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Posted: 12 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Why should her unrequited love overshadow all the other things in her life?
She has a chance to lead a new life has a chance to get educated she has a seen a world which is so different from the world she grew up.Why is she not happy for all those things?
So far from what they have shown of her she was shown to be spending more time crying over a love that can't be hers fro a lot of reasons as of now rather than being shown happy about the things that are happening in life.

Because from so far what I have seen it only looks like they only want to show what her love for Jagya is doing to her life and not all the things that she can do with her life.

I'd rather see a Ganga who tells herself that there is lot more to her life even if she cannot get the man she loved and move on and be happy about the things that are hapening.Ratan being put behind the bars with very little chance getting out and her getting admission in a course and the prospect of making a new life for herself and her child becoming a reality.I would like to see her happy because of these things rather than her sitting and crying over Jagya.



But that is what i see. I see her moving on. I see her educating herself. I see her wanting a new life. How happy she was when she got her letter of acceptance to Mangalore. I see all that that via the few hints they dropped with a smattering of scenes. Now obviously, the Cv's have shown a trend of not dwelling on PATTERNS of scenes showing Anandi pursuing her degree, or Gauri enjoying work life and now Ganga furthering herself. To them that does not retain viewership. They need masala to keep the housewives and grannies hooked. This does not mean she is depressed because of her love for Jagya. What if she was just depressed because of her overall dismal situation? Would she still be judged so harshly? Anandi took so long to overcome her betrayal but she was heralded because the Cvs showed samaj seva and hints of her education. Why can't we give Ganga some time. She has also experienced the nightmare called Rat Singh, does she not deserve time to get over that either. Won't she be negatively affected by all that too.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#92
Anandi only asked why you let ganga leave!Then ds said she made up her mind.Sumi said she made up her mind,ds said to stop till morning but she didn't listen!Really!Anandi herself knows what pathetic excuses they are making.If my any family member especially girl wanted to leave the house at night because of some guilt for which she is not even responsible also without taking money and act adamently I would have give her two slaps and would have said bade paar nikal aye tere,go back to your room now.Aww,ganga is not their family member but if I am not wrong ds said ganga is their family member and whole singh family except sumitra proved that how much they love ganga by not handovering mannu and ganga to ratan singh.No worries for ganga,not once said we tried to stop her a lot but she was adament to go.We failed to stop her.No,nothing.Only said she wznted to go.Then our sumitra,what did she just say,wo ganga/us ganga she used wo ganga/us ganga,she hates ganga to the core.Wo ganga is responsible for what happened.How can anandi be mute.She clearly saw sumi was talking nonsense with so much hatred and she saw how sumi behaved with ganga in the god bharai ceremony.Then ds says its her fault only but she didn't for once said ganga was not at fault.Anandi clearly knows ganga is not at fault despite of that they didn't stop ganga and injustice happened to ganga.They didn't said leave but when ganga asked to leave they didn't force her.What will ganga think with their behavior,its obvious she will think that singhs didn't want to keep her with them anymore.Gestures sehi to pata chalta hai we are wanted or not.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#93
suppose ganga says i am going to jump into well .i hope singhs does not allow her to jumping to well by saying that she already made mind jumping into well
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Leaves,I didn't expected that you will say ganga was having flashbacks of romantic scenes.Its not monday or tuesday for ganga.It was monday and tuesday for us viewers.The flashback scene started in the monday episode and finished in tuesday episode.The first thing ganga thought was anandi applying mehendi and nandu praising it.Then it was with whole family.After that she was thinking about jagya.We can't deny the person we were attached the most we miss them badly.No doubt ganga loves everybody in that family but she is attached with jagya the most and most importantly she loves jagya.Jagya was having flashbacks only for mannu that doesn't mean he doesn't care for ganga.Between ganga and mannu he is attached to mannu mostly so he was getting flashbacks of mannu.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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anandi is the daugh5ter of the ohuse, if not by blood by emotions, the crux of the show is the bond they have , it is extremely stupid to say that now is just a guest! rishtas are not merely by blood by heart as well! shekars can never take the place of singhs for anandi nor will they ever give anandi more love than sanchi or shiv or mahi like the singgs gave to anandi!

singhs are and will be the maternal side for anandi! it is hypocritical fro them to want the best for their divrocee daughter ( anandi) but not for for any one else. it was abs just for anandi to feel that much, she has seen their righteous side and cant fnathom the selfish side.
As for taking shiv for granted come on! this is just crap ,she cant leave coz she ddnt aks him? it is her family not his!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#96

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

The worst part taking shiv for granted. This the second time she told shiv, let's go away from BH now..it sounded ordering from her. She did not even ask shiv opinion on this. Shiv always gives respect to anandi opinion and discusses with her. Why so much anger with singhs that she has to leave the house immediately. It's true they could have asked Ganga to go in the morning not night. But they did not tell her to leave. Being angry is understandable but why leaving the house in haste. She did not even understand that jagya was nt even there when Ganga left the house. don't know how she became sarpanch with such haste decisions and anger. Every week she comes to BH as if she lives there. I understand her visiting them in this situation but please stop making her involve in everything. Please let anandi be in udaipur and start making her work for NGO's soon. If you had her come to jeytsar every week why wasted so many weeks in shiv transfer drama. Ansh were better in jeytsar solving village problems and singhs too.



