Shekhars - shamelessly conceited! - Page 3

Same Jayga saved her from 4 goons raping her & jagya spoiled her life now that's epic :P

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Message that woman need not depend on maika and sasural for her living and be helpless to follow their atrocious decisions forcefully if she does not agree .

i agree with the message @kools...but these are decisions taken in anger...& anandi is sensible to understand that...she will never take any such drastic step !

Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky

i agree with the message @kools...but these are decisions taken in anger...& anandi is sensible to understand that...she will never take any such drastic step !

Shiv and family are big nonsense people, I can not believe this.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Well , i hope she does . Saanchi's vicious push has angered me . Shiv did not stand up for her like Jagya did for Ganga . It was this vicious piece that they were palming off on another family . They witnessed the tod phod ...they witnessed her vicious anger today to Ganga and Anandi both yet they want some family to be grateful to get her .

What a laugh .

What Anandi should realise that sometimes no one stands for u , not even husband . Ur on ur own . Time for her to dump the snobs and time for Shiv to realize the jerk he became in his 'normal' sister prem .

Red :Most of the times ...no one stands for us ...Anandi left alone ...amidst those ill mannered people !!Manhandled by Sanchi...neglected by Shiv ...threatened by Ira...what is this ???Is it not social injustice ??We want answers !

Originally posted by: Wonderphool

seriously guys,

If this is how he was going to behave, he need not have become a collector and all that hype about him being able to judge a person perfectly is plain crap!!!!

As all of you have said, the shekhars are a shameless lot. they can speak anything if they feel justified and when they realise they are wrong they expect the other person to forgive them!!! after all they have realised they r wrong, no?🤢

They never allowed jagdish to get a word in. even when his dad had clearly asked for an explanation.

They barged in uninvited, interrupted others, generally shouted, behaved badly, never let the other side present his story, they seem to be a family of Manipulators!!!!

whats with daddu telling Sanchi at home that she has shamed them with their behaviour and here telling that she had just spoken "something" to put off her friends and Jagdish had misunderstood it!!! what double standards!!

My m-i-l watches this show regularly. She tells me that if it had been her daughter and that she had come up with such an explanation for whatever she had spoken in the restaurant, her reply would be," you deserve what you got!! If this gets out no guy is going to marry you so forget about Jagdish and try to correct yourself!!"

Frankly even our previous generation are disgusted with this level of inept parenting where a child is not taught the difference between right and wrong. 😡

Sumitra hit an all time low (she just completed her journey to the centre of the earth, can't sink lower!!) with that Ratan Singh comment. 😒

Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky

jagya may not be dying to touch sanchi ! but he never did give any reason to shekhars that he was not ! shekhars were not silent...they were in shock !
there was nothing amusing about shiv...he reacted like a very normal & loving brother today ! ...what jagya has done...there's nothing else left to understand or explain.
jagya deserves this slap from ira for giving them false assurances all this while.

You must be joking!

Jagya had always made it clear he was not interested in touching Sanchi! This is why Ira ji had to invite him and try to get him close to Sanchi! Bhool gaye aap?!

What normal and loving brother?! He put bakwas allegations against Jagya. And behaved as if Jagya was interested in holding Sanchi's hands!

He justified her wild behaviour earlier by calling it slight immaturity. He remained silent when Anandi was pushed and shouted at violently.

Ira had NO right to slap Jagya! Even Bhago and Gauri's mother did not behave like this when cracks happened in relationship with Jagya the way Ira did!

Jagya had broken up. So he was not obliged to bear their trash.

Ira has different notions of ladkewale and ladkwale in her mind na? So she should know that ladkiwale have NO right to slap and thrash the boy like this!

Jagya did not break a marriage. Nor did he do DV or molestation against Sanchi. So he did not deserve slap.

Ira's high handedness was revealed in yesterday's episode itself when she had barked she would pull Jagya's ears and make him forgive them and Sanchi! 😡

Samajhti kya hai?! That she'll zabardasti bring a toy for her baby doll?!

And where is her basic courtesy to behave in public for all the so called class they have?!

Who is she to taunt Jagya over failed relationships with Anandi and Gauri when she has NO idea of what happened between them?!

She couldn't slap Sanchi at her worst. But readily slapped Jagya!

That's the respect she has for jamai sa? Or the boy who she wants to force to marry Sanchi?!

Dogli aurat!! Loathes Jagya so much yet wants him to marry Sanchi!

Even after marriage this witch would have thrashed Jagya only and refused to believe what kaand her daughter was doing in sasural - because according to her this man with bad past is getting a favour from them in form of Princess Sanchi! 😡

She's a crap MIL be it for a bahu or a jamai!

My points on Shekhars:

- They are failures! No different from Singhs of past who gave only material comforts to kids but kept ignoring their blunders.

- They are quick to blame others but rarely face their own wrongs. Like in tonight's episode they instantly brushed aside their shame of their own rudeness to Jagya and Sanchi's blunders, and suddenly dismissed it all, grabbing a chance to blame Jagya, play victims and conveniently hide their and their daughter's blunders.

This is why I had said that Jagya shouldn't have married Ganga so soon. He should have exposed Sanchi and made Shekhars face the mirror! Now they got a chance to gloss over their own blunders!

