his going to Mangalore frequently, tell them about his state of mind?

Anyway, Jagya has never been proper when he broke up. Never told details of why he did what he did. What egged him etc. Just said, "I don't love you" or "You're not right for me" and trailed off. If he had given explanations at any incident to his family or girl's family then things wouldn't be so bad. You can't talk to girl's family. But at least talk to yours.

If he still doesn't tell his family the entire detail of what happened between him and Sanchi all these months and what happened with Ganga (especially now at Mangalore) which made him take this step so urgently, then what to say? He's not being a martyr. He's only being foolish and getting unnecessary brickbats.

With his ways, it is very hard to really justify him.

@ TM - agree with your analysis.

Jagya didn't jumped for chanchi 😡 and after breaking Stupid chanchi's rishtaa only he married Ganga so it doesn't mean like jumping for her 🤢

Originally posted by: Deb07

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you are right...
jagyas break up with anandi and gauri...was wrong indeed...
but with sanchi...ok...
she deserve much more...
he is changed...
if not his break up with sachi would be more worse...lol...

Originally posted by: Chytra

I believe people will change and was happy when jagya changed for good and started caring for others feelings as well. But his sudden marriage is jolt for me and i started thinking again if he really changed as fresh leaf.
He said he changed and the amnesia drama and messing shiv's name, trying to break there marriage. I hated that part of him. Treated anandi like some toy when we don't want throw away and when he want it only he has it.
I dont want to list all his previous bad deeds. I kind of started having a soft corner for jagyas character when he reached out and helped ganga.
What bothers me now is what is jagya's issue when it comes to giving a relationship proper closure before jumping into another?

👎🏼 First he did not end his relationship with Anandi properly. A phone call break up for a marriage??? If he has spine enough to get into a living relationship with gauri while his wife is waiting then he should have faced her and tell her. end it and then marry anyone he wants. But he choose to do PHONE BREAKUP.

👎🏼 Second he went on with his relationship with gauri for 6-7 years. Slapped her across the face as if he did no mistake and left her off for months together to run after his divorced wife. Then when a third person made him realize he wronged gauri too then he went to apologise. And because she didnt want to meet him he gave up in a day and choose to do LETTER BREAKUP

Third, he heard saachi badmouth his family. Didnt even spoke to her once but went her home and did break him engagement. He loved someone else and engaged someone else. Even when he realized that he choose to leave it . Its like as if he is engaged to shekar family but not sachi that he didnpot choose to tell it on her face but her family. FACEOFF BREAKUP.

All in this while, I liked that character when he was helping his patients, living with his family and helping everyone. But i dont like his marriage after a day after breaking his engagement. He didnt even give his family or anyone a chance to cope. And also jumping from one woman to another I HATE IT.
Anandi >> Gauri>>Anandi>>Saachi>>Ganga.
Gauri is not doodh ke dhuli and so is saachi but that dosent give a free pass for jagya doing this to a woman. he didnt clear airs for gauri and i am sure he will pay a big fine for that someday.

DONT GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT GIVING YOUR PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP A PROPER CLOSURE. EVEN IF THE OTHER IS AT MISTAKE A RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BREAK FACE TO FACE NOT PHONE,LETTER, THIRD PARTY.

Friends, i just let out what i felt. I didnt talk about any actor here but a character. BV has some of the best actors of TV like surekahji, shashank, siddharath,pratyusha,anup soni...

@TM very apt post!!!

Jagya is not like AnSH nowadays he is more better than pathetic ansh :/

Originally posted by: santhiyaa_J

Jagya didn't jumped for chanchi 😡 and after breaking Stupid chanchi's rishtaa only he married Ganga so it doesn't mean like jumping for her 🤢

and a note for Ga00ri FANS!!!

How much you request to colors TV for Ga0ri they will ignore it therefore Gaw0ri won't come😆

Hi,

If you are mistaken me as gauri fan please let me clear that i am the one who named her gawari. I am analysing a perspective of a fictional character trait and nothing more than it. I always present this type of posts on several characters in this soap as well.

Its not a request nor anything else. When a open end is left , it is a possibility that can happen.