Sumitra and Daddu are BONKERS! - Page 3

Originally posted by: hima_123

Honestly...I think the only frivolous thing was --imposing a "rishta" in such a high pressure situation on Jagya. I mean instead of cornering him/ emotionally blackmailing him in Anandi's name---they all should have relaxed and considered Jagya and Sanchi's compatibility, and given time and space to Jagya to think and decide based on his and his preference only.

I don't even know why is it even about Anandi? I am irked to the core, in seeing how pivotal is Anandi to Jagya saying "yes" and "no" in this rishta. Why is Anandi even important in considering whether Jagya should get married to Sanchi or not. Anandi doesn't have a problem in being forever attached to her ex-sasural and meeting Jagya on and off !! How does it matter then, if she has to meet Jagya as her sister in law's husband? She is meeting him anyways, right? How does it matter if she meets him as SIL's husband...or simply son of her foster parents...I mean meeting either ways regularly is bad enough!! Why consider her awkwardness when it is not even about her this time? (No one considered the awkwardness when it was about her...her ex sasural being her foster maayekaa...what is Jagya to her then?? Best friend? Son of her foster parents?? And if he can be all that why can't he be the husband of the SIL too!

However, the principal issue is Sanchi and Jagya are not compatible, and Jagya doesn't even love her! So in this case, it has to be about him!! It is about giving him ALL the space in the world and authority to decide what's good for him! Why ?? Why?? Why...is it about Anandi then?? Why is it like " Say yes, or Anandi will suffer"..."Say no, or Anandi will suffer!!"...

.Why can't people just tell him--forget about Anandi...think for yourself---do you want to marry this girl Sanchi or not!! He will say " yes" for Anandi/Sumitra/DS/neighbors/village/community/khajan singh/ mahaveer singh/makhan kaka/ ------but will NOT think for himself because he is a good guy...what bakwaas! Why can't people encourage him to think for himself and give him lot of space...and take his time in making any decision about his life!!!

Originally posted by: Libra123

Totally agree here. Even when singh's were talking about themselves bhairo says can anandi fulfill this rishta(kya anandi iss rishte ko nibha payegi?)...but how about jagya can he fulfill this rishta.. Not even a single soul thought about it... It's all about anandi.. They don't even care for their son.. So why draag him back home.. He left to live his life, you draag him back and do this to him. Why should anandi interfere in jagyas marriage at all.. ... Totally pathetic..

Originally posted by: Libra123

I agree with the TM. But I guess there is a reason why no one feels that anandi will feel awkward. Because anandi had no problem coming and having a sleep over, interacting with jagya and coming in front of jagya even after noting he had feelings for her, flirting with shiv during kite festival in front of jagya, making shiv bully jagya and drag him back, bullying jagya herself etc etc. So, may be no one thought about it. If anandi had no awkwardness at that time then why now ??

But DS, supposed to be wise one can only think about anandi and her happiness, baad me jaye jagya. Sumi is a gone case anyway. Btw, that dialogue about sambandh aur gehra ho jayenga was DS dialogue.

Originally posted by: Skepblun

Anandi was trying to be normal with them because it was Singhs who treated her like daughter. And what is her fault? It is DS who would keep inviting Anandi and Shekhars over on some pretext or the other!

Problem is that Singhs were never able to get over Anandi. They were way too attached to her.

Even now it is their fault that they are assuming her "yes" for this rishta and not thinking that she has to keep silent in front of her in-laws! If at all they think of her, Sumi and DS think Jagya has to agree so that Anandi's happiness isn't threatened and her in laws don't get angry! 😡

Yes sorry that dialogue was DS'! That was outlandish and was result of Sumi's barking ki "aakhir issmein galat hi kya hai? Acha ghar hai, ache log hain, achi ladki hai..." blah blah!! 🤢
Sumitra is the one who dissuaded DS from calling it an awkward rishta and she's the one who brought fear of Anandi's happiness and assumption of her "implicit consent" in this situation! Bhairon is the only one who is not convinced. DS is sold on Sumi's ideas. Others are silent! Jagya is caught! 😲

Originally posted by: Skepblun

@Libra123

See Anandi never wanted to marry in first place. DS also kept waiting for Jagya endlessly hoping he'll come back to Anandi. But later divorce happened. DS tried keeping Anandi as a daughter but then guilt started hounding her. So she got Anandi married.

But she couldn't let go of the attachment nor rest of the Singhs because Anandi had been with them since childhood and supported them at their lowest (when son left them or when they got insulted by villagers etc.).

They kept inviting her on every festival and even dinners when there was no occasion. DS kept calling her even at midnight! It was DS only who cried and pressurised her to convince Jagya for marriage!

Now what should she do?

This time around Anandi is silent because her family is hovering around her. She can't speak against this alliance in front of them! Right now in Singhs' house she obviously couldn't have uttered a word because Shekhars and Sanchi are there to keep an eye on everything.

This is a quagmire and Anandi is in the weirdest position of all! She has to be careful!

I still think Bhairon should realise this is dharam sankat for her and prevent Jagya from saying YES immediately. They should buy more time to reply!

Why should Anandi be expected to speak instantly? Don't Singhs have their own brains and responsibilities?