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Posted: 12 years ago
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I believe people will change and was happy when jagya changed for good and started caring for others feelings as well. But his sudden marriage is jolt for me and i started thinking again if he really changed as fresh leaf.
He said he changed and the amnesia drama and messing shiv's name, trying to break there marriage. I hated that part of him. Treated anandi like some toy when we don't want throw away and when he want it only he has it.
I dont want to list all his previous bad deeds. I kind of started having a soft corner for jagyas character when he reached out and helped ganga.
What bothers me now is what is jagya's issue when it comes to giving a relationship proper closure before jumping into another?

👎🏼 First he did not end his relationship with Anandi properly. A phone call break up for a marriage??? If he has spine enough to get into a living relationship with gauri while his wife is waiting then he should have faced her and tell her. end it and then marry anyone he wants. But he choose to do PHONE BREAKUP.

👎🏼 Second he went on with his relationship with gauri for 6-7 years. Slapped her across the face as if he did no mistake and left her off for months together to run after his divorced wife. Then when a third person made him realize he wronged gauri too then he went to apologise. And because she didnt want to meet him he gave up in a day and choose to do LETTER BREAKUP

Third, he heard saachi badmouth his family. Didnt even spoke to her once but went her home and did break him engagement. He loved someone else and engaged someone else. Even when he realized that he choose to leave it . Its like as if he is engaged to shekar family but not sachi that he didnpot choose to tell it on her face but her family. FACEOFF BREAKUP.

All in this while, I liked that character when he was helping his patients, living with his family and helping everyone. But i dont like his marriage after a day after breaking his engagement. He didnt even give his family or anyone a chance to cope. And also jumping from one woman to another I HATE IT.
Anandi >> Gauri>>Anandi>>Saachi>>Ganga.
Gauri is not doodh ke dhuli and so is saachi but that dosent give a free pass for jagya doing this to a woman. he didnt clear airs for gauri and i am sure he will pay a big fine for that someday.

DONT GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT GIVING YOUR PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP A PROPER CLOSURE. EVEN IF THE OTHER IS AT MISTAKE A RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BREAK FACE TO FACE NOT PHONE,LETTER, THIRD PARTY.

Friends, i just let out what i felt. I didnt talk about any actor here but a character. BV has some of the best actors of TV like surekahji, shashank, siddharath,pratyusha,anup soni...


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sanchi ke saath relationship is like arranged marriage situation. So family ko batana is enough in my opinion. Other breaks were not right.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sunna_Deewani

Sanchi ke saath relationship is like arranged marriage situation. So family ko batana is enough in my opinion. Other breaks were not right.


Yes it is a arranged marraige but he promised to saachi that he will marry and asserted her of rights on him with a ring he wore her during engagement. It is his duty , that he first talks with the woman he is going to marry/married not the family. When it comes to wife-husband relationships its always 1+1. I think its important he talks with saachi first. saachi s no good but using that as a free pass is not good as well.
Anyways i welcome your different opinion as well. I kind of feel pulled towards this opinion too as saachi is way over my head. But i am calling a spade a spade.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Why mentioning the actors in the first place ?do you think those who support a character only do that for actor ?so in any case you are praising an actor i don't understand the purpose of pushing it in this post Sorry but it felt out of context Rest i humbly disagree with you apart from Anandi one's That he did wrong Should not have broke up on phone rest i don;t agree and if you think he is wrong so be it i don't think so He pays big fine or emerge successful Time will tell Who suffers and who wins
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chytra



Third, he heard saachi badmouth his family. Didnt even spoke to her once but went her home and did break him engagement. He loved someone else and engaged someone else. Even when he realized that he choose to leave it . Its like as if he is engaged to shekar family but not sachi that he didnpot choose to tell it on her face but her family. FACEOFF BREAKUP.



When he engaged he was not in love with someone else.

Also, he went to Shekar family fully expecting to face Sanchi and her family. Sanchi was not in home. He deliberately did not avoid her. Moreover, it was Shekhar family who brought rishta to Jagya, not Sanchi. In fact, in arrange marriages talks happen only through family.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sidra08

Why mentioning the actors in the first place ?do you think those who support a character only do that for actor ?so in any case you are praising an actor i don't understand the purpose of pushing it in this post Sorry but it felt out of context Rest i humbly disagree with you apart from Anandi one's That he did wrong Should not have broke up on phone rest i don;t agree and if you think he is wrong so be it i don't think so He pays big fine or emerge successful Time will tell Who suffers and who wins



I am writing this whole post about my dislike of certain characteristics of a character and i want to re-instantiate that that has nothing to do with the actors. If you feel it is out of context that's your opinion but i felt it is necescarry to let people know i am not in bashing mode. Ur opinion is welcome as well, iam not here to rub it in on anyone. i told mine and you told urs.

The kind of revenge gauri has, it is one point that she might return to ruin his life. It dosent mean i want that to happen.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jagya is not like Anandi going back of ex-sasural and putting her nose in ex-husband's life 🤢 and i disagree with you😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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This engagement with Nchi was the mst despicable. Later Ira was more like a broker
Arranging intimacy bet Jagia and Sanchi when she knew J does not love her. This looks more vulgar
To me thanbreaking up engagement. Engagement breaking up happens many times. Sanchi
Smelt it and hat is why she rushed for the marriage. I dont find anything wrong in what Jagia did except may be making Ganga a sitting duck for insults.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Please be aware that talking in personal tone and trying to criticize member for her/his views is violation of rules. If you do not agree with the TM, you can mention the reasons in a discussion mode but not on a assertive personal mode.
In the open forum every one has right for views.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree about Anandi and Gauri but not Saanchi...some because of my hatred for this unreasonable creep character and some is because Saanchi herself did the same...she loves Jagya and wants to marry her...i get that part but she told the whole world about this except Jagya...when Shekhars decided to talk about rishta to Jagya shouldn't Saanchi herself stopped them and told them that she would first personally tell all this and then think forward...seriously she is so childish she thought nothing could be better that to express or rather force my feelings on Jagya on his b'day and give the marriage proposal free with it...was it some surprise game?...such matters should be handled privately and maturely rather than terrorizing the person you love by giving him/her shocks like this

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