Sanchi - A forced 'negative' character?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think CVs are trying too hard to make Sanchi a vamp and put a negative light on whatever she does.

Her irritation at Anandi and problems dealing with divided attention of parents and brother in family were understandable.

But the so called attempts at making a triangle between her, Jagya and Ganga is not coming across well.

I don't think it is wrong or villainish to be possessive about the one you love.

Why only Sanchi? No woman would be okay with idea of her fiance going all out to meet or support another woman (that too one who is single!).

Pretense and drama to handle people. Isn't it something that all do? She loves Jagya. And talks sweet to his family. Is it necessary to show later scenes of her heaving a sigh of relief at success of her "drama"?

Everyone puts up a face in name of courtesy. Sanchi does not want anything from Singhs. And Jagya is not even married to someone else now. So what's this vamp issue?

Also, what according to CVs is "right"? People are immature in childhood. Immature in teen marriages. Immature in adolescence. And now immature and not marriage material even after age of post graduation?
There is problem with lack of education. There is problem even in properly educated people?

There is no connection between the three with whom they are trying to make some love triangle.

There are no social, moral, ethical, religious or legal angles in their story so to paint some one as a vamp and other one as an angel! (There were lot of implications in Jagya-Gauri-Anandi one. And even the Bhairon-Teepri-Sumitra one!)

Sanchi is not doing adultery in her connection with Jagya. She has not broken somebody's home (knowingly or unknowingly).

There is NO meat or food for thought in this story that they are trying to attempt!

It has no message to convey. No issue to take up.

There is nothing "too bad" or shocking happening from Sanchi's side.

It looks like a mere ploy to create some problem (read "story"!) for Anandi and keep Jagya in doldrums instead of easily settling his life.

Sanchi doesn't deserve much bashing. She does not elicit extreme responses. At best you can call her irritating or confused or short-sighted.

I don't understand why a girl would keep trying her best for a man who never reciprocated her advances. He is not interested.
It's unbelievable that educated and sensible parents like Shekhars agreed for marriage over a mere one-sided infatuation! They are also happy at few good changes in Sanchi. But are they so naive to not understand that few days of good behaviour don't mean that basic nature has changed? Even the lapses in Sanchi's drama don't ring a bell??
Ira now says "Hum ladkewale BHI hain". Didn't they think of this earlier and wonder if Singhs said a Yes to them due to this pressure only? 😲

Anandi is only coaching Sanchi to be ideal beendni or wondering at her occasional lapse in drama. Is she tubelight? Why not communicate to Bhairon or Shiv or CM and take wise persons' counsel?

My point was that this story is flimsy. It was something that would not have arisen or would have solved easily. It's something that is being dragged and forced for no reason.

They are not even making Jagya mahaan and sacrificing through this (given how they show him making sullen faces or running after Ganga to help her or see her off). Whereas Anandi was only made to think of Jagya, not run after him (except for drama ordered by Singhs which she obeyed).

So what's it all about? Drag-fest aimed at another 1000 episodes?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Skepblun



Why only Sanchi? No woman would be okay with idea of her fiance going all out to meet or support another woman (that too one who is single!).

Don't agree with this at all A woman if does not have tolerance for this she will never propose that man Nothing was hidden to Sanchi She has seen Jagaya and Ganga staying under same roof Jagaya being caring to Ganga and always siding her whenever Sanchi bad mouthed her Take any sensible woman here if she cannot tolerate this then she will never propose to him if she can tolerate this she trusts that there is nothing more among them apart from being a beneficiant and beneficiary or best friends then she will never make issue of it

saying no woman will tolerate this is not correct in my view

Trusts matters the most if there is no trust then there is no love Trust shatters all such possessiveness
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Mahi

I agree with your point that if a woman cannot tolerate this despite knowing this then she should not have proposed in first place. Sanchi's thinking that she'd probably change it or perhaps engagement with change things - was a mistake.

Yes she should trust Jagya.

But feeling possessive or awkward is natural. Even the great Shiv felt odd during Jagya's amnesia drama. (Though the difference is that he did not doubt Anandi or question her the way Sanchi doubted Jagya and questioned him today).

Sanchi's issues are kind of flimsy. More of irritating attitude problem.

There is nothing solid about her. And this so called triangle looks forced.

She's more like an irritating housefly not a vamp really.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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So why does she have to be a vamp? What wrong with the common housefly. I think the latter is more realistic than an outright vamp.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Skepblun

I think CVs are trying too hard to make Sanchi a vamp and put a negative light on whatever she does.

Her irritation at Anandi and problems dealing with divided attention of parents and brother in family were understandable.

But the so called attempts at making a triangle between her, Jagya and Ganga is not coming across well.

I don't think it is wrong or villainish to be possessive about the one you love.

Why only Sanchi? No woman would be okay with idea of her fiance going all out to meet or support another woman (that too one who is single!).

Pretense and drama to handle people. Isn't it something that all do? She loves Jagya. And talks sweet to his family. Is it necessary to show later scenes of her heaving a sigh of relief at success of her "drama"?

Everyone puts up a face in name of courtesy. Sanchi does not want anything from Singhs. And Jagya is not even married to someone else now. So what's this vamp issue?

Also, what according to CVs is "right"? People are immature in childhood. Immature in teen marriages. Immature in adolescence. And now immature and not marriage material even after age of post graduation?
There is problem with lack of education. There is problem even in properly educated people?

There is no connection between the three with whom they are trying to make some love triangle.

There are no social, moral, ethical, religious or legal angles in their story so to paint some one as a vamp and other one as an angel! (There were lot of implications in Jagya-Gauri-Anandi one. And even the Bhairon-Teepri-Sumitra one!)

Sanchi is not doing adultery in her connection with Jagya. She has not broken somebody's home (knowingly or unknowingly).

There is NO meat or food for thought in this story that they are trying to attempt!

It has no message to convey. No issue to take up.

There is nothing "too bad" or shocking happening from Sanchi's side.

It looks like a mere ploy to create some problem (read "story"!) for Anandi and keep Jagya in doldrums instead of easily settling his life.

Sanchi doesn't deserve much bashing. She does not elicit extreme responses. At best you can call her irritating or confused or short-sighted.

I don't understand why a girl would keep trying her best for a man who never reciprocated her advances. He is not interested.
It's unbelievable that educated and sensible parents like Shekhars agreed for marriage over a mere one-sided infatuation! They are also happy at few good changes in Sanchi. But are they so naive to not understand that few days of good behaviour don't mean that basic nature has changed? Even the lapses in Sanchi's drama don't ring a bell??
Ira now says "Hum ladkewale BHI hain". Didn't they think of this earlier and wonder if Singhs said a Yes to them due to this pressure only?
😲

Anandi is only coaching Sanchi to be ideal beendni or wondering at her occasional lapse in drama. Is she tubelight? Why not communicate to Bhairon or Shiv or CM and take wise persons' counsel?

My point was that this story is flimsy. It was something that would not have arisen or would have solved easily. It's something that is being dragged and forced for no reason.

They are not even making Jagya mahaan and sacrificing through this (given how they show him making sullen faces or running after Ganga to help her or see her off). Whereas Anandi was only made to think of Jagya, not run after him (except for drama ordered by Singhs which she obeyed).

So what's it all about? Drag-fest aimed at another 1000 episodes?

very nice post...but i partially agree with u...mostly i disagree!...
i don think people r angry with saanchi bcoz she has questioned jaggya yesterday!!...but bcoz she is trying to manipulate everyone..she is faking!!...she is telling lie...she is selfish...
she hates those people who r better human being than her!!...instead of hating she could have uplift herself too as a human being...but she is becoming more mean...which is making viewers to hate her more!..
and her irritation with anandi is understandable..but is it right?..does it make her a good person???...No right!..she does not like anandi bcoz she knows that anandi is a better human being than her..much more efficient in every field of life..and everyone loves anandi!...saanchi is jelous of anandi..and i think jelousy is a negetive characteristic of a human being...
pretend drama to impress ur in-laws is a right thing to do?..just bcoz many people does it? 😕...does it make u a good, positive human being?...pretending\hiding is wrong at any context!!...when the truth comes out it hampers peace of life..it breaks the trust of our near & dear ones ...dishonestly can not signify as a postive characteristic...therefore sanchi can not be right in faking all these things!...it doesn't make her a positive character...
@bold i agree with u...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sanchi already knows that he has planned to go to Msngalore but she tricked him (engagement date) and cancelled his plan, now how could she question him? If She feels that her fianc is not supposed to meet other girl then she would have asked him before. Doesn't she know that he has taken the responsibility of Ganga before? Then y didnt she question him before? Instead she played dirty tricks behind his back and trapped him for the engagement, and expecting him to cancel everything just coz he got engaged. 😡 wat nonsense ?
Edited by shalinii173 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sanchi is a negative character...- She is an irritant and a deterrent to family's peace. Since her introduction Sanchi is a conflict creator...a pampered kid since childhood [ once admitted by CM&Ira]-- grown up as an arrogant person...immature ---and infatuation towards a person ... a questionable and dubious character ---questionable because ...morally how far it is correct to love her bhabhi's ex / dubious because ...being well educated...belongs to a well placed family ' wanted to marry a man who has undefined past --- here...something seriously gone wrong with her .Her approach towards her goal---her means to get the end result --- is totally wrong. If we don't like to refer her as a vamp...then we have to call her ---a deceiver!!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ Skepblun, I really liked your post especially the lines below:

There is no connection between the three with whom they are trying to make some love triangle.

There are no social, moral, ethical, religious or legal angles in their story so to paint some one as a vamp and other one as an angel! (There were lot of implications in Jagya-Gauri-Anandi one. And even the Bhairon-Teepri-Sumitra one!)

As a viewer I don't find any logic in this track. Time and again I watch this show out of habit & out of my interest to interact on forum, but really speaking this drama is just a drag to make it to another 1000 episodes. there is no take home value that BV had before AnSh marriage. It is just to keep A-J busy with one another's life and make things complicated.

There are so many lapses in this triangle, that could have easily been addressed, and the triangle would have never formed, yet all complications would have been resolved. But CVs don't like to show it that way. They can't show a clear cut progressive mentality of people, who are facing regular (practical) problems in life. They keep enjoying dishing out the same traingular stories even if the story has no meat.

As viewers, we may all support some acts and defend against others, but the crux is that the story line is too weak, for anyone (viewer) to take a stand and make sense out of it.
Edited by Missesha - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree MissEsha,there is no social message anymore. The storyline is not strong. I am also watching just out of habit.The festivals, celebration, food, tea is becoming too repetitive.
I just hope now we don't get to see six shades of Sanchi after the engagement break up and then she stealing roti in Udaipur and getting caught.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sanchi has a vamp inside herself only.she is the one who is just faking everything and playing with everyone's emotions includingg her parents since day one.she just wants to be jagya s wife ,that's her moto ,to her nothing is important and she can go any extent to achieve that.she is doing everything on purpose and very strategically .and this is called a vampish bhabi our .she is evil from inside.

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