- They pretend to be modern but are backward. This was reflected in Sanchi's disdain for Anandi due to her being a divorcee, child bride and from a village. Ira's barking at Anandi for being a child bride and divorcee and Alok blaming Sanchi when she suffered rape attempt (stereotypical blame the victim mentality!). CM suspecting Anandi's character earlier. Ira and co. discussing about whether AnSh sleep together or not. Ira's calling Anandi's social work as manmaani. All these showed how narrow minded they were! 😡

They agreed for AnSh alliance only due to Shiv beta's love. Not because they were open minded and wise.

Their modern outlook is actually IGNORANCE AND CLUELESSNESS - no idea what kids are upto! They don't know of Sanchi's plans and schemes. They don't know where Mahi is and what he does. He' slept with a woman yet these sanskaari people have NO idea about it! 🤢

Ira's narrowmindedness is always at the fore, how she behaves towards CM because she is devrani, not mother of her kids and a widow.

- Manners: When the partriarch of the house is as sleazy as Daddu and this is all laughed off as his "jovial" nature then what to expect from kids?? 🤢 No Indian samdhi behaves like this with his elderly samdhan the way Daddu does! Pervert!!
No wonder Sanchi was always eyeing Jagya in a perverse way and Mahi also had PMS with Ashima! Post marriage Shiv beta also had no other interest except sleeping with Anandi or making her comfortable enough to sleep with him!
Sanchi's ghatiya behaviour and it being excused by Shekhars - be it at functions or at Singhs' house is proof enough of what sanskar or manners they have.

- Idealism: No way. Daddu and Alok used their position to get Shiv transferred to a place of their choice. Shiv uses his position as collector to do favours for family and friends - as they ask him or as he himself wants to.
Sanchi ji bribed pandit to get mahurat dates of her choice.

This is the idealism and sense of principles they have?
Not much different from DS bribing people to make them do things as she pleased.

- Discipline : They are not in control of themselves. What to discipline their kids? Ira shouts and barks in a way that is no different from an illiterate budhiya from a village. Daddu is a pervert and glutton. CM was harsh on Anandi but has no clue of her son. Sanchi looks like she was never ever disciplined in her life! Not even at school!
Shiv could earlier shout at his own mother and tell her off. Acha kaayda hai.

- Coping: Do they even cope with anything at all? Or just shout and eat away??
Alok is such a failed guy that he can't even handle his own wife when she is pissed and running amok in frustration!
Sanchi can only bark and manipulate. Mahi can bark or threaten. Shiv also shouts or gets brooding or simply shrugs it off and gets into romance with wife! He's into beating up people too when he wants to.
CM can only simmer silently.

None of them appraise a situation properly or take a lesson from it. Play blame games and fight, then get back to eating!

REGARDING RELATIONSHIP WITH JAGYA:

Given how they have reacted even when Jagya has neglected Sanchi, I BET that they would not have taken it in right spirit if Jagya had refused their proposal on day one itself! That's because they think they're the best, they and their daughter can't be rejected by anyone, least of all a man with a past like Jagya, no one can break Sanchi's heart, Sanchi will get what she wants, we can't see Sanchi sad blah blah blah!

With their inability to handle Sanchi, they would have again blasted Singhs, Jagya and Anandi though they claim they were hoping that he would refuse! 😡

Ira would have become bitter towards Anandi even then. (Anandi is damned every way and punching bag no matter what!)

I can VERY WELL see what answer Shekhars had in their mind when they asked Jagya what he wanted - on day of engagement and later. They would NOT have been able to take a NO from him even at that stage!

They are helpless before Sanchi and want the whole world to dance to her whims! Their only way of admonishing Sanchi is to shout at her a bit and then excuse her and themselves apologise to others on her behalf, pleading mercy as she's a bachchi! 🤢

They do not wonder why the world should bear her or obey her as they do!

They were NEVER concerned about the other party except themselves and their kin.

They are so livid now. Why didn't they feel shame when UD felt bad, when Ashima was broken or when that NRI family was insulted at their home by Sanchi?

They just fell silent and left the matters in others' cases.

But want to thrash everyone and cut off ties with innocent people also because they can't take a rejection for themselves!

They are HYPOCRITES of the FIRST ORDER! 🤢 They did not take responsibility of preparing Sanchi for marriage and instead threw her to Anandi. They had never taught her anything earlier either. They had told Anandi to talk to Jagya to convince him. But today they came at forefront like raging bulls themselves and pushed aside Anandi!

Earlier also they either did not give her a chance to speak. Or they thrashed her when she expressed reservations about this alliance.

When it seems convenient to them they put the gun on Anandi's shoulders! And when they wish, they ignore her??!!

This includes Shiv also - who ignored Anandi's worries and pulled her to bed earlier but now himself put her hand aside to share his concern about Sanchi with her!
Shiv proved today that whenever he stood up for Anandi it was only due to his personal reasons as she was his love. This time she was pushed by Sanchi, shouted at and dragged in the fray by Ira - he remained silent, it just shows he is concerned for Anandi only if she is attacked as his wife, not if she is attacked as the bahu and SIL!

They are all but a bunch of educated fools. A polished and embellished version of Singhs of yore!

I would not be surprized if shekhar clan lead by Alok and supported by Shiv will fil a rape case against