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Posted: 12 years ago
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Why should Anandi interfere?

She knows Ganga has feelings for Jagya. She knows she is better suited than Sanchi. As a daughter/DIL who cares for Jagya and wishes that he should be happy, she should interfere.

If and when Sanchi's true colors are revealed, as a human being who cares for another human's well-being, she should stop this marriage for the sake of Jagya, Sanchi and the two families. It is exactly like how Ganga interfered with Jagya and Kanchan's rishta. The fact that Anandi is Jagya's ex should not matter here because it is about two lives being ruined.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

If she has 1% grey matter in her brain, she should not interfer. Let Gadheswar and Gadheswari understand that they are a mismatch themselves. They are not lolly pop kids. Nobody asked her opinion for proposal - Sekhar or Singh. Singh does so chori chori but they did not bother to ask. Jagya was supposed to take anandi's view for his bride - But?? And Jagya he did not have glimpses of his time with Ganga, itna kulfi kahaya but all washed away. Ganga is more dumb, dying for Doctor Sa, and Doctor Sa dumped her.

Anandi - drift yourself from j's life - concentrate on ur hubby or if you have plans to break ur marriage and go back to Jaggya and haveli you are most welcome. Ashima is there for shiv.



Doctorsa dumped her? 😲 When did he flirt with her or promised to marry her?... this is rather funny that if a friend offers kulfi to his female friend to make her feel cheerful, he becomes bound by some duty to marry her...🤪
Oh God.. what a sin it is to offer help to a woman in distress !!😡 No man should ever do it, especially if he is single for instead of becoming a saviour, he becomes a sinner.

Ganga is also not dumb, but very calculative. If he was a already married man, would she have fallen in love with him? Would she not have controlled her feelings? But he is single, so why not try her luck?

Why Anandi is blamed here? Dont we all see that not once she gave her opinion although she is against this rishta? She coulld have easily told sumitra or dadisa and warned them about this rishta, but she chose not to interefere. And she will not do it in future as well.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Currently whatever anandi is doing is the best. I am liking it that she is not at all interfering in this saachi rishta matter...hope she takes this stand till the end as she will try to do nice for someone and then the shekhars would especially saachi and her mother will blame her again..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya



Doctorsa dumped her? 😲 When did he flirt with her or promised to marry her?... this is rather funny that if a friend offers kulfi to his female friend to make her feel cheerful, he becomes bound by some duty to marry her...🤪
Oh God.. what a sin it is to offer help to a woman in distress !!😡 No man should ever do it, especially if he is single for instead of becoming a saviour, he becomes a sinner.

Ganga is also not dumb, but very calculative. If he was a already married man, would she have fallen in love with him? Would she not have controlled her feelings? But he is single, so why not try her luck?

Why Anandi is blamed here? Dont we all see that not once she gave her opinion although she is against this rishta? She coulld have easily told sumitra or dadisa and warned them about this rishta, but she chose not to interefere. And she will not do it in future as well.

Red - If Jagya would had been already a married man then he would had his wife to share his feelings with or do his seva when he was sick or when he needed food his wife would have served him. so there would had been no chance of ganga getting closer to him in any way at all. In that case there would be no chance of him or ganga getting involved or close to each other . Then ganga would be just a guest turned family member whom the family is helping out..like teepri was or phooli was (though she stayed with them only for a few days when her child was snatched from her).

Ganga is emotionally involved with him because, she is spending more time with him. He has saved her and inspired her to take life positively. I dont think ganga is scheming and trying for a chance to get jagya.

Love, emotions, feelings develop for someone when you spend time with that person, help each other and share feelings with each other and have the same opinion/ point of view towards life. It is natural.

This is the reason many people have extra marital affairs because too much space comes in between the married couples and that space is the filled in by someone else. look at anandi jagya case.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't think Anandi should interfere in this matter at all.

In this case adults of both the families have lost their ability to think and act all because of Sanchi.

If Anandi stops the proceeding Sanchi is quite capable of forcing herself on Jagya.

Even Sumi and DS will not listen to her if she says her happiness in Shekhar household doesn't depend them accepting Sanchi's proposal.

So it is best that she keeps quiet and let them realise for themselves then only the problem will get resolved in a peceful manner with little after effects.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#26
Anandi cannot interfere the way Ganga interfered in Kanchan issue. Ganga is not related to either Singhs or Kanchan's family! She had no pressure on her. Whereas Anandi is related to both families and is literally walking a tightrope here! It's a very delicate matter for her and she cannot directly step in to stop this alliance.

But yes, she should convey to Singhs and Jagya not to take her in consideration or worry about her "troubles". Meri chinta mat karo, apna khud ka dekho! That's it!

Also, if possible, I want Anandi, Shiv and Jagya to join hands and do a drama like the film Biwi No. 1 to teach a lesson to Sanchi and make her realise what it means to be beendni of Singh family and what responsibilities she has to fulfil as Jagya's wife and Singhs' DIL! She has till only been "told" what can be in store for her. She has not seen or experienced anything. High time someone teaches her a practical lesson!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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oh jeez, why anandi needs to go abt asking ganga anythg now, apart from d fact she already knows ganga has feelings developing for jagya!

so she cant say anthg abt sacchi not being fit enough for neither singhs nor jagya, but she can say somethg abt ganga loving jagya n being a better match??

why yaar? had everybody overlooked that jagya's honest opinion n what he wants too matters here? or does he not have a say abt his own life?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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During the days when Jagya was torturing Anandi, dint some of us want him to remain with Gauri and endure her torture?? I think those days are back 😛
Instead of Gauri.. we will see Sanchi torturing him 😉
It will be great to see Gauri (Anjum) back but.. we have to be happy with Sanchi 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Idk I have a feeling that jag is only doing this to make sachi realize that she is just attracted to him but does not love him. He said yes so that he can show sachi she wont be able to live happily with him. This is what I been feeling about his acceptance for this rishta. Or sachi will eventually say no after realizing it. Idk if I made sense.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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if anandi interfere in jagya's decision ...there ll be a big war btw sachi and anandi...sachi won't mind insulting anandi...and nobody is going to support anandi...!!!...it would be disgusting...its better she doedn't interfere in these matters..!!..whenthe elders r so irresponsible...y she has to care...??...let them suffer cause of their decision...

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