Forgive Jagdish

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Now when he wants to do something good for himself, for his family by accepting ganga as wife, he is being held to ransom by hysterical sumitra, obsessed sanchi, clueless anandi.
Give him a break.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

No , he hasn't been forgiven , those who pretend to forgive him r actually behaving revengefully by constantly using his guilt and saying u BETTER do this for the family

[ Sumitra] or patronizingly like Anandi

[ u always were GAIR ZIMMEDAR so learn ZIMMEDAARI]

This is NEVER real forgiveness .

He has paid ENOUGH for his mistakes and let us not forget that even he was a victim of child marraige .

But what the elders did was this ...they thought only the child bride is the victim and focussed on resurrecting her life but with him , they r doing exact same mistake ...forcing him in a marraige decided by them saying u troubled the child bride so forgo ur ideas of happiness and pay for life .

ur life better be a mat for the child bride to wipe her shoes now .

Sad but true .

This attitude of being unforgiving and exacting is hailed righteously by many saying he has done wrong in the past so he must suffer .

The only person who has REALLY forgiven him is Bhairon . He took a long time to forgive but when he did he knew the meaning of that word .

The only person from the present who accepts him exactly as he is , is Ganga . She makes no demands of him and does not judge his past ...only comforts him and if possible shows him a way to unburden .

His late hours , heavy work will never be frowned upon by her like Saanchi , but she will wait for him cheerfully at the end of the day and only comfort his tired mind .

Jagdish is attracted to THIS comfort zone . He goes again and again to her to derive this unjudgemental comfort , a place where he is not judged but offered relaxation . His help is accepted gratefully and not rejected as the help of a sinner . Mannu's innocence relaxes him and Ganga's simplicity is refreshing to him .

Originally posted by: mishti31

@bold : No one forced J to select Sanchi.. it was his own choice and decision. He dint ask Anandi before agreeing. Now also he is ignoring Sanchi and his feelings for Ganga. He is making promises to Shiv and Ira without realizing their meanings. He is assuring evey1 tht he noes wht he is doing n he wl tk cre of Sanchi.. I agree all others are pushing him too hard.. but they are unaware of his feelings abt Sanchi/Ganga.. he need to come out in open or at least confide with some1 before its too late. This time all others shud tell him to Give them a break.

For all other things.. he had already been forgiven.

Originally posted by: mishti31

@bold : No one forced J to select Sanchi.. it was his own choice and decision. He dint ask Anandi before agreeing. Now also he is ignoring Sanchi and his feelings for Ganga. He is making promises to Shiv and Ira without realizing their meanings. He is assuring evey1 tht he noes wht he is doing n he wl tk cre of Sanchi.. I agree all others are pushing him too hard.. but they are unaware of his feelings abt Sanchi/Ganga.. he need to come out in open or at least confide with some1 before its too late. This time all others shud tell him to Give them a break.

For all other things.. he had already been forgiven.

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

He is already forgiven by characters in the show. But he himself dd not forgive him and committing another blunder by continuing his rista with saanchi.

Originally posted by: Truthseeker

Yeah i forgave(though i don't know who i am to forgive him😆) him long back when he entered haveli in beggars avatar and sincerely regretted his misdeeds later. In fact i would forgive Gauri too if she gets punished and repents in a similar manner.

But with Jagya things don't go normally. His character is always made to say one thing and do the other. He says he will take good care of sanchi...but keeps thinking about ganga. He says that his and ganga's relationship is only victim-benefactor thing...but he behaves in such a way that everyone around him understands that he is slowly getting into a relationship with her which proved to be true after yesterdays episode. He does not have either Anandi or Gauri in his memories...but has Ganga in his memories now! I wonder how long this one will remain😳.