Forgive Jagdish - Page 2

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

No , he hasn't been forgiven , those who pretend to forgive him r actually behaving revengefully by constantly using his guilt and saying u BETTER do this for the family

[ Sumitra] or patronizingly like Anandi

[ u always were GAIR ZIMMEDAR so learn ZIMMEDAARI]

This is NEVER real forgiveness .

He has paid ENOUGH for his mistakes and let us not forget that even he was a victim of child marraige .

But what the elders did was this ...they thought only the child bride is the victim and focussed on resurrecting her life but with him , they r doing exact same mistake ...forcing him in a marraige decided by them saying u troubled the child bride so forgo ur ideas of happiness and pay for life .

ur life better be a mat for the child bride to wipe her shoes now .

Sad but true .

This attitude of being unforgiving and exacting is hailed righteously by many saying he has done wrong in the past so he must suffer .

The only person who has REALLY forgiven him is Bhairon . He took a long time to forgive but when he did he knew the meaning of that word .

The only person from the present who accepts him exactly as he is , is Ganga . She makes no demands of him and does not judge his past ...only comforts him and if possible shows him a way to unburden .

His late hours , heavy work will never be frowned upon by her like Saanchi , but she will wait for him cheerfully at the end of the day and only comfort his tired mind .

Jagdish is attracted to THIS comfort zone . He goes again and again to her to derive this unjudgemental comfort , a place where he is not judged but offered relaxation . His help is accepted gratefully and not rejected as the help of a sinner . Mannu's innocence relaxes him and Ganga's simplicity is refreshing to him .

very apt analysis Kools Agree with you completely

I had seen Jagya is bashed for sillyreasons🤔 what about Anandi b4 divorcing Jagya she was massaging shiv's head😳

Originally posted by: santhiyaa_J

I had seen Jagya is bashed for sillyreasons🤔 what about Anandi b4 divorcing Jagya she was massaging shiv's head😳

Anandi messaged shiv's head after getting divorce from Jagdish.

Just because I want Jagdish to be forgiven does not mean I support anandi bashing.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Anandi messaged shiv's head after getting divorce from Jagdish.

No that was before divorce Divorce was only filed then

Originally posted by: hina13

No that was before divorce Divorce was only filed then

But the separation was almost complete courtesy Jagdish and Gauri.

Originally posted by: hina13

No that was before divorce Divorce was only filed then

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Just because I want Jagdish to be forgiven does not mean I support anandi bashing.

Yeah Jagya has suffered enough. It was his own doing as well plus child marriage and faulty upbringing.

The issue with him is less about forgiveness but problems with how he deals with things.

Yes his family was pressurising him but shouldn't he have been honest to at least one person? Any one trusted person? And why is he giving reassurances to Shiv and Ira when his heart is not in it?

Also, he is not even using tact to expose Sanchi's real face!

Now he wants to do MS to run away from it all for a while. But this separation is a temporary relief. It is not the solution.

If Anandi is questioning him then he too should have had the guts to make it clear to her that he was doing it all for her happiness!

And Shiv is not so bad so to trash Anandi if Jagya refused Sanchi! Couldn't he have talked openly to Shiv about his crazy sister?

Yes family is creating problem. But he is a grown up now and must put his foot down in certain matters when necessary.

He did not even request Shekhars to give him time to think. Instead just said YES!

Had he not said yes earlier then the problems that are coming up now would not have come at all for Shekhars too were not that keen on this rishta.

And if he is "sacrificing" then why not do it completely?

Anyway in tonight's episode he did not reveal his feelings to anyone, nor was he bitter to Sanchi. So maybe he will not break the marriage like this and say, "Hey I love Ganga and I won't marry anyone else".

He has changed a lot for sure.

Originally posted by: Skepblun

Yeah Jagya has suffered enough. It was his own doing as well plus child marriage and faulty upbringing.

The issue with him is less about forgiveness but problems with how he deals with things.

Yes his family was pressurising him but shouldn't he have been honest to at least one person? Any one trusted person? And why is he giving reassurances to Shiv and Ira when his heart is not in it?

Also, he is not even using tact to expose Sanchi's real face!

Now he wants to do MS to run away from it all for a while. But this separation is a temporary relief. It is not the solution.

If Anandi is questioning him then he too should have had the guts to make it clear to her that he was doing it all for her happiness!

And Shiv is not so bad so to trash Anandi if Jagya refused Sanchi! Couldn't he have talked openly to Shiv about his crazy sister?

Yes family is creating problem. But he is a grown up now and must put his foot down in certain matters when necessary.

He did not even request Shekhars to give him time to think. Instead just said YES!

Had he not said yes earlier then the problems that are coming up now would not have come at all for Shekhars too were not that keen on this rishta.

And if he is "sacrificing" then why not do it completely?

Anyway in tonight's episode he did not reveal his feelings to anyone, nor was he bitter to Sanchi. So maybe he will not break the marriage like this and say, "Hey I love Ganga and I won't marry anyone else".

He has changed a lot for sure.