BV WU 8/7...Ratan escaped...again! - Page 6

Is their competetion for best bakwas family... singhs and shekhars both are behaving so dumb. sumi's dialogues irritated me, "pyaari ladki hai,bade ghar ki ladki hai aur kya chahiye tujhe" 🤢 when he already gave his answer that he can never see sanchi like that , why is she forcing him and using anandi's name. Agreed , if he says NO what would have happened, Shekhars can't be angry with Anandi , did anandi anyway encourage this rishta ? No, then why will anandi's sasrewale think badly... Even if they feel bad they can be angry with her only for sometime,days or weeks and if again sanchi gets a rishta they will forget it. But Jagya if he marries a girl like sanchi he can never be happy.She is typical stupid girl who wants to rub her wishes and tastes on him.Look at the way she talks with Mannu.. does anyone talk like that. I highly doubt whether she can control his temper. Sumi thinks that sanchi is pyaari ... oh god,sumi you must watch your pyaari naari talking ridiculously and doubting JaAn's frienship . I bet you will defenitely change ur idea. Mqnnu you must have hit that sanchi's head with that ball u were playing. Sanchi feels jagya is surprised.No madam he is shocked, irritated and disgusted.

Originally posted by: Missesha

At Saba,

I know it was extremely clear that J is not interested.

And Daddu is contradicting his own statement. He sort of pushed J to accept this proposal for Sa's happiness, but does the same Daddu realise that if J is not able to do justice (love) Saanchi, will she still be happy?

What sort of 'bachon ki khushi' are they after? That 2 people who have nothing in common, not even love should be tied down together. Where is one is completely obsessed and the other one is completely disinterested. And then when the two cannot 'nibhaofy' and break it, they call it 'bachon ki nasamji'

yeah Dadu was actually pushing Jagaya to agree for this otherwise he got answer from Jagaya very well he is not interested Shekhars and Singhs both have gone bonkers Shekhars are behaving like they came here to buy a toy for their daughter not that they are here to get her married to someone Do marriages happen like that ? They know Sanchi is obsessed with jagaya and her passion is one sided Sanchi will never be able to adjust in village and they got a clear answer from Jagaya he is not interested they still are glued there waiting Jagaya will say yes and what is their plan ? Sanchi's obsession will wear off they day she won't be able to adjust with Jagaya and Singhs then she will run back home and Shekhars will close their doors for her stay there 😳or they will run to courts to divorce thenIs this some sort of joke going on here? What kind of brain dead family is this who are forcing people so much to fix alliance of their daughter on her obsession only

@Sidra: You have presented a logical explanation from your perspective. But with due respect to your opinion, I would still like maintain what I had said in my post.

If the Singhs cannot call A to discuss since she has come there as a daughter-in-law, we cannot expect a daughter like behavior from her then. If the Singhs cannot call her, how is she going to excuse herself and go into the discussion? Would that not clearly indicate to the Shekhars that A influenced their opinion? Personally I did not see A standing in a bechari mode. She gave an answer to J's question where she indicated that she is helpless. She did not act like she would be in big trouble and needed his help. His question was if this awkward relationship is acceptable to which she indicated that she is not in favor of it but is helpless. Daddu just put her expressions into words.Again I am not giving A a clean chit but I don't put the entire blame on her either. The most to be blamed are the elders.

My point here is that this is not a situation to be politically correct. it is the matter of the life of a person which cannot be made in a fit of emotions. This is not like asking permission for an outing or a stay over at the Singhs but a matter of life. I don't think there is any problem what so ever in asking for time. Its very clear that no one is thinking logically and in such a situation decisions cannot be made immediately but at ease. Sply matter related to marriage needs to be given careful thought which needs time and a proper frame of mind. Its very unreasonable to expect the Singhs and J to give an answer right away.

At the end of the day, it doesn't matter who should be blamed or who should not. What's most important is if J and Sachi will be happy in the relationship? J is agreeing due to emotional blackmail. Its is pretty clear that the Shekhars are bowing down to Sachi's wishes so he can get an idea of what he will have to face in future. If he agrees for whatever the reason, is he ready to face this through out his life? Will he dance to Sachi's tunes and let his family follow suit too? No point in saying yes coz there is no other option and then as an after thought wonder how he is going to manage all this. No blaming, no cursing or no crying is going to help then. If he takes time to think, he may just find a way out and that is also what the Shekhars are hoping. But if not he will get time to see if he can maintain this relationship. He has had two failed marriages already, he cannot keep getting in and out of relationships. He also knows what he can offer in this relationship and a dreamy eyed immature Sachi will never be satisfied. Will he be able to change her or change him self and everything related to him? These are things which he needs to think about even if he is left with no option but to say yes. For this he needs time. If the unreasonable elders are not thinking about this or asking for more time, he needs to do it coz ultimately he is the one who will have to face all of this.

@Anita ...of course i am not blaming all on Anandi and bechari mode i only meant helpless 😆You and me have same point but presently it in different words

Thanx 4 d upd,cant tolerate sanchi n jagaya