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sectoreight

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Posted: 12 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: mahi12
Don't understand one thing why everyone is suppose to understand and deal with Suimtra 's so called fears why she cannot understand others even for once ?😕Try to understand them they are not thinking like you what must be the reason am i wrong somewhere ?

Why should Sumitra analyse "am I wrong somewhere?" just because others think differently from her? What is it that makes the others "right" just because they think differently?

Sumitra and Gehna can both think differently from each other, and both can be right.

I don't think that sumitra needs to observe others to validate her own thinking... so that only after that validation is done she can conclude that she is right.

She can be right by herself even if not one person agrees with her.

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Posted: 12 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: shankythebest
@sectoreight,Gauri always belittled Jagya whenever she got chance be it saying it on his face that its my car,how can you take my car, be it while she was doing better job and showing off she gets more money,be it calling him ma ka laadla when her truth came out in front of everybody.Because of her stupid blurt out the dean got angry and didn't allow jagya to give exam.If she would have supported him he could have give the exam and also complete MS with her.But how can she allow him because he was worried about his badi maasi and went there to give his maasi some happiness thinking that its her last days.how can gauri think anything good about singhs!It was jagya who helped gauri in every which way to sit for exams.He motivated her.

Gauri also motivated him not motivated she always instigated when she wanted property,when the lawyer asked her that divorce can happen if anandi is proved characterless.It was jagya who left everything for gauri but gauri didn't loose anything till now.She will not even feel that she lost jagya because she now hates him.

Jagya only can become a CEO of a hospital!He was working in laxmigaanj village,there were no facilities so saying this will be very unfair to the character.He is trying to settle down,trying to get his confidence back.When he will be confident enough he will start thinking about completing his MS.Just give some time.

Thankyou ! 👏

I guess even after all this time - Gauri still has her die-hard fans 😉

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sectoreight

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Posted: 12 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: hooked

Well then - I guess we shud agree to differ in our understanding of the words - "being supportive".

😛 Cheers !!

I think Gauri was always supportive until he started behaving like an ass. We do differ in our understanding of the words "being supportive" Cheers back to you!! 😛

And that badi massi thing was the biggest sham trick that Jagya pulled -- even if he went to see badi massi he had no business pretending to be still married to anandi.

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Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: sectoreight

Why should Sumitra analyse "am I wrong somewhere?" just because others think differently from her? What is it that makes the others "right" just because they think differently?

Sumitra and Gehna can both think differently from each other, and both can be right.

I don't think that sumitra needs to observe others to validate her own thinking... so that only after that validation is done she can conclude that she is right.

She can be right by herself even if not one person agrees with her.

Absolutely my dear.😳

I agree with you and Sumi that she has a right to be steadfast in her thinking. For her sake and all who believe in her - I hope she never has cause to change her mind. After all, who wants to be just like everyone else. Its good to be different. And anyways - Saanchi still agrees with her. As also Ira - but Sumi doesn't know that yet. 😉

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Posted: 12 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: sectoreight

I think Gauri was always supportive until he started behaving like an ass. We do differ in our understanding of the words "being supportive" Cheers back to you!! 😛

And that badi massi thing was the biggest sham trick that Jagya pulled -- even if he went to see badi massi he had no business pretending to be still married to anandi.

How do you explain Gauri's trip to BH where she openly challanged Sumi for her son's affections. Or her rudeness to the rest of the family.

How do you explain her rudeness to badi Masi ?

How do you explain her lying about why she lost control of the car ?

How do you explain umpteen other times when Jagya just took her word for granted and kept on getting more and more distanced from his own family ?

How do you explain her knowing that he turned to booze coz he was missing his family - and YET - went on maintaining her lies and his distance from them ?

Does all this come under being supportive ?

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Anyways - just thinking about those times and what hell J and his fmaily went thru - worst of all Dadisa - makes my blood start to simmer again - and I will take a hundred Saanchi's anyday over that one Gauri.

So - believe what you want - and I, like Jagya - will believe what I want.

Peace !!

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mahi12

@mahi12

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Posted: 12 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: sectoreight

Why should Sumitra analyse "am I wrong somewhere?" just because others think differently from her? What is it that makes the others "right" just because they think differently?

Sumitra and Gehna can both think differently from each other, and both can be right.

I don't think that sumitra needs to observe others to validate her own thinking... so that only after that validation is done she can conclude that she is right.

She can be right by herself even if not one person agrees with her.

she think whatever to herself none cares a damn but she is no one to force her opinions on others she is FORCING others to follow her ..Jagaya do whatever help Ganga or throw her out who she is to yell at him who is she to stop him whatever he is doing is also right by his view point why she expect him to understand her when same she cannot do even for once ? she was crying my son is not understanding me Do dear son's mother understand her dear son ?why he should deal with her ? and her so called fears and follow her blindly if she cannot look into what he is saying? Why he should try to understand her when she cannot understand him Who is she to force her shagun and apshagun logics on rest family they don't consider Ganga as apshagun so Sumi should shut up and sit in corner who is she to yell ?

Gehna is fine with Ganga why Sumi is shouting for Gehna Did Gehna ask her if she cannot understand Gehna so respect Gehna's POV and be quiet Bhairo , Basant , Anandi , Dadisaa does not think like her why she want them to think like her if they don't so be quiet why tearing her lungs apart

If she cannot look into herself by understanding others correct herself then she is no one to make others understand her either

Edited by mahi12 - 12 years ago

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sectoreight

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Posted: 12 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: hooked
Thankyou ! 👏
I guess even after all this time - Gauri still has her die-hard fans 😉

Sure, Gauri rocks!!!

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sectoreight

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Posted: 12 years ago

#48

@mahi12 --

then how come others are also FORCING sumitra to accept their point of view??

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Posted: 12 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: sectoreight
@mahi12 --

then how come others are also FORCING sumitra to accept their point of view??

This is a difference of opinion between a husband, a wife and their son.

Sumi thinks Gehna CUD have lost her kid coz of Ratan and blames Ganga for it.

Gehna thinks Ganga HAS already saved her kid not once but twice now. Once from those goons who entered her room and second, by delivering her kid safely.

If Sumi still wants to think Ganga is wrong, when Gehna has nothing but gratitude for Ganga, then what more logic can anyone give to Sumi ?

This is not about right and wrong anymore. This is just an ego issue with Sumi. She has taken a dislike to Ganga and wants her entire family to erase the names Ganga and Mannu from their collective memories.

Sumi can decide to not think about her. But if DS wants to hand over letters meant for Ganga to Jagya - how can Sumi over-ride DS's wish to do so ?

So isn't Sumi imposing her wish on DS and Jagya here ?

Edited by hooked - 12 years ago

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mahi12

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Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: sectoreight
@mahi12 --

then how come others are also FORCING sumitra to accept their point of view??

who is forcing Did Jagaya say anything to her yesterday ? she started yelling she wants to kick Ganga out he doesn't want Bhairo does not want , Gehna does not want Basant does not want , Anandi does not want , Sugna does not want even Nandu loves Ganga jiji and Mannu a lot

so who is she to tell everyone to kick Ganga out , don't take her name blah blah blah ?

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