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Edited by ilove..sidyusha - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#97

Originally posted by: Picasso9


But that is what i see. I see her moving on. I see her educating herself. I see her wanting a new life. How happy she was when she got her letter of acceptance to Mangalore. I see all that that via the few hints they dropped with a smattering of scenes. Now obviously, the Cv's have shown a trend of not dwelling on PATTERNS of scenes showing Anandi pursuing her degree, or Gauri enjoying work life and now Ganga furthering herself. To them that does not retain viewership. They need masala to keep the housewives and grannies hooked. This does not mean she is depressed because of her love for Jagya. What if she was just depressed because of her overall dismal situation? Would she still be judged so harshly? Anandi took so long to overcome her betrayal but she was heralded because the Cvs showed samaj seva and hints of her education. Why can't we give Ganga some time. She has also experienced the nightmare called Rat Singh, does she not deserve time to get over that either. Won't she be negatively affected by all that too.

I don't want to compare Anandi and Ganga even if the CVs are bent on convincing us they are very similar but I do not find them similar nothing is similar except both were married off when they were children.
With Anandi and Jagya's characters they had years to build on those characters.In Ganga they don't have much time so it all the more reason that they should have scenes which make a bigger impact and define their characters

From so far what they have shown I fail to see the woman who according to CVs is very similar to Anandi.
If you are convinced from what they have shown so far that she is moving on in life that it si your opinion not letting her unrequited love consume her that is your opinion.
I have already said all I wanted to say about Ganga's character.
Edited by aparnauma - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#98

Originally posted by: Skepblun

I think Anandi was loud, OTT and rude today. Singhs had not kicked out Ganga! Yes it was serious that she was "allowed" to leave late at night alone with kid. But Singhs did not deserve such a thrashing from Anandi! Anandi never shouted like this even at Jagya or Gauri initially! How could she shout now? It is uncharacteristic of her nature.

Also shouting like this in front of her husband? You can be open and take liberties with parents. Fine. But why shout like this at them in front of your spouse and their SIL? That is an insult!

And shouldn't she have taken care of her tone and behaviour keeping in mind that they too had also been through trauma just a night before? They were all in shock and mentally disturbed due to that incident. So talking like this to them was not done!

She didn't even give them a chance to speak and told Shiv to get up and leave since they'd get no answers here? What nonsense and what a knee jerk reaction!

Her voice was so loud and shrill. Her face seemed as if she was glaring at Singhs.

She doesn't even squeak at her in laws' and tolerates all BS. But has nerve to shout at Singhs who've always stood by her?

I think she should have kept balance in her behaviour.

In BV ...characters...action...storyline...everything is...unbalancsed now a days. SEARCHING meaningful ...logical...behaviour means still we are expecting something from this serial!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I felt she should have been a bit polished in her conversation. A family who has suffered a trauma like that does not deserve such a rude behaviour that too from the lady for whom they stood against their son.

What will be her reply if they turn around and say you are our exbahu but maintain ur limits. And OTT she is always an OTT when Mahantaa is concerned. I do not understand her behaviour at times. She wants to risk the family's life but wants Ganga to be there. Anandi showed true colors - singhs are not her blood (my view).

But again one question comes up again and again will she ever get rid of being the 'morol'of singh parivaar and control of Jagya's life. Her new life is just taken for granted by her. Better she start living her married life than being an ideal ex bahu.

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Posted: 12 years ago
I suddenly got this question, if Ganga had anyways MADE her mind to leave then how does her leaving one night earlier make a difference.

Agree it was a dark night and a bad time, but if she had chosen to leave WITHOUT any assistance from Singhs, even if she left in morning she would be in the same position the second night. Nights would be coming and going.

The point I am trying to make is that in order to make Sumi look in the bad light there is over emphasis on 'how could you let her leave at night?'.

But the thing is G wanted to leave out of self-respect & guilt. And she had no plans of 'what next'. So Anandi blasting Singhs and that too in that tone is OTT.

Somehow the whole drama of Rat is OTT .

- Everybody is safe and sound
- Instead of realising their own mistake regarding security, Singhs are hell bent on criticisising Sumitra, as if it was only her responsibilty to stop Ganga.
- Ganga thinks of her nice (romantic) moments with J in the loud rain instead of worrying about her baby
- Anandi comes to show sympathy and just in few minutes she wants to walk out of there with disgust

Why a family like this cannot address each others fears together, comfort each other, politely point out each others mistakes regarding the scene and then sit and think strategically on how they could help a needy girl like Ganga? Is it that difficult, to show some sanity & empathy, rather than blasting one another and painting people either pure black or pure white?


Edited by Missesha - 12 years ago